Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Legally separated.

These pics are from yummygingermen.tumblr.com  in honour of the sweet ginger lad who shared my bed on Monday.

On Sunday evening, my wife phoned to demand that we change our separation agreement so that she would receive the full alimony payment even if I suffered a reduction in income for health reasons, such as cancer or my spinal problem.  

As it was, the agreement allowed for a percentage reduction in alimony payments should my income be reduced due to illness.  I snarled at her, pointing out that spousal support was designed to equalize our incomes and not to provide a bottomless slush fund for her .... so she backed down  yet again.  I was pretty digusted with her at that moment, but it was just her anxiety talking.... I'll get over it.

 On Monday,  my lawyer and I signed numerous copies of our Separation Agreement dozens of times.  Legally separated, at last!!!   With the assistance of our lawyer-mediator at a different firm, we will file for a joint, uncontested divorce in a week or two.

After the signing, I literally raced out the door.   A 23 year old, sexually-inexperienced college dude was due at my house in thirty minutes, eager for some sexytime.

Whimpering Hottie, as I will call him, showed up early, handsome and slightly on the chunky side, but I forgive that on a young man.  He was of Swedish descent;  bright red hair, fair skinned and very blue of eye.  He had the most beautiful fat cut cock, decent length and a big pair of low-hangers, my favourite!  Whimpering Hottie was the most amazing kisser.... big, pouty, muscular lips the best tongue action I've ever experienced.  

What I liked most was his responsiveness;   as I worked my magic on his cock, balls and asshole, he gasped, moaned and caught his breath.   When I gave him a prostate massage and a well-lubed and aggressive ass-crack massage, he whimpered audibly .... something I've never heard a man do!!  It gave me so much pleasure to give him that much pleasure.  

Gosh it was fun!  Bringing him to the edge and making him whimper and then backing off for a while and then bringing him to a whimper again.  I felt like a virtuosos playing a violin.
He had wanted to lose his bottom virginity to me but I decided that it would better to wait for our second encounter.  I was concerned that the mechanics of  topping him (and his potential discomfort) would have ruined the sweet intimacy which we were enjoying.

Afterwards, Whimpering Hottie and I lay in bed for over two hours, limbs entwined, kissing sweetly and talked and talked and talked.  We talked about families, coming out... or not coming out, our sexual experiences and our jobs.  He was a part-time student and worked full-time in the admissions department at our local college so we had much in to talk about;  education and student success.    If he was 20 years older... even 15 years... I'd never have let him go!

Finally, he tore himself away and drove off into the cold, darkness but forgot his expensive watch on my bedside table.  I texted him later, promising to deliver it to him the next day.  He said, "Don't worry about it;  I'll get it the next time we're together!"    Sweet!!

16 comments:

  1. that means you're soon going to have more hookups then ever, right !?:)

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    1. More hookups? Maybe, maybe not. I'll still have the problem of not being able to host as often as I'd like.

      But I will be able to be honest with my kids about why Dad needs "alone time" at home. As well, I might be at the stage where I'm seeking quality instead of quantity.

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  2. It's funny that fingering a guy gives you the least amount of sensation of anything-- your body isn't even near him, and your dick isn't involved-- but it can be one of the most exciting things you do to a guy when he's very responsive. Sometimes it makes me feel like I'm going to cum, when a guy is that into it! Glad to hear you found a live one.

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  3. he sounds great, but I'm gonna guess he ain't no virgin!!!

    Pete

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    1. CoolTop: I agree! The biggest turn-off for me is when a guy (of any age, no matter now hot) lies there like a dead fish.

      Anonymous: He told me he had limited experience with guys; oral only. One of his goals was to try bottoming.

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    2. what, some guys do that??? what about the animalisyic sexual overdrive !?!?

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    3. JF: I'm not quite sure what you were referring to when you say "some guys do that???" Whimpering Hottie did say he was a bit nervous.

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    4. oh sorry!! ;) I was referring to guys laying there like a deadfish.... that has to be a huge turn off!!

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    5. JF: I've only had a couple of guys do that (which I've blogged about).... it's the biggest turn-off for me. Sometimes their passivity causes me to get soft even when I'm sucking their cock.

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  4. Congratulations on the separation! It's been a long time in the works. You must be very, very happy to achieved this milestone.

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  5. I love feedback. I think I'm pretty good in bed, and it's nice to be acknowledged.

    Glad the separation has been finalized. I hope there's no more outbursts and oddball demands. Much relief, no doubt.

    Peace <3
    Jay

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  6. TwoLives: Thanks! It's been THREEE years since my wife found pics of naked men on my laptop, TWO years since we separated.

    Jay M: Yes, I often ask for feedback from a guy I'm pleasuring.

    My wife and I will still have to collaborate on many things such as our 16 year-old son's expenses (and general parenting issues), some of our daughters' university costs and lots of tax stuff. But we both are much happier.... this will make reaching consensus pretty effortless.

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  7. Actually, CoolTop, I do get a lot of sensation fingering men. There are several positions you can get into that allow body contact, coordinated fingering and sucking (which usually gets a BIG reaction), all sorts things.

    BB, this is not serious psychology, but I think a lot of your ex's throwing sudden complications into the process is that she's actually afraid of the final break and is trying to delay it as long as possible.

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    1. Will: yes, I never just finger a guy's asshole and prostate. I ALWAYS combine it with kissing (his lips), sucking his cock or whatever else comes to mind.

      I agree with your assessment of my wife being afraid to let go. My closet confidant at school, a teacher colleague who has worked with each of us, has often said the exactly same thing!

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  8. Since I expect I'll be reading more about your exploits in the future, I'll focus my comments on this milestone with your wife. Congratulations on the legal status and separation. After following you for quite sometime, I have an inkling how long this road has been with more than its share of surprise twists and turns.

    BosGuy

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