|This pic is quite over-exposed and is a rather daring one, for me. But I'm sure that some of you will like it.|
I'm posting three pics taken this morning under the theme: "Creative things to do with Mardi Gras Beads."
It's the Victoria Day weekend here and finally we have a bit sunshine after the lousiest weather imaginable..... windy, very cold with a driving rain which prompted local authorities to issue flood warnings for our rivers, already swollen from the spring snow melt. I have two stories to report on:
A: Late last night, I got a pof.com message from Beautiful Torso Guy who was in a nearby hotel for the night and wondered if I was interested. Was I interested? Hold me back!!!
We had a very pleasant encounter but not nearly as lengthy or exciting as our first meeting where he ended up with a dislocated shoulder. This time, he had been up since 5:30 am and prior to that, had only 2.5 hours sleep, so he was very, very tired. But that made our encounter so much sweeter; it was like making love to a langorous wildcat, stretching and basking in the sun.
Afterwards, we chatted and caught up on our work, family and romantic news. I'd describe ours as a true 'fuck buddy' relationship but as he lives over 500 km away, he's in town only four or five times per year. He's just the nicest, funniest, sexiest, most uncomplicated guy I've met so far.
B: This weekend, I heard yet again from Dating Guy (who I dated for a week in January) and who resurfaced two months later to tell me that he "really, really liked me." I blogged about him at that time, saying how I really wasn't comfortable with him.... in fact, had NO interest in him at all.
Dating Guy: Hi
Buddy Bear: How have you been?
Dating Guy: Been so great lately. Down a couple pounds. Which helps the energy level. But Unfortunately had also increased my sex drive. But on the up side I'm getting alot of offers.
Buddy Bear: Great! I'd think that an increased sex drive is a good thing.
Dating Guy: Way too many twinks here. I need to find a mans man.
Buddy Bear: Most of the guys our age in this town are married and / or in the closet!
Dating Guy: And if course I have the night weekend free and me without a sex date. Lol. Just phone calls away though. I'm back in the saddle babe. :)
Buddy Bear: I'm glad to hear you're back in the saddle! It's time for me to be really honest here and say that I wouldn't be comfortable hooking up with you. I'm sorry that I feel this way and it would be hard to explain the "why", but that's how it is. :-(
Dating Guy: Please don't miss read thAt as me putting you in that loop. Don't get me wrong but I'm not interested in ever having any romantic or physical involvement with you. What we did was fine , but who would we be kindling if we didn't admit there was no chemistry there. You're an okay person to chat with but I had realized awhile ago you weren't someone I wanted any more from. (.... and he went on with more of the same....)
My views on this last message:
1. I think he's full of shit! I'm certain that he was still trying to get me into his bed.
2. He also told me that my message (above) was really blunt; it probably was but what else was a boy to do? All the subtle messages from me were having no effect. Another fact: when he was at my house a few weeks ago and tried to give me a blowjob in my kitchen, my cock went as limp as yesterday's lettuce. I just wasn't interested in him!!
3. But I really hope that we will end up platonic gay friends! He is smart, wickedly funny and knows all the local gay gossip. I think this might be possible.
|What's missing is a sexy man to snuggle up to.|