Before doing the nasty, Mr. Handsome and I had some lively, sexy chats on squirt.org over a couple of days. We both badly wanted to meet each other but I needed, as usual, to assure myself that he had no connection to my school.
There are just four high schools in our small, isolated city.... a small pond on Plenty of Fish! I have been messaged on gay hookup sites by students, past and present, fathers of colleagues, retired colleagues and even a closeted teaching colleague, without them knowing who I was. But by careful questioning, I've usually managed to avoid hooking up with a guy with any connection to my school community.
I needed to know where Mr. Handsome`s son went to school but he was reluctant (understandably) to divulge that information. We played a guessing game to narrow it down.
Mr. Handsome: Is your school on the north side of town? (strike one!)
Buddy Bear: Nope!
Mr. Handsome: Are you with the Catholic Board? (strike two!)
Buddy Bear: No! There are only two public high schools on the south side left to choose from.
Mr. Handsome: My son goes to _____________ . (he was teasing me ...)
Buddy Bear: Your son goes to _______________?
Mr. Handsome: My son goes to XXX High School! (strike three!)
Buddy Bear: Well, I teach at XXX High School and my son attends grade 11 there. They probably know each other. Maybe they're friends!
Mr. Handsome: Damn, damn, damn! My son is in the 'enriched programme.'
Buddy Bear: I teach mainly students in that programme. He's probably in my class!
Mr. Handsome: FUCK! Oh, what the hell!! My son's name is John* (not his real name)
Buddy Bear: I don't have any students named John in grade 11. And I didn't teach grade 10 last year. So your son never was my student! Maybe it's okay then.
Mr. Handsome: I won't tell anyone if we hook up. Never. No one knows I like guys except my ex.
Buddy Bear: Well, we`re not breaking any rules. I can be at your house in 30 minutes...
On the school database the next day, I searched all the students named "John" in grade 11. (Note: we have access to all parent contact information and use it daily) One of the Johns had the same address as Mr. Handsome. Now in full online creeper mode, I did a Google image search of Mr. Handsome's first name with his son's last name. Yes, it was him all right, pictured there with his son!
OMFG! Mr. Handsome's son had been my student last year! Unbenownst to me, John had been my grade 11 class last year but when he was in grade 10. I must admit, I felt a bit awkward seeing him in the hallway later that day. John doesn't know: (1) that is father is gay and (2) that I am gay and (3) that his father had sex with me, his last year's teacher. Here`s the problem:
- If I don`t see Mr. Handsome again, he will assume that he was dumped because of his disability.
- I don`t want to tell him this news by texting....it must be face-to-face.
- The only way I`ll see him face-to-face is for a second hookup.
- I want to hook up with Mr. Handsome again, very much....it was so hot!
What to do? What to do? A tricky situation!