Monday, October 29, 2012

Giving pleasure to men

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Since I had the hot blowjob session with the 35 year old  married guy (his profile name is BigHammer!) he's messaged me twice requesting round two.  Sadly, the timing wasn't right for us to hook up.

Some online friends have recently expressed the opinion that I am short-changing myself regarding gay sex;  that nearly all of my recent hookups have involved me giving pleasure to the some inexperienced young man.  I'll admit, I've only had one or two really great blowjobs and I've never cum the few times I bottomed or topped.   I know that I really need to find a really experienced versatile guy who can show me the ins and outs of anal sex.

While I would prefer some reciprocation eventually, right now, this is what works for me.  I live about 20 minutes out of town so most hookups can't '/ won't drive to where I am.  My son seems to be living here most of the time now:  hosting is difficult.   We are working non-stop, all weekend and after work on weekdays to prepare for this, my first winter in my new house.   All of this combined with my demanding day job means that I'm too tired for anything too adventurous.

 So, if BigHammer wants to drive out to experience my oral skills, I say, "My mouth is all yours, horny guy!"  At this stage of my gay sexual education, my goal is to devote my life to learning how to pleasure a man.  Practice!  Practice!  Practice!  I especially  love practicing my blowjob skills on such a muscular guy with big, beefy thighs.

--------------------------------------------How about if I finish off Sean's TMI Thursday's questions which I started on the last post?

#5:    The number of careers you've had.  Best?  Worst?
I did all the usual grass-cutting and painting jobs starting as a very young child.... this is pretty much demanded of kids in an immigrant family.   I spent several summers working as a hospital laundry boy.  I collected and washed five tons per day (dry weight) of shitty, pissy, pukey and bloody laundry.   I loved this job for it's warm and colleagial working environment. 

I then worked as a professional engineer in the chemical manufacturing industry for nearly eight years.  In the end, I grew to hate it because of the brutality with which the companies treated their non-union staff.  I spent much of the latter part of my engineering career looking for an escape.

Now as a high school teacher, I love every moment I spent in class with my.  I am so lucky!  It is so much fun working with young people and I have a strong sense that I am making a difference in others' lives.   I have the highest possible level of job satisfaction!   :-)

#6:  The number of operations you've had.  Lots! 
  • At five, I had an operation to lower an undescented testicle.  They didn't find it, so that's why have a uni-ball which works just fine, thank you very much. 
  • At 12 and again at 14, I broke my thumb skiing and cycling, respectively.  Each time, I had general anesthetic to set the break because each break included a disclocation.  The second incident had to be set with pins because my thumb was broken in two places. 
  • At 19, I had a massive involvement of a malignant melanoma which had metasized widely.  I had several lengthy and invasive radical surgeries;  first with the original cancer and months later when I had a couple of recurrences which required even more invasive surgery.
#7:  The number of significant others you've been in love with.
Even though I was gay and didn't know it, I truly believed I loved my wife for much of our marriage.  Even now, I feel a strong affection for her (when she is a vulnerable state and not angry) and a strong hope that things will work out for her.

I was heavily involved with my Special Guy, a married man, for four months early this year when I was at my most vulnerable.  (I haven't yet blogged about him... my feelings are still too raw)  I did believe that I loved him ... or at least the part of him that he allowed me to see.   Or maybe I was just "in lust" with him.   I really don't know.

9 comments:

  1. I'm very eager to learn more about your Special Guy. No need to spill it all out in one post. A little here and there will help get your thoughts worked out and your raw feelings tamed.

    Greg and I want to come see your home (and YOU!!), but it would take days to drive there. Does the train come anywhere near you?

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  2. I've been thinking about your recent posts and while I have never understood it, there a significant number of men who just love cock. They worship it, relish it, service it, dream of it and crave it like air. They are cocksuckers and the rest of us just suck cock. Until you've had the pleasure of one of their hot, moist mouths on your cock you haven't really had your cock sucked. Most men are good to great at sucking cock but when a true cocksucker does it, YOU KNOW IT! You are transported to another plane of existence. They also tend to not need much of anything else - no reciprocation or fucking. Maybe you're just a cocksucker!? It's not a bad thing. A man of your looks, talent and horniness shouldn't have to work so hard at the whole anal thing.

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    1. Thanks, Sean, for your excellent, experienced advice!! Yes, I have a case of cock worship and I hope it never goes away. I sucked the cock of the 35 year old married guy for the second time last night and it was as amazing as our first encounter. He really appreciates my skills.

      But I don't want to limit myself to only that. I had a fantastic time topping Hunky 22 year old.... it is only bottoming that I'm "working at", so maybe it wasn't meant to be.

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    2. Now you got me very curious too... My cock has been sucked a few times....But I never thought about it....

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  3. Your bottoming is something your top-partner should be "working at" with you. Maybe even more so. I wrote a ridiculously long post about my thoughts and experience with that.

    I really wanted to comment about the Special Guy part:
    "I did believe that I loved him ... or at least the part of him that he allowed me to see. Or maybe I was just 'in lust' with him. I really don't know." That is very insightful. Prefaced with your saying your feelings are still too raw, this sounds like the kind of post I'm really going to be interested in. It will seem like you're writing about someone else, but in the end it'll be an introspective about yourself.

    #7: The number of significant others you've been in love with.

    - In what's probably a similar way to how you love your ex-wife, I loved my high school girlfriend. I've thought about our similarities on this as I've read your posts about her. Completely different circumstances and thought processes, but there's an essence there that is very much the same. I loved Jessica but I was not in love with Jessica, and it took me some time to understand that. I was in love with a boy, Dylan, in college from a distance. We never dated, never together.
    I am very much in love with my husband, Chris.

    I'm guessing Jessica and Dylan don't count, and the answer is one. Chris.
    But somehow it feels wrong to exclude them.

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  4. I also came to bottoming very late in the game and was initiated at my request by a trusted friend who took care of things, and me, in the best possible way. After my revelatory initiation, we continued to meet occasionally for two years or so for more of the same. I'm now completely versatile.

    I imagine there are a lot of your readers who would be delighted to play that role for you, not out of sexual opportunism but simply to help someone whose courageous journey we have all come to care about. When the time comes, make sure the guy will take his time and put your needs before his own. You might also consider some sex play with a dildo, which can be done in your own bedroom without hosting problems, and could make the eventual anal sex with a partner less of a nervous experience.

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