If only I could find one of these perfect physical specimens who is also sweet, smart, romantic, sexually-skilled , "out" and has a strong libido. I'd also want him to be sexually compatible with me and close to my age +/- 10 years, ready for a commitment and with a good job. Is that too much to ask?
Another important consideration: Mr. Wonderful would have to be in love with me and me with him. Maybe I'm naive to think this way, but I'm confident that he's out there .... but I'm not quite ready for him yet!
I've actually hooked up with numerous guys who looked like this but they were either: (1) married (2) unemployed or semi-employed, working at a minimum wage job (3) two or three decades younger than me or (4) closeted and living at home with their mothers or (5) lived in a far-away city.
- The new age restrictions on pof.com suck big time! I've only had one message all week, a proposition from a slim, 37 year old crossdresser. I was actually considering hooking up with him when his profile was deleted by the adminstrators for sexual content.
- I miss all the messages from all those delicious, inexperienced 22 year old men!
- I've been too busy with work to try other sites such as grindr.com or to set up a new pof.com account with a fake, younger age. June is a very busy time for teachers here!
- After one week with all three kids here, I'm rather enjoying an evening alone. In fact, I'll be kid-less for the rest of the week but made have arrangements for a couple of gentlemen callers to visit later this week.
- Big Red was actually available (and willing) tonight for some sweet sexytime, but I am having a performance appraisal at work on Wednesday and I have much to prepare. I'm dreading it, actually. My last one was in 1995!
- PRIDE WEEK NEWS: I have signed on to volunteer at several different events during our city's Pride Week: the LGBTQ film festival, Drag Queen Night and the Pride Picnic. Very exciting!
- On a more distressing note, I'm having some pretty serious cash flow problems right now with my new mortgage, $1,200/month spousal support payments and all the usual bills. I got all misty-eyed when my 19 year old daughter gave me $400 of her own earings, over my objections, to help out.