Monday, January 20, 2014

A big gay fish in a small pond

This is a very quick Monday morning post before I head off to school.  After a week of balmy weather, we're back in a temporary deep freeze with temperatures of -30 C.  So here are some pictures from Hard in my Speedos to warm our thoughts.

A while back, a guy I was "dating"  (two restaurant dinners + one hookup at his house) described me as an "A-list Gay."  I don't have the slightest idea what he meant.

I mainly wear clothing from thrift shops supplemented with the odd item stolen from lost-and-found boxes, rarely brush my hair let alone use "product", and regularly show up at school with my shirt inside-out, wearing mismatched socks.

I'd consider designer Tom Ford to be an A-list Gay on the world scene.  For a Canadian gay A-list, I'd include one of the many high-ranking gay Canadian politicans such as Premier Kathleen Wynne or singer kd lang.

But soon, I will be rubbing elbows with the A-list gays in my remote hick town.  I've been accepted to serve on the organizing committee for our local Pride festivities!  Woo-hoo!  In fact, I think they want me to join two committees.... one dealing with LGBTQ issues all year long and one focused on Pride Week.  I may not have time for both.

I haven't meet most of the committee members yet but they are definitely the gay movers and shakers in town.  The list includes an elected politician, a teachers' union president, business leaders and people who head up social service agencies.

The committee also includes the gay 'power couple' I mentioned recently, the principal of our largest elementary school and his teacher-husband.

By serving on this committee, I will certainly meet LGBTQ folks from a wider circle than the people I usually deal with which could only be a good thing.  As well, I will be able to push forward the LGBTQ cause at a different level and continue my quest to be a great, gay role model for LGBTQ folks of all ages.
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On the hookup front, I found myself accidentally triple-booked for Sunday with men who were 25, 27 and 44, all of whom wanted to drive the 30 km to my house for some sexytime.  I had scheduled the 25 year old to visit me to visit me on Saturday but he was called into work so we rescheduled for Sunday.  He's a handsome, funny and quite chubby, a licensed practical nurse who is horny as hell and a bear-in-training.

I hadn't met the 27 year old before but he'd been messaging me for months on pof.com, "playing footsie", I call it.   He's employed, inexperienced, slim and handsome but perhaps not too smart judging from his profile name:  Frendly_Guy_1987.  lol

I had invited him over on Sunday but I meant last week, but he texted me yesterday saying that he was ready to come over, right then!

Then, I got a text from Miner Dude who was in town for the weekend from his home 300 km away.  Fun fact:  he works in a hard-rock mine which is 4.2 km deep!  He's the shy aboriginal guy who I've been with several times before, a sweet kisser and quite skilled in pleasuring men.

But it was no contest:   I ignored the text from the 27 year old  (I'll apologize to him today), told the 25 year old that we would get together another day and invited Miner Dude over for a few hours of sweet sexytime.  I now consider him a true Fuck Buddy, my first.   




 


17 comments:

  1. you are an A-list person, buddybear...AN A-LIST FRIEND! have a great week, and congrats on being picked for the pride committee!

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    1. Thanks, anne marie! I've said it before, I would travel to Philly just to have lunch with you .... and I plan to do so one day!

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  2. Miner dude! Good choice! Just like how you dress and how you look. Good choice! I said you were a natural hot and I mean it. Some men can be hot but with too much stuff to go with such as make up, hair style and clothing. For you a natural. Maybe that's why men text you and wanna connect. Thanks for the pics! I'm about to go to Florida for a month and see these men in speedos is hot! The bulge of the young one in green is hot too

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    1. Thanks, Rick, for the great compliments! You're the only blogger who has ever seen me completely naked!!

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    2. I'm jealous i wanna see what you look like face wise.

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  3. Anne Marie nails it -- it's irrelevant where you shop or how you do (or don't) comb your hair. Your are an A-lister because of who you ARE, not because you do or don't use products.

    I think you sorted out your three hook-ups the right way. Miner Dude has limited availability and was obviously a great guy when you first had sex. Coincidentally, I spoke of the Joy of Fuck Buddies in your last post and hope you have as good an experience as I had with all of mine.

    Congratulations on being part of the Pride Team. Not only will you meet great people, you'll be able to use your skills, experience and imagination fully. Win-win. Hugs!

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    1. Thanks, Will! There's a never-ending supply of 20-something horny dudes, but a sweet fuck buddy like Miner Dude is a rare find!

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  4. You're A-list in my book! And I love these speedo-clad guys you chose to share. It's great that you will become even more involved in the community as a volunteer, an advocate, and a role model.

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    1. Wow!! You're too kind! Thanks for commenting and for all your support!

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  5. It's GREAT that you are working with your Pride organization! Yes, LGBTQ folks of all ages need good role models, especially the younger ones, and seeing A-listers like you out there, doing good work, setting the example means a lot to them. It proves that we are normal, everyday people to everyone else, too. Thank you for all that you do!

    Peace <3
    Jay

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    1. Your welcome, Jay! I am just following your example.

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  6. Back in the 80’s, A-gay used to be a term to describe an affluent, well-connected, upwardly mobile gay man or woman. It gained popularity when Armistead Maupin used the term in his Tales of the City series of books. Today, the term has many uses and definitions.

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    1. Thanks for that historical perspective! That was good to know!

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  7. Honey, you're not even close to A list. You are A+ list!

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