|Recent pic of Perfect Physical Specimen|
Being a high school teacher in the small(ish) city where you've lived your entire life means public anonymity is nearly impossible.
Every time I venture out into public, I run into many people I know such as students, parents or siblings of students and work colleagues, past and present. I also run into friends, relatives or people with whom I went to elementary school, high school or university.
The same problems exist on the online hookup sites. I've been messaged by former students, closeted work colleagues (present and retired) and people I know in other capacities including a publicly-elected official. I knew who they were but they didn't know me.
When I'm messaged by a guy in his twenties, the first question I always ask: "What high school did you go to?" About 25% of them are former students at my school. The conversation usually goes like this:
Buddy Bear: I teach at the same school you went to.
Horny Young Dude: cool i want to meet u. im horny
BB: Never! I'm not hooking up with someone who might have been in my class.
Horny Young Dude: wont tell anyone cant remember any of my teachers anyway.
Horny Young Dude: plz. so hot sucking my teachers cock
BB: Dude! It ain't happening!!! NEVER!
When Perfect Physical Specimen messaged me for a back seat blowjob last August, he told me that he attended high school in another province. Woo-hoo! Green light for Buddy Bear!
Although I haven't hooked up with Perfect Physical Specimen since October (he lives too far away), we chat using POF's instant messaging system several times a week, always initiated by him. He tells me about his problems with girls and other drama going on his life. He also hints about us having sex again as I posted about in my post "I'll hold my butt cheeks open for you".
This week Perfect Physical Specimen posted some new pics on his POF profile, including the picture in the top left corner. (I cropped his handsome face off....) He also posted a family group picture showing two dumpy parents and four brothers. Perfect Physical Specimen was the oldest of the boys.
To my horror, I recognized the third youngest brother. He's presently a student in my grade 12 class AND had been my student in grades 11 and 10. Shiiiiit!!! Shiiiiit!!! Shiiiiit!!!
Buddy Bear: Who are those other people?
PPS: My parents and three younger brothers.
Buddy Bear: Hmmmm... what do your brothers do?
PPS: My 22 year old brother goes to college in town; my younger two brothers go to _____ High School. (my school)
This means: (1) I won't be sucking Perfect Physical Specimen's cock, ever again, no matter how nicely he asks. and (2) I might have to skip out of this year's graduation ceremony in June where I'm usually on stage giving out awards. Imagine how awkward it would be at the meet-and-greet afterwards when my student introduces me to his parents and his oldest brother, Perfect Physical Specimen. Yikes!