I frequently receive messages on pof.com from "straight" married guys asking for a blowjob. Many are guys are in their 50s " with a few extra pounds" listed on their profiles. In my experience, a "few extra" translates into at least forty pounds. I respond politely and tell them that I steer clear of married guys. That is more-or-less true, but truth be told, I don't like giving blowjobs with a huge belly hanging down in my face.
But my "rule" against hooking up with married guys flies out the window when he is in his sexual prime (mid 30s) and describes himself as "athletic", "handsome", "virile" and having a "thick, long, uncut cock." But these youngish married guys are much harder to get into bed than the horny 22 year olds or the less-sought-after older men.
Invariably, these young married guys send me flirtatious, sexy messages until the time comes to actually make a hookup arrangement. They`re paranoid about discretion so they invariably stop communicating or even delete their pof profiles entirely!
So I was delighted last night when I got a message from a former (minor league) hockey player, 35, big cocked, athletic, married with young children and horny as hell. He had flirted with me last summer but under a different profile name which he had since deleted:
Horny 35 year old: Are you free tonite?
Buddy Bear: Yes, what do you have in mind.
Horny:
So I'm a very clean big cocked married man
I'm free now tell about 10 or so
I'm very horny today
I'm all showered and my big balls are nicely shaved
I have a big hot load ready for you
BB: (note: this is my standard 'sales pitch.')
A blowjob is my favourite thing to do especially on a masculine straight guy. I'm very good at it! I'd love to have your throbbing cock in my mouth, emptying it's load..... LOVE IT! Cock worship!!
Horny: l'll cum out there. I want this now.
Within the hour, Horny had driven over 30 minutes through a driving rain to meet me at my friend's vacant cottage nearby. (I keep an eye on the place during winter as my friends live far away.) I couldn't host at home because my son was there.
He was a fine specimen of manhood, 6'-4", muscled (but carrying some extra weight since his hockey-playing days), goateed and lightly furry. So masculine.... and SO nervous!
The cottage was freezing cold, so I turned on the natural gas fireplace and lit a few candles. He stripped completely naked and we got down to business on some cushions in front of the fireplace.
He was a newbie, I'm sure, so I explained that every man I ever sucked had a different sexual response. I needed some direction from him so he could get the most pleasure possible.
It turned out to be the hottest blowjob I ever gave! Married men always seem to be so into it, just insatiable! All that pent-up sexual energy!!..... He was very verbal, moaning and talking slutty, at times sounding like a bad porn flick but I knew it was genuine, "Ya...oh yea, baby! Suck it!... make love to my cock!!... oooo... oh, yea... Slow down, you want to enjoy it, make it last..... yea. You want this, don't ya? Tell me how much you want my cock!!"
I stuck my lubed finger up his rear end and gave him a prostate massage.... he really liked that... "Oh yea... do it! Lick my ass!" and then asked me to rim him. When I gave him an aggressive rim job, he started moaning like a banshee! He was so into it, I wondered, "Do straight guys enjoy being rimmed this much?"
Just as he was about to cum, he grabbed onto my hair with both beefy hands and stopped the motion of my head. I deep throated his cock as it throbbed and throbbed.... and with my finger, I felt his asshole clenching and prostate throbbing.... Normally, I don't allow a guy to grab onto my head during a blowjob but he was gentle. It was extremely hot with him controlling the action like that.
I spit into my cum rag and wiped lube and cum off his cock and he did wiped it again. (concealing the evidence!) He seemed in a daze as literally sprinted towards the door.
I wonder if I'll see him again? I felt sorry for him a bit, a youngish married guy with children who was just starting down a very slippery slope.....
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ReplyDeletethink you said...slippery slope. All the more slippery with spit and lube! ;)
ReplyDeleteI always get mixed feelings when hearing about these sorts. It is a difficult topic for me. Worth a blog entry indeed.
ReplyDeleteDr. Spo. Please do write a blog entry on this. I'm intrigued!
DeleteAlthough the encounter was extremely hot, I mainly feel sorry for the family involved. I can imagine the tragedy / drama that will unfold when he is eventually caught, and they nearly always are.
They're all 'victims' to some degree: the young(ish) married man who is probably struggling with an emerging M2M attraction, his unsuspecting wife and their children.
Sean, you always offer such excellent advice! The voice of experience!
ReplyDeleteI read this story just before scrambling to get ready for work yesterday. Surprising that mere words on a computer screen gets my 50-year-old dick that hard that fast.
ReplyDeleteis that you buddy in the second pic?hot!
ReplyDeleteOh no! I've gained a few pounds but I'm nowhere near that heavy! I am just as furry as guy #2 but sadly, I don't think I fill out my undies quite as well as he does.
DeleteThere are lots of pictures of me (taken this year) in the "Pictures of me ..." section at the upper right corner of this page.
I've had quite a few married men in my past and there are one or two in our circle these days. I've read a number of condemnations of gay men who have sex with married guys on grounds that the gay man would inevitably destroy an innocent family. But I pretty quickly realized that the men who visited me all had one or two other gay contacts, and were well established on contact media. If it wasn't me, there were plenty of other men they could and would go to. As I knew I was completely safe, discrete, and had no desire to cause anyone any trouble, I figured they were better off with me than some of the others. (Actually, one of the others joined us once for a threesome, which became a semi-regular event, and the other gay guy became a delightful lover of mine for several years.)
ReplyDeleteAnd yes married men are hot, in fact some of the most exciting men with whom I've ever had sex, and they're generally very grateful and kind.
Will, I agree completely with everything you said. I felt the most enormous compassion for this 35-year-old married guy. I thought he was lucky to have had his moment with a safe, intelligent, discreet, skilled and empathetic guy like me.
DeleteThere are some weirdos out there who could have caused him a lot of trouble!
Very sexy story Buddy Bear.
ReplyDeleteinteresting post, it's great that you are so open with us.
ReplyDeleteI felt the most enormous compassion for this 35-year-old married guy. I thought he was lucky to have had his moment with a safe
ReplyDeleteJust re-reading some of your older posts, and wondered if you ever saw this guy again, now that a few months have passed by.
ReplyDeleteNo, this guy and I were together twice (In October, 9 months ago) and then he dropped off the radar. I never expect any hookups with married men to continue, especially one as panic-stricken as this guy was. Very hot experiences, though!
DeleteOhhhhh Sean....You just got me to squirt in my pants right here at work....if I only had a cock in my mouth at the time...WOW....nice post. Later buddy. John.
ReplyDeleteDayum. This was hot! Ever see or hear from him again?
ReplyDeletemore photos please yessss
ReplyDeleteall the pictures are so nice but the last two ones are so yummy wowww you so cool boss:)))) so sexy boy:)
ReplyDeletehe is so cool
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