I'm not sure that we're very compatible because he doesn't like the discomfort of traveling, never goes outside in the winter, seems a bit of a stick-in-the-mud and seems way more sophisticated than me. I'd describe myself as white trash who cleans up well but only as needed.
He was partnered with a man for many years who sadly passed away 12 years ago and he hasn't been actively dating since. In short, I liked Lawyer Dude and told him so; he said he felt the same about me.
I also told him that after 20 years of marriage and the horror of the past four years, I was in no way ready to get serious about anyone or even to seriously date. I said that he really needed to understand that. He seem to understand and so as we parted, we agreed to "do something" together one day. Keep it casual.
I still have mixed feelings about the whole thing but for a coffee date which I had been dreading, it turned out to be quite okay.
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As to this post's provocative title, I was showering at the athletic complex just before my coffee date when I experienced my first cock-teasing shower dude. This is a common experience for most gay guys but not for me!As I started to shower, I noticed a fit, mid-30s guy across from me with a magnificent, fat cock ... one of the nicest I've seen.
As I sneaked a sideways glance at him, he turned to face me directly and began to slowly, luxuriously, lather up his cock and balls. I took a second look and he locked eyes with me: OMFG! Direct eye contact in the shower.... what a taboo!
I should add that this not some cruis-y gay gym but a very family-oriented place filled with kids, teens and many of my students who work as lifeguards. The communal shower room forms the main passageway between the men's change room and the pool / lifeguard station ... constant traffic!
I enjoyed his shower show for another moment and locked eyes with him again ....Fondling Shower Guy stared me down in a provocative way. Suddenly, I lost my nerve and left for the locker room and in fact, Lawyer Dude was expecting me in ten minutes.
But the next time I see the Fondling Shower Guy, I plan to deal with him a bit more bravely. He was very hot... and sexy. His cock just looked delicious.
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Been there done that! Dated and then was in a relationship with a man in a business suit. Straight acting and very clean cut. He wanted me to stop wearing my torn jeans and casual clothes, my trash ways. Of course the relationship did not last. Made me wonder where was my mind to even allow it to begin. I stayed my way!
ReplyDeleteI sure hope you run into the man in the shower again! That would be kewl. Hope you would recognize him on the street in clothes, so if he smiles or look at you, you can smile back.
Again for a small town way up north BC, you are doing well.
Thanks! So far I haven't contacted Lawyer Dude but he sent me a friend request on Facebook. I haven't decided what to do.
DeleteGo very very slow!
DeleteRick, I agree completely! As a teacher in a smalllish city, I wouldn't want to be accused of lewd, inappropriate behaviour in a locker room. It would be highly embarrassing for me, my family and also could be professionally damaging.
DeleteMany of my students work at the athletic complex and in fact, the life guard station is only about 12 feet away. So the chances of me fooling around / picking up guys there is very slim.
The chunky guy in the first gif is adorable :)
ReplyDeleteYes he is adorable! But CHUNKY! Seriously? He looks quite fit to me!
DeleteLooks like porn. The chick who came is is wearing a g-string. Okay, chunky isn't the word. Beefy! And just my type :)
DeleteGentleman #3 (bottom left) really holds my attention--nice guy type, lovely body and fur, and a nice, fleshy cock that would be a pleasure to, ah, pleasure!
ReplyDeleteI hope you wind up seeing cock-teasing dude across the shower room again some time. This sort of thing happens and I think it would be good if you became able to deal with it more routinely, give an amused nod back, whatever, but be able to just take it as it comes. I know you were aware of others in the that section of the gym if not actually in the showers, but he surely was interested in you and that can't be bad.
I'm sure i'll see him again... I don't do well in first-time situations when I'm caught by surprise. Next time, I will be prepared to flirt right back.
DeleteWhen it rains, it pours -- at least for you. One ready in the shower, and one waiting in the coffee shop. Too many decisions in too short a time.
ReplyDeleteI say friend "lawyer dude" on Facebook -- you might learn more about him, either positive or negative.
I agree David
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