Thursday, January 1, 2015
Happy New Year!
Today's pictures from the Tumblr site, Boners4Beards, are a nod to all the sexy, beefy hunks in my town, manyof whom have beautiful facial hair. I'd consider any of these guys to be my "ideal man."
I promised in yesterday's post that I would talk about my nine-hour date, but I'm too tired to write such a detailed, reflective post. I have been busy with my middle daughter, cooking or prepping a wide range of dishes for my family "Christmas Dinner" tomorrow.
My daughter's a vegetarian so we've been cooking five or six recipes from the Vegetarian Student Cookbook which I bought her for Christmas. So far, so good!
So how about some New Years' Resolutions? So much of my life is going perfectly well, thank you. My kids are all well-balanced, confident, hard working and pursuing independent careers.
I am still wallowing in enjoying the never-ending Gay Candy Store: hooking up with sexy men of all sizes, ages, types, skill levels and degrees of passion. I could NOT imagine, at this point, being tied down to one regular boyfriend, let alone husband.
But here are a few points which I would like to pursue:
RESOLUTION #1: Enjoy my improved skills as a top. Over the past several years, I have been pressured into being a top on many, many occasions and it's sometimes gone fairly well. But until recently, I could never quite shake the "ick" factor of sticking my cock up some guy's poop chute.
As well, I could never quite discern if the bottom's grunting and moaning was in pleasure or pain; he was probably on the threshold of both. At the slightest idea that I was hurting the bottom, I'd go soft. I'm just too tender-hearted!
I have gotten over both of these issues and now top frequently:
(A) I've spent countless hours rimming guys' sexy asses and have developed a new appreciation for ass play which nearly equals my obsession with sucking cock.
(B) My new prescription of Viagra has increased my topping confidence immeasurably. But I don't use it all the time. When I'm with a hunky and passionate bottom who I've topped before, Viagra is most definitely not required.
But if I anticipate topping a bottom virgin, a stranger or a less attractive guy (ie: bordering on obese) I take 1/4 of a tablet one hour before doing the nasty. Its been fantastic!
RESOLUTION #2: Continue my quest to be a passionate bottom. My inability to get any pleasure out of bottoming is deeply troubling to me. I'm envious of the enormous pleasure that my men seem to get when I pound their ass and I want to join the club! I've only bottomed about 10 times with four different guys, so I need much more practice.
After a couple of painful episodes, I'm a little afraid to try to bottom. What I need is a regular fuck buddy, a skilled and empathetic top to help me out of my bottoming slump.
RESOLUTION #3: International Travel. I am under severe financial pressure with my spousal support obligations, my son's diving school tuition, my mortgage and general day-to-day expenses. I have no money to spare! Having said all that, I am determined to travel to some exotic location (Costa Rica? Peru?) on a regular basis while I'm still young enough to enjoy it.
To that end, I am hoping to lead a tour group for gay men only because as tour leader, I would get to travel at a reduced rate. I have already had a meeting with the corporate Tour Manager for leading tour company who was quite keen on the idea and proposed several trip options.
I wonder if there would be any interest in this idea? All I need is to go for it and see what happens! "Throw your heart over the fence and the rest will follow!" is my motto.
RESOLUTION #4: Take a Body Electric Workshop. Having experienced tantric massage with my friend Rick of Torn Jeans, I want to very badly to learn more about men's sexual / erotic responses and to gain skills in pleasuring my men. >;-)
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