Both my wife and I are very frugal and are committed to keeping our legal fees at a minimum. So we refused to let our lawyer-mediator print off the five copies needed for which we would have been billed hundreds of dollars. Instead, my wife had it e-mailed it to me and I printed it out at my workplace at the expense of my employer.... naughty!
This may seem to be an inconsequential story but it speaks to the high degree of cooperation and trust which now exists between us. We know of many divorces in which the parties seem intent on destroying each other. But all they end up destroying are the family finances and the emotional well-being of their children.
Monday was to have been my "week off" from having my kids living with me but my son has extended his stay until Thursday morning. And my daughter is coming out here tonight for a few days..... I had to cancel Old Dude yet again. Darn!
In yet another missed opportunity, I was to join an sincere-sounding, masculine 54-year old gay virgin at his hotel after school yesterday. But he arrived very late after a 300 mile drive along a treacherous winter highway. I had already returned to my home, some 30 km away.
I was disappointed but mainly for him. We agreed that it would be unsafe for me to drive to his hotel that late at night. We plan to get together on his return trip two weeks from now ... I hope it happens!
|But I'd never gag a guy's mouth.....|
He asked me if I liked being aggressive when I'm with a guy. I had to think about before I answered: "Yes!" Even as a gay virgin, I very much liked to be in charge. If I'm with an aggressive guy, then I at least want to match his level of aggressiveness.
Buddy Bear: Why? What do you have in mind?
Submissive Dude: i prefer bottom and i like being a sub plus a lil bit of being tied up
BB: Wow! Hot! Count me in!
I need to learn more about these dominant-submissive roles in sex play ..... I know nothing about it. But I must admit, just the idea of pleasuring a naked, handsome guy who's been tied up is quite exciting. I'm getting hard just thinking about it. :-)