Dogably Pawfect Saturday

There seems to be a inexhaustible supply hot guy / cute dog pics for Sean's Dogably Pawfect Saturday.  These came from men and their dogs.

These pics remind me that here in the Great White North, we are finally getting some warmish weather, 21 C (70 F), so hot guys of all ages are out in cargo shorts and tank tops.  Woo-hoo!!   One year ago at this time, as a newly-out gay virgin, I allowed myself to appreciate for the first time all these lovely summer boys and men.

Now that I'm having sex with men on a regular basis, this is happening again but with ten times the intensity.   I not only notice and appreciate their physical beauty, their masculinity, but imagine myself having sex with them, with my lips wrapped around their cocks.  I try to make eye contact with the summer men to see which are gay and notice which of them are checking me out.

I feel like I'm obsessed, but in the most pleasant and exciting way.   All of a sudden, it's a whole world of possibilities which I never even considered before ....

Transparent when wet

These are my last pics for the pic-a-day-in-May blogger challenge, slightly late. It's been fun and a bit of a challenge indeed, especially when I decided that the pics should be of me, me, me. I much prefer posting about 3 days per week (less pressure!) and it allows more of a 'conversation' to develop in the comments.

Online, there are many sexy pics of guys wearing wet, white transparent garments that look hot, hot, hot. I tried to re-create the effect in my morning rush to work this morning; not the same effect at all! What I really need is a professional (& gay) photographer and a fluffer to get the hottest picture.

 My mother-in-law (81 years) arrived in town from her home 2,000 miles away to attend my daughter's grade 12 graduation. After one day at my wife's house, I was told that she is coming to stay with me for a while. Just for the weekend? For the month? I don't know! I had given my blessing to her staying with me, her gay ex-son-in-law earlier. She and my wife DON'T get along... but in fact, my wife doesn't get along with anyone, really.

 My M-I-L has always treated me like a prince and took my gayness and my marriage breakdown in stride. I posted it about it here. So.... I have a bit of full house here right now: two or three dogs, two to three kids and an ex-mother-in-law. At this point,  when arranging a hookup, I definitely cannot host!
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Bubble bath

This second-last set of pictures for pic-a-day-in-May was again suggested by my favourite anonymous commenter, "B".    Thank you!   I'm sure you figured out that I needed very little prompting to take half-nekkid self-pics.   During this most stressful time ever, these little risque photo shoots were a nice distraction for me, therapeutic, even.

After our lawyer-mediated session on Monday, there was silence from my wife for two days.  No texts, e-mails, phone calls or messages relayed by the kids.   Normally, we text or e-mail many times each day.  I knew that it would take my wife (and me) some time to recover emotionally from our mediation.

The mediation was just was so insanely intense and after 2.5 years of never-ending turmoil, it represented one of the final steps before our marriage was over.   For me, it was a mixture of sadness mixed a feeling of excitement:  "I've escaped!"   For my wife, I'm sure there was no anticipation of an exciting new life ahead of her, just anger, bitterness and sadness.

Just last week at my workplace, a young woman who works closely with my wife exclaimed, "She loves you, you know!  She loves you!!  Can't you two work it out? "  That broke my heart because maybe there was some truth to it.  I didn't want to tell her that we couldn't remain married;  I was gay and couldn't love my wife the way she deserved.   I excused myself and found a private place to shed a few tears;  those raw emotions again!

In the mediation post, I didn't mention that my wife was also refusing to pay her share of a separate, $1,700 fee payable when we file for divorce with the courts.  This evening, I received this e-mail from my wife:

"Hi.  I will pay half the divorce.  At the time I was trying to keep from crying and that just seemed to come out as a way from preventing the tears. __________"

 I replied:
"Thank you.  The mediation was the most stressful thing I've ever experienced but I am proud of both of us for getting through it."      .....Wow....

A Taste of India

It's nearly midnight after an extremely busy day and I don't have the time or energy to be creative with today's pic-a-day-in-May.   Surely everyone has seen enough of my ass to last a lifetime!   However, this pic shows the kitchen of my new home.  It looks rather nice, I think.

In the day after our mediation, I haven't heard a word from my wife; no phone calls, e-mails or texts.  In this case, no news is good news.  If she had something to complain about or was going to renege on one of our agreements, I would have heard about it by now!

On Sunday afternoon, I had a most amazing hookup with a sexy 36 year old computer engineer.  He had was a recent immigrant from India and lived in a major city 1,000 miles away with his wife and kids.  He`s in my town on a five-month assignment for his company.

I will blog about the details later, but I'd say he was the most handsome man (for except my special guy) who I ever hooked up with.  Gorgeous!  Expressive brown eyes, perfect dazzling white teeth, amazing fat cock, medium brown skin which felt like satin....  In the meantime, here are some pics of some hot Indian men to drool over.  The first pic closely resembles my Indian hottie;  I find Indian men extremely attractive.

Mediation

Today, we left our two-hour mediation session with an agreement reached on every aspect of our separation / divorce.  It was  unbelievably stressful but our lawyer-mediator saw us through it. 

I left with the most profound respect and gratitude to our mediator;  a soft-spoken woman who was incredibly skilled in diffusing the raw emotions of the moment.  The lawyer was a master at explaining to my wife why her some of her outrageous demands were unreasonable or legally impossible.  She followed this with long silences while my wife digested the information and then backed down.

To be fair, my wife did make significant concessions throughout the process.  Our year of difficult discussions regarding our settlement helped pave the way to such a speedy agreement.  My wife behaved fairly well and only threw my gayness into my face once during the whole two hours.  As we neared the end of the session, the atmosphere became increasingly tense and both my wife and I were facing opposite walls in our swivel chairs.

In the end, my wife tried one final kick at the cat, refusing to pay her share of the lawyer's fee, saying, "Why should I pay anything?  .... our marriage breakdown is all your fault!!"   The lawyer looked at her impassively while I said two things to my wife:

1. One of our earliest breakthroughs two years ago was when we agreed that we each shared 50% of the responsibility for our failed marriage.
2. We've just come through years of difficulty, we've dealt with several million dollars worth of pension assets, spousal support, real estate and dividing up a lifetime worth of "stuff."   Do you really want to jeopardize the whole deal over $400?  Do you want this to drag out forever?  So, she agreed to pay her share of the fee.

What's next? The mediator will draft the divorce agreement and call us in for one more meeting. If we sign off on it and if my wife doesn't throw up any more roadblocks, we may or may not choose to have our own lawyers look at it. After that, we will jointly file for an uncontested, no fault divorce.  I'm beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel!

Now here are more sexy men in boots from bootedcowboys.tumblr.com/.

Slippery when wet

I've temporarily misplaced my self-timer camera so I made do with my cell phone for today's pic-a-day-in-May.   I'm in the bath tub, lit by a candle.

I don't remember if I mentioned this, but my wife and son had been arguing constantly for some months now.  My sympathies were with him as my wife just pisses people off all the time.  Of course, she assumes no responsibility for their conflict, even when I remind her that she's the adult in the situation.

After a screaming fight, my son moved out "permanently" and has been living with me for the past couple of weeks.   It's been great having him here and I think I serve as a excellent role model.  We are completely conflict-free and work together constantly on various projects involving carpentry, electrical wiring and welding.... his passions.  However, having a kid here all the time has seriously affected by ability to host..... 


My wife and I are having our divorce mediation tomorrow which is required of all couples in my province.  The goal is to produce our final divorce agreement.  Although we have divided up virtually everything and are in general agreement about everything else, I am extremely tense about it.

Her erratic behaviour seems to be getting worse and she is constantly forgetting items we already agreed upon (typed out by her!), reneging on agreements which we thought were settled and throwing up road blocks every step of the way.  If anything, her hatred and bitterness towards me have worsened.  Wish me luck!

How about some hot guys in the tub to help forget my troubles?  All pics from fuckyeahmeninbaths.tumblr.com.

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