I missed the boat on a St. Patrick's day post, but I hope these guys in green will make up for it.
Here's one more story to complete Saturday's "Reckless Behaviour" post.
Last month, I was messaged on pof.com and later chatted with a nice married guy about my age. His profile listed "a few extra pounds." I asked him, "How many extra pounds?" "Oh, about 100 pounds ... I hope that isn't a problem?"
That was a a problem, in fact. I'm somewhat ashamed to admit this, but I stopped responding to his messages and chat requests. I have so many attractive guys of all ages wanting to hook up with me that I'm becoming more and more selective. I don't need to hook up with someone I find extremely unattractive.
He became very persistent, even needy, and sent numerous messages in the weeks that followed, all of which I ignored. At this point, I hadn't revealed any personal details to him such as as name, job, photos or number of children; I was a complete stranger to him.
Finally, in desperation (I think), he sent me six full-body naked pics of himself, his face clearly visible. Doggie-style with ass cheeks spread, open-crotch shots.... the works. OMFG!!! Forget the 100 extra pounds, he had to weigh 400 pounds at least.... morbidly obese. The pics are so gross, I wouldn't sully my blog by posting one..... that image would be burned onto your retina forever.
A few other things to mention:
- I know him professionally as he chaired a committee of which I was a member for about a year. He thought he was sending his nekkid pics to a total stranger. Wrong!
- He is married and has two older teenage kids.
- He has been elected for public office for several terms in our small community. No, he's not the mayor, but his job is a fairly high profile one.
- He serves on a number of "do-gooder" charity boards.