Online Stalker

Brenton of Aussielicious has started the voting process for his Self-Portrait Challenge.   Check out the fifteen hot men and one woman who submitted pics, especially the cover boy, Handsome Hiram.   I shamelessly voted for myself to ensure that I get at least one vote.  :-)

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I've achieved yet another milestone on my gay journey.... I have my very own online stalker!

I hooked up with "Bruce" who I will now call Stalker Dude on just one occasion over a year ago.  Since then, he has initiated chats with me on both pof.com and squirt.org  five different times, the most recent one being this week. 

These chats quickly became aggressive, vulgar and nasty but it took me a few minutes to realize that it was always the same person.  Each time, he used a new profile, five different ones so far, some of which listed a different city.  

When I blogged about Bruce last year, I was fairly complimentary because he was the first skilled gay guy I'd been with and it was the first time I'd cum in the presence of another man.   But I had no intention of having an second hookup because I wasn't completely comfortable with him.  Bruce:

• was 50 years old but still in the closet 
• lived at home with his elderly parents
• had his bedroom decorated with a sea of Laura Ashley floral prints
• had poster-sized framed photographs of the family's now-dead poodles with their fur done up in pink ribbons.
• wasn't a great kisser and had a prickly moustache
• was somewhat patronizing about my lack of experience with men.

As well, I wasn't particularly attracted to him physically.  When I left his house, I never suggested that I'd message him again nor that I was interested in another hookup.  But in his confused mind, he apparently thought that he had found 'the one.'

The stalker episodes all started out with a chat request from some unfamiliar profile which I usually accepted out of curiosity.  The conversation seemed fairly normal for about the first twenty seconds, then Stalker Dude always got aggressive and started firing questions too quickly for me to anwer:

Stalker Dude:    "What sort of men are you attracted to?
Do you like being fucked up the ass?
How many guys do you have sex with in one week?
Do you hook up with guys in hotels?"

Buddy Bear:  "I think we've met before."

Stalker Dude:  (flipping out and getting aggressive)   "You're just a player!  Out to screw as many guys as possible!!  You and Ron* are just the same!!   
Buddy Bear:   blocks his profile and logs off.

During this week's episode, a guy claiming to be from Toronto started a chat on POF.  But this time,  I recognized Stalker Dude's questioning style at an early stage and said "I think we met a year ago."

Stalker Dude:  (flipping out again) Yes, we met!  Before you started your Fuckfest,  before you started fucking every guy in town!  I know that you moved...  I know you live on  ______ Drive!!

Buddy Bear: blocks his profile and logs off.

Whew!  That was a bit worrisome!  I never told him my exact address but he might be able to get it from one of the (many) men I've entertained at home.  One thing's for sure, if he shows on up on my doorstep, I'm calling the police!

*  Ron was my "Special Guy", the married guy who I was involved with last year who also had hooked up, once, with Stalker Dude.   He had somehow figured out that Ron and I were a couple.