I've been on the hookup sites for just over a year now and I keep expecting the "Fresh Meat Syndrome" to wear off. Anyone newly-registered on a site will get a great many offers. But after a while, he starts to look like a piece of browning fruit that's been sitting on the grocery store shelf too long; the one that no one wants.
That hasn't been really my experience. I'm still getting plenty of offers from guys who are unfamiliar to me but now I have many "repeats," men who want to hook up with me again.
It's becoming a real problem: too many men who want to be with me, not enough time. I don't want them to think that I am blowing them off; that I don't find them desirable.
I spent the evening considering the pros and cons of my top dozen potential candidates. Here are a few:
1. Even with his Parkinson's, Mr. Handsome does drive a car but I'd be concerned about him finding his way out here, 30 km in the country. Our encounters are super-hot but we were just together three days ago ....too soon!
2. Although I've made it clear to my Fuck Buddyy from the start that I'm not ready for a LTR, I'm concerned that he sees me as a potential boyfriend but the feeling is not mutual. Since our fuck-less evening together, he's proposed a walk in the park and a dinner in a restaurant but I don't want to invite him to my home.
3. Doug (my coffee friend who is HIV+) is very hot, fit and extremely experienced. I know he'd share my bed in a flash and has made that offer many times. But he's so lonely and so wanting an LTR that I'd worry that he might start to become clingy.
4. The 6'-7" university student from Trinidad, with beautiful dark skin, smooth as honey, has texted me a few times. He has his own car and would love to visit me again. When / if he does come, we've already discussed that I plan to offer my bottom to him.
5. I've been messaged (separately) by a couple of sweet 22 year olds over the past several months who really, really want to get together with me. Although I've been hooking up more with guys my age recently, I still have a craving for young cock every now and then. But since neither of them has a car and I'd have to make two round trips into town to get them, 30 minutes each way.
6, Blowjob Hottie is a man I really, really, really want to be with again. It was, by far, the best experience I've ever had giving a blowjob: handsome dude, fantastic kisser, perfect body, amazing fat cock and the most responsive, vocal and deeply appreciative blowjob recipient ever. I want to see what he can do in pleasuring me...
7. Whimpering Hottie is the ginger-haired, inexperienced 23 year old college student who was sweet, intelligent, fantastic kisser and very receptive to my love-making. As I sucked his cock, he whimpered like a little kitten. I'd love to hear that again!
My decision: I invited Whimpering Hottie to my house after school on Monday. (he eagerly accepted!!) The reasons: he's 23, hot, sexually-responsive and intelligent. But the main reason was that he forgot his expensive watch at my house after our last hookup and I've been feeling guilty about it! After Whimpering Hottie leaves, I'll considering inviting Blowjob Hottie who is mainly available later at night.
I want to make the most of my free evening!