Thursday, January 1, 2015

Happy New Year!


Today's pictures from the Tumblr site, Boners4Beards, are a nod to all the sexy, beefy hunks in my town, manyof whom have beautiful facial hair.  I'd consider any of these guys to be my "ideal man."

I promised in yesterday's post that I would talk about my nine-hour date, but I'm too tired to write such a detailed, reflective post.  I have been busy with my middle daughter, cooking or prepping a wide range of dishes for my family "Christmas Dinner" tomorrow.

My daughter's a vegetarian so we've been cooking five or six recipes from the Vegetarian Student Cookbook which I bought her for Christmas.  So far, so good!

So how about some New Years' Resolutions?   So much of my life is going perfectly well, thank you.  My kids are all well-balanced, confident, hard working and pursuing independent careers.

I am still wallowing in enjoying the never-ending Gay Candy Store:  hooking up with sexy men of all sizes, ages, types, skill levels and degrees of passion. I could NOT imagine, at this point, being tied down to one regular boyfriend, let alone husband.

But here are a few points which I would like to pursue:

RESOLUTION #1:  Enjoy my improved skills as a top.   Over the past several years, I have been pressured into being a top on many, many occasions and it's sometimes gone fairly well.   But until recently, I could never quite shake the "ick" factor of sticking my cock up some guy's poop chute. 

As well, I could never quite discern if the bottom's grunting and moaning was in pleasure or pain;  he was probably on the threshold of both.  At the slightest idea that I was hurting the bottom, I'd go soft. I'm just too tender-hearted!

I have gotten over both of these issues and now top frequently:  
(A)  I've spent countless hours rimming guys' sexy asses and have developed a new appreciation for ass play which nearly equals my obsession with sucking cock.
 (B)  My new prescription of Viagra has increased my topping confidence immeasurably.  But I don't use it all the time.  When I'm with a hunky and passionate bottom who I've topped before, Viagra is most definitely not required.

But if I anticipate topping a bottom virgin, a stranger or a less attractive guy (ie:  bordering on obese)  I take 1/4 of a tablet one hour before doing the nasty.  Its been fantastic!

RESOLUTION #2:  Continue my quest to be a passionate bottom.    My inability to get any pleasure out of bottoming is deeply troubling to me.  I'm envious of the enormous pleasure that my men seem to get when I pound their ass and I want to join the club! I've only bottomed about 10 times with four different guys, so I need much more practice.

After a couple of painful episodes, I'm a little afraid to try to bottom.  What I need is a regular fuck buddy, a skilled and empathetic top to help me out of my bottoming slump.


RESOLUTION #3:  International Travel.    I am under severe financial pressure with my spousal support obligations, my son's diving school tuition, my mortgage and general day-to-day expenses.   I have no money to spare!  Having said all that, I am determined to travel to some exotic location (Costa Rica?  Peru?) on a regular basis while I'm still young enough to enjoy it.

To that end, I am hoping to lead a tour group for gay men only because as tour leader, I would get to travel at a reduced rate.  I have already had a meeting with the corporate Tour Manager for leading tour company who was quite keen on the idea and proposed several trip options.

I wonder if there would be any interest in this idea?  All I need is to go for it and see what happens!  "Throw your heart over the fence and the rest will follow!"  is my motto.

RESOLUTION #4:  Take a Body Electric Workshop.  Having experienced tantric massage with my friend Rick of Torn Jeans, I want to very badly to learn more about men's sexual / erotic responses and to gain skills in pleasuring my men.  >;-)

23 comments:

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    1. Happy New Year back at you, MAC! Thank you for reading my blog, commenting and posting all those pics of hunky, yummy guys on your blog.

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  2. so much cock, so little time, eh buddybear? HNY to you and your family; smooches!

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    1. "So much cock, so little time" is EXACTLY how I feel, anne marie. You know me so well! I hope you,your husband and your cats have a happy and healthy New Year!

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  3. A very Happy New Year! You seem to be in a very good place now and it's lovely to see.

    As to Body Electric, I think you will love it. Fritz and I host Body Electric workshops here at his Conference and Retreat Center. We are devoted to what they do; we cook for them all weekend when they're here. We also have another group come here called Touch Practice which deals with the typical male phobia about touching or being touched by others, especially by men.

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    1. Thank you, Will, for all your support over the years. I hope you and Fritz have a happy and healthy New Year.

      As to the Body Electric workshop, could you please e-mail me privately?

      tj_1905@hotmail.com

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  4. Love your taste in men. :)
    Also, Happy New Year!!! ^_^

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  5. oh and sucking while internally massaging the prostate, you will have the biggest organism or give! It is reputed that Wallace Simpson capture the King that way.

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    1. Cool! I do that all the time if the guy is willing, but I'm not sure whether I'm even hitting the prostate. I need some training on that area of a man's anatomy!

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    2. The prostate isn't that far in and will feel like a smooth hard lump or dome on the side of the rectum. I usually start with one well-lubed finger and enter slowly, then use a rotating motion around the prostate. As he relaxes and gets into it (usually VERY soon as his cock is getting a different kind of massage in the back of my throat) I insert a second finger very gently and use both to circle and stroke his gland. By this time there's usually a fair amount of moaning and writhing in pleasure going on which is a big kick to cause. During our very recent big New Years Party I both did this and had it done to me, in both cases ending in big, beautiful orgasms.

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    3. Thanks for that fantastic answer! I will have to try it soon. This afternoon, in fact!

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  6. Sitting on it or backing up into is the easiest way to take it. Coming from a confirmed top who rarely bottoms, oh and well lubed. You may have to start and stop a few times. Rimming does not generally open up the path, good as it feels.

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  7. Happy New Year from Manitoba. I love your blog and read it daily.

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    1. Happy New Year! A fellow Canadian! Very exciting!

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  8. Hello www.truquedevida.blogspot.com.br best http://migre.me/nVI29

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  9. Happy New Year!

    Keep that Body Electric resolution - it's an incredible experience with lessons you will use the rest of your sexual life, whether solo or with a partner!

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    1. I will take the course! Thanks to some suggestions from Will, I have a couple of course options which are possibilities.

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  10. I've been following your blog for about a year which is just about how long I've been experimenting with man sex. You're getting all sorts of great advice on bottoming. I too want to join the pleasure club. I've had a few moments of "oh yeah that's feeling good" mixed with "oh fuck STOP". My training set of butt plugs - small, medium, large have been key to stretching my ass enough to recently actually enjoying the whole anal experience. My adventure continues. And thanks for sharing yours. I've learned a lot!

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    1. Thanks for your compliment and for the great advice! I have one butt plug but I've rarely used it; maybe I need other sizes!

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