Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Boyfriend ... soulmate ... twin flame

After nearly 700 posts and five years' of blogging, I've completely dropped off the blogging bandwagon.  I haven't posted for months; indeed, I've even stopped reading and commenting on any of my online friends' blogs. What happened?

Explorer Jack figured it out when he e-mailed me in August:

"I've missed your blog, and your updates, but I know exactly how you feel.  I guess the lack of blogging indicates that you now officially have a boyfriend?

That does take the interest out of public sharing for sure."

During the horror and excitement of my coming out, separation, divorce and my early exploration of gay sex, blogging was of primary importance to me. I relied on my blog for the world-wide network of support it provided me, along with an eager audience for my stories and an inexhaustible supply of experienced advice.

But at this moment, there is virtually nothing I am willing to share about my life right now.   The kids all continue to do well and things are calm with my ex-wife.  Her texts to me are now few and far between (once every 3 - 4 months) and are usually positive.

Jack was correct!  I now have a "boyfriend" but that word could not possibly describe the connection we have.   Others we know have described us as "twin flames" and my daughter described us as her "model couple."

It's as though we've been waiting for each other all our lives.  We first met nearly a year ago but things got really, really intense over the summer.

My sweetie is smart, funny, romantic, worldly, successful, intelligent and has a wide and devoted circle of family and friends.   He also 39, some 13.5 years younger than me, handsome, sexy, skilled and as horny as hell.  And we're completely smitten with each other. :-O

He will be reading this entire blog soon and together, we will decide what I should do with it.  But for the moment, all I can say is that I'm happier than I've ever been in my life. 

But for old time's sake, here are some blurry cell phone pics of me taken within the past two weeks.






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    1. Thank you! The best advice I can offer for finding your special man is this: "Stop looking!" He will appear eventually. lol

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  2. I'm so happy for you! I wish you both all the best!
    When will we see your BF in Undies? LOL
    Hugs

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    1. Thanks you Rick! . But the underwear pic won't be happening anytime soon, if ever. Sorry, Rick!

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  3. Such good news! Couldn't be happier for you. I wish you all the happiness you deserve!

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  4. Well, I'm glad to hear you're alive and well!

    I urge you to keep your blog open.

    I remember my first years blogging, and stumbling upon your blog too. Knowing there were/are people out there like me helped me cope a lot.

    Your blog has the benefit of an ending, and it sounds like a happy ending at that. This may give hope to some reader in the future. Reading through your blog also let's us know that happiness is not an impossible outcome.

    From all of your readers (and friends) thanks for checking in and giving us some closure.

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    1. Yes, the blog will remain open, as long as Blogger cooperates with that! It may not be the end of this blog; I don't really know at this point. And yes, we're extremely happy!

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    1. Thank you, Mike. That means a lot to me!

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  6. Glad to hear all is well with you and the "other half". Drop in if you have something to share; otherwise continue to build your (plural) new life.

    gerry

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    1. I just might 'drop in' from time to time. :-)

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  7. Such great good news! And you are only 13.5 years older - practically the same age compared to me and my 24 years younger husband!

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  8. Happy to hear that you've "settled down."

    All my best wishes for both of you.

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  9. Glad to hear you are alive and well....even more very happy. Stay that way. I wish you luck.

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  10. How cruel! Now I can't fantasize about moving to the "Great White North" and cuddling with you in your cozy place. Oh well, maybe there's still a chance at a triad?

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  11. Your connecting wears well on you. ENJOY!

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  12. eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! my canadian boyfriend is back and in a relationship! I am so happy for you!

    glad to hear the kids are doing well also.

    share with us what you can when you can; keep warm and well, dear buddybear!

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    1. Thank you, sweetie! You've been my biggest supporter for many years and I love you for it!

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  13. I've kept checking back and have been rewarded finally with news so good that I could not have imagined it. VERY happy for you!

    Now, the amazing part--your description of your new love and the details--a 13 year age difference, "twin flames," "model couple," happier than you've been in your entire life and your daughter's picking up on that, are all uncannily like my meeting my dearly loved husband Fritz. He was the elder of us (and, sadly, passed last April). But I could wish nothing better for you than the happiness he and I shared for 18 tremendous years. Big hugs, congratulations and continued, ever deepening happiness!

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    1. Thanks, Will! We've discussed many times over the years our similarities in our tastes in men, our life histories, raising our children etc. ... and now this! Amazing!

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  14. Congratulations!!! All the best!

    XO FFB

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  15. Congratulations!
    I hope all the for you two!
    I wish you did not delete the blog since it is part of your history and important for people who are going throgh the same situation.

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    1. Thank you for your best wishes! I will leave the blog 'up' for just the reasons you mentioned..

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  16. I've followed you every step of the way--and you've arrived!
    Well done, you.

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  17. I love those bulges..... Its making me hard....

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  18. Just reading this now (sorry I'm so behind since trying to finish this new book). LOVE hearing this! You deserve it.

    Text me sometime!

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  19. Congratulations Guys! Good luck and maybe some time later you can update us. My now hubby is 10 years older than me on paper. We are in year 29 together having raised my biological child from 4 years to 32! Be well and enjoy the ride!

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  21. Oh my goodness. Congratulations on the relationship. I love your blog. I hope you continue it and share.

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  22. Couldn't your loyal followers have a one-year-later update on your life? Tomorrow is an anniversary.

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