tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-39700986820680946392024-03-07T20:17:13.046-07:00One Step at a TimeI am 53 and an out gay father from BC, Canada. My wife found out I was gay six years ago; much drama ensued but we achieved a reasonably non-adversarial divorce. Woo-hoo! I now try to balance my new sex and social life with family, career and LGBTQ social activism. I am mainly living on my own because my three adult kids are now making their way in the world. I now am an LTR having met my soulmate and am embarking on the most exciting phase of my journey so far!Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comBlogger669125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-57880002794571904122015-10-27T04:37:00.002-07:002015-10-27T05:13:35.793-07:00Boyfriend ... soulmate ... twin flame<div>
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<a href="http://onehookupatatime.blogspot.ca/"><span style="color: yellow;">Explorer Jack</span></a> figured it out when he e-mailed me in August:<br />
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<i>"I've missed your blog, and your updates, but I know exactly how you feel. I guess the lack of blogging indicates that you now officially have a boyfriend?</i></div>
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<i>That does take the interest out of public sharing for sure."</i></div>
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During the horror and excitement of my coming out, separation, divorce and my early exploration of gay sex, blogging was of primary importance to me. I relied on my blog for the world-wide network of support it provided me, along with an eager audience for my stories and an inexhaustible supply of experienced advice.</div>
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But at this moment, there is virtually <u>nothing</u> I am willing to share about my life right now. The kids all continue to do well and things are calm with my ex-wife. Her texts to me are now few and far between (once every 3 - 4 months) and are usually positive.</div>
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It's as though we've been waiting for each other all our lives. We first met nearly a year ago but things got really, really intense over the summer.<br />
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My sweetie is smart, funny, romantic, worldly, successful, intelligent and has a wide and devoted circle of family and friends. He also 39, some 13.5 years younger than me, handsome, sexy, skilled and as horny as hell. And we're completely smitten with each other. :-O</div>
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He will be reading this entire blog soon and together, we will decide what I should do with it. But for the moment, all I can say is that I'm happier than I've ever been in my life. </div>
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But for old time's sake, here are some blurry cell phone pics of me taken within the past two weeks.</div>
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Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com45tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-47460766855468935702015-06-19T13:53:00.002-07:002015-06-19T14:21:36.582-07:00Pride Overload .... so far<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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1. The photo at right is to support <a href="http://www.ramblingalong.com/2015/05/pride-challenge-2015.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Kelly Stern's annual Pride Challenge</span></a> and is of his dear little doggie Pino who passed away this year. So sad. <br />
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I had the great pleasure of meeting Kelly at our <a href="http://frommybraintomymouth.blogspot.ca/2013/08/weekend-at-cubbys-with-no-dead-bodies.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Washington DC Blogger Meet-up</span></a> two years ago. He's even more charming and handsome in person, with a southern accident which would make any gay guy cum in his pants. <br />
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2. It's been very chilly here with overnight lows in the 40 F (7 C) range.... not very summer-like at all. I'm still wearing fleece bed socks and a wooly hat to bed! But I'm sure that I wouldn't be able to survive the scorching Arizona temperatures which <a href="https://sporeflections.wordpress.com/2015/06/18/spo-bits-on-a-hot-and-lurid-thursday-night/"><span style="color: yellow;">Dr. Spo</span> </a>recently posted about.<br />
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3. Middle daughter is home from university and has mainly living with me; it's been fabulous having her here as we're the most alike of any of our family. I've missed her terribly! But having her here is putting a temporary dent in my hooking-up life which has dwindled to nothing in recent weeks.<br />
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I've turned down the occasional offer from some horny young dude but my daughter and I have mainly spent our evenings hanging out and I don't want to miss any opportunity to spend time with her.<br />
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4. Eldest daughter has now graduated from chef's school and has secured coveted full-time apprenticeship in an upscale bakery / eatery in town. Best of all, she has a regular day shift, much easier for her than the late, late nights at her previous restaurant job. <br />
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Now that she's not doing the double whammy of full-time school and full-time work, I hope (and expect) to see more of her.<br />
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5. As a member of the organizing committee I've been heavily involved with our local Pride festivities this week. I've attended and / or volunteered at most of our fabulous Pride events..... one every day this week! Exhausting and exhilarating! Every event has exceeded the previous year's attendance and we've seen everyone of importance in attendance: our federal, provincial and city politicians, school board officials and various church leaders as well.<br />
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6. I was the new organizer of one of our major Pride events this year (which I won't name). I switched to a beautiful new venue and hugely improved the programme. <br />
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As a result, this year's attendance jumped to about 150 including some of my own children; a huge improvement on last year's flop which attracted only 30 people. I was so thrilled that everything worked out so well!<br />
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7. In one week, I will be at Toronto Pride for a five day trip. I'm looking forward to it enormously! Attending Toronto World Pride by myself last year (<a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2014/06/pride-at-td-canada-trust.html"><span style="color: yellow;">which I posted about here</span></a>) was tremendous fun, life-changing, even. I was a Lone Wolf!<br />
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My Toronto Pride experience will be very different this year and I hope, even better. You see, I will be attending with a Special Friend who I haven't posted about (and won't), other than to say that he's age-appropriate for me (46), single, handsome, and is most definitely boyfriend or LTR material.
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Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com23tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-24141077913431307192015-06-05T04:34:00.003-07:002015-06-05T04:38:29.894-07:00My foursome with three 70-ish lesbians<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiG3LFFo1F2M84sI3THWGA8p526FOWb3DngBfIYYj9UO-LtvHJ33PpWTkGv-HnKC0LfC1jHEQfk7QLEv81DA_sUiyF32pCAb4tWwC_1QF0L4tokWzDnDQK6V1o9uJEkt5BZf2zWg7dbQK6J/s1600/daddy-cock-bulge-hairy-hunk-handsome-vpl-chest-bearded-mile-high-club-abs.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiG3LFFo1F2M84sI3THWGA8p526FOWb3DngBfIYYj9UO-LtvHJ33PpWTkGv-HnKC0LfC1jHEQfk7QLEv81DA_sUiyF32pCAb4tWwC_1QF0L4tokWzDnDQK6V1o9uJEkt5BZf2zWg7dbQK6J/s400/daddy-cock-bulge-hairy-hunk-handsome-vpl-chest-bearded-mile-high-club-abs.jpg" width="266" /></a> Well .... it was sort of a foursome and no, I'm not going back to va-jay-jay.<br />
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A local government social service agency has provided an occasional coordinator and a small amount of funding to establish a social group for older LGBTQ folks. This demographic is at high risk of being social isolation and loneliness and typically lacks the usual family supports such as spouses or children.<br />
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As an older member of our Pride organizing committee, I've been invited to attend these 50+ LGBTQ gatherings and have started to help out with them as well.<br />
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So..... last weekend, I participated in a scavenger hunt / car rally where teams drove around town in pursuit of 20 or so challenges such as: "Take a selfie of yourself and a trucker with the Rice Lake Truck Stop sign in the background." I took that one for the team. Woo-hoo!<br />
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There were about 15 participants, mainly aged 60 -80, and I ended up on a team with three 70ish lesbian ladies! I so wanted to be with some of the elderly gay men, several of whom were quite attractive, like the men pictured in this post. In fact, one retired teacher, who I'll call the Silver Fox, was extremely handsome: slim, piercing, brilliant blue eyes.... and interested in me. So hot! But the teams had been previously organized. Darn!<br />
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My partner in the back seat was an aboriginal woman who was a <a href="http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/a-history-of-residential-schools-in-canada-1.702280"><span style="color: yellow;">residential school survivor</span>,</a> an elder in her First Nations community, artist, recovered substance abuser and now a fierce LGBGTQ advocate. <br />
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She was extremely impressive; very serene, wise and courageous in overcoming her life's challenges and pushing ahead with her LGBTQ projects. Inspirational! .... and I'm so glad to now count her among my friends.<br />
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It was enormous fun but many times during the day, I thought: "Where are all the hot young guys?..... oh, wait ..... this is an elder queer group!!!" It would have been so much more fun being in car with men who I was sexually attracted to.<br />
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The last clue took us to a rural house where we socialized and had a barbecue. It was quite pleasant getting to know everyone but I couldn't help shake a pervasive feeling of sadness for most of the participants.<br />
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Except for the lesbian couple, most were single and everyone was older, childless, queer and with various emerging age-related ailments. Most seemed to have little to no family support. For them, getting old, alone and queer, must be a bleak and scary prospect. <br />
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Although I am somewhat younger than everyone else, I plan to continue with the group's outings which happen every month or so. I enjoyed their company and we all would benefit from developing a wider circle of friends.<br />
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<br />Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-50268963902539745052015-06-01T04:44:00.000-07:002015-06-01T04:52:22.330-07:00I'm okay!<table><tbody>
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Not only have I fallen off the blogging wagon, the wagon has disappeared over
the horizon and I've forgotten that it even existed. Two months without
blogging or even reading others' blogs. Wow!<br />
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I've been swamped with texts, Facebook messages and e-mails (actually, about six!) from online and real-life blog-reading friends who were concerned about my disappearance from the blogosphere. Thank you for your concern! I'm sorry to have worried you.<br />
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I can't
imagine how I found the time for blogging every second day early in the
days of my coming out / divorce drama. On the other hand, I miss
sharing my stories and reading about others' adventures. I'm sure my blogging audience has pretty much disappeared but I'm thinking that posting more frequently but with much shorter posts would make it seem like less of a chore.<br />
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I have been doing well; just <u>extremely</u>
busy. School has become busier and busier but not only with the
classroom teaching and numerous extracurricular activities. I've had
many requests to attend numerous Professional Development workshops of
various kinds which cause disruptions to my usual teaching schedule and
suck up much time needed for supply teacher preparation.<br />
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It
seems that the different Board Office flunkies running the various
workshops needed to spend their entire budgets by the end of May or the
money would be lost; that's why all the PD sessions seemed to be coming
at us so quickly. Finally, I said to my Principal: "Enough! I'm
done!" and discovered that I could indeed say "no."<br />
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My Principal also pointed out that I can also say "no" to school extra-curricular involvements at school. My school has an extremely low rate of teacher volunteerism (for running clubs, coaching etc) and he said that when I came to the school in September, I was "fresh meat" and was swamped with requests to help out with everything. I love working with young people outside of the classroom, but I am at the risk of burning out. I'll need to take a close look at what activities I volunteer
for. I've taken on too much and need to say "no" more often.<br />
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I
was also on the steering committee running a major environmental
conference for high school youth: which was a monstrous task. The
conference attracted some 150 participants, most from the USA, and was a
huge success but very exhausting. As well, I'm on our local Pride
organizing committee; very satisfying but the pace of work is
intensifying as our Pride week is fast approaching.<br />
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As well, I've been helping out with some other queer community groups; one involving elderly LGBTQ folks and the other or young people in their late teens and early 20s.<br />
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As
my university daughter is back living with for the summer, I had to
spend countless hours this month completing my bathroom renovations;
being toilet-less was not an option!<br />
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As well, I've continued with my usual sluttish ways and have had some fantastic sexytimes with some pretty spectacular young men, sadly, all out of my age range. My concern is now that when I DO start looking for Mr. Right, it will be impossible to find someone my age who will measure up. Details to follow. Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com16tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-36964555470402281902015-04-20T19:25:00.000-07:002015-04-20T19:31:33.446-07:00My hottie doctor's beautiful, thick cock.<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
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Some of today's pics are from a calendar of <a href="http://www.irishcentral.com/culture/craic/First-ever-Irish-doctor-hunks-calendar-now-available.html#"><span style="color: yellow;">Hunky Irish Doctors</span></a><span style="color: yellow;">.</span><br />
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It's been such a long time since I've blogged! I'm feeling pretty unmotivated about it these days as well as being completely swamped at work and other areas of my life.<br />
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As well, my recovery from my <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2015/04/international-day-of-pink.html"><span style="color: yellow;">concussion</span></a> took way longer that I thought. It's been an extremely difficult few weeks and I'm starting to wonder if I'm a bit depressed.<br />
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Certainly I worry constantly about my tight financial situation, problems with my 2013 tax return and I'm a little tired of the time spent dealing with online flakes just to find a sweet, sexy man to hook up with.<br />
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<u>But here's recap of recent events.</u><br />
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1. Nearly three weeks ago, I slipped and gave myself a concussion on the ice in fairly remote wilderness area. I had no memory at all of that entire day, of walking some 5 km off the ice and gradually, I've been piecing together events of the day like some horror show.<br />
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My parents drove me to the Emergercy and within a few hours, I received many diagnostic tests including a CT brain scan and was released to the care of my parents by my Hottie Doctor, blonde-haired, blue-eyed and with an athletic body to boot.<br />
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I took two days off school but should have stayed off longer; at school, I had difficulty with concentrating during the my busy classes and had struggled which remembering students' names and doing simple tasks like taking attendance.<br />
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But after three weeks, I do feel 100% recovered. But my kids extracted a promise from me that before I go on any more solo wilderness adventures, I will file a trip plan (via texting) with them; where I am parked, where I'm going and when I will return.<br />
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2. A week later, I was in the locker room of my Athletic Complex and who should walk by but shirtless Hottie Doctor! His lean torso was ripped beyond belief and he nicely filled out his UnderArmor spandex shorts.<br />
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I lingered at my locker unnecessarily and was rewarded a view of his beautiful thick cock, a bit bigger than average, resting on a big, beautiful pair of low-hangers. Woo-hoo!<br />
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After he got decently dressed, I went over to chat about my concussion: he remembered me and was very sweet, but came across as very, very straight.<br />
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3. I had one final sweet hookup with the sexy 19 year old university student and <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2015/03/hookup-with-drag-queen-or-butt-fucking.html"><span style="color: yellow;">amateur drag queen</span></a>. I posted about his best-ever pickup line: <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2014/11/can-i-help-carry-in-your-groceries.html"><span style="color: yellow;">"Can I help you carry in your groceries?"</span></a> Sadly, he is leaving town to continue his final year of university in a far-away city. I'll miss him!<br />
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I told him: "You are the best kisser I've ever had! ... especially for a fairly inexperienced guy." He replied: "I learned how to kiss from your former student, Jordan _ _ _ _ _." I thought, "Oh my!" <br />
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The "Jordan" in question was my student for three years but I had no idea that he was gay and his sister was my eldest daughter's best friend for 8 years in elementary school. This really is a very small town, in the gay sense. lol.<br />
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4. This week, I also hooked up with two other dudes. The first was the <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2013/03/sex-with-father-of-my-student_10.html"><span style="color: yellow;">father of a former student</span></a>, a handsome guy sadly afflicted with early-onset Parkinson's Disease. The second was a 11 hour hookup with a handsome, athletic-bodied "straight but questioning" former hockey player and worker from Alberta's oil patch; one of my most unusual and special days I've ever spent with a man.<br />
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But.... this post is too long already. I'll tell you about the last two guys in my next post!<br />
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Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com16tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-29580642359927779662015-04-09T04:42:00.003-07:002015-04-09T14:35:27.942-07:00International Day of Pink<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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The first pic is (I think) of one the authors of the fabulous blog, <span style="color: yellow;"><a href="http://twohornyguys.com/"><span style="color: yellow;">http://twohornyguys.com/</span></a></span>.<br />
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Yesterday was the <a href="http://dayofpink.org/"><span style="color: magenta;">International Day of Pink</span></a> against bullying and homophobia in particular. This initiative started with<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Day_of_Pink"> <span style="color: yellow;">two high school students</span></a><span style="color: yellow;"> </span>in Nova Scotia, Canada, and is now marked by over 8 million pictures in countries around the globe.<br />
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There are several anti-bullying pink days recognized throughout the world because the various interest groups can't agree on one day to celebrate. But in my school division, April 8th is "The Big One" and it is a big deal in all of our public elementary and high schools. <br />
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We were featured prominently in the local media which is always a thrill for the students involved. My school had a decent percentage of students wearing pink,with some of them completely over-the-top with pink-dyed hair, pink face paint and wearing pink from head to toe. <br />
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I was one of the main organizers of Pink Day at my school and the day went off perfectly even though I wasn't even there. On Sunday, I was walking on the ice to an offshore island up the coast when I slipped and hit my head on the ice.<br />
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I suffered a mild concussion and have no memory at all of the next 7 hours or more, although I do know my doggie and I walked some 5 km to the highway to phone my parents for help from a gas station.<br />
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Without knowing it, I crazy-texted my kids throughout the ordeal and as they now live all over the country, this caused them great alarm. They, in turn, phoned my parents who found me in my confused state.<br />
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My head still hurts and I've been off school now for several days, but I am very much on the mend. But I will post full details of this adventure on the weekend.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: magenta;">For now, I'm using the Day of Pink as an excuse (not that need an excuse) to post pictures of hunky men in pink spandex with lovely cock bulges.</span></span><br />
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<br />Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-75883664198192604142015-04-05T08:11:00.001-07:002015-04-05T08:16:55.643-07:00Easter sleepover in a swanky hotel<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I'm feeling quite unmotivated about blogging these days although my gay adventures are never-ending. My life seems "all gay, all the time" but I think I just have a heightened sense of queer awareness which did not exist for the first 40 years of my life. I notice gay people and situations everywhere I go.<br />
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For the first time, I wondering if I might be little depressed: our winter is dragging on seemingly forever, with night-time temperatures still dipping to as low as -20 C (-4 F). As well, my parents are both starting to show their age and that saddens and concerns me.<br />
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But the concern is my difficult financial situation: my ex and I are equally sharing expenses for my son's commercial diving programme (some $30,000 for the year) and he has now run out of cash. The only saving grace is that these expenses will end in June and he's confident that he will be employed in his field soon.<br />
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These expenses are in addition to my usual ones: my mortgage (having
bought my ex out of our home), spousal support, insurance, utilities, my property taxes, the kids' cell phones and on
and on. But this situation won't last forever but for the moment, I'm highly stressed out and bored with being frugal and having to worry about every $5.00 that I spend. :-| <br />
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<u>But here's my gay news or the week:</u><br />
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1. I spent an evening and and entire day at a LGBTQ student workshop which attracted over 150 students, grades 7 to 11, mainly from small towns all over the region. Some of the groups travelled 500 km to attend!<br />
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The students were all excited, fabulous and highly motivated in their queer activism, but their challenge will come when they try to bring change to their isolated communities.<br />
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2. At school, the couple of GSA kids and I are feeling pressure from principal to stage a big "gay" event, the <a href="http://dayofpink.org/about/"><span style="color: magenta;">April 8 Day of Pink.</span></a> <br />
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The GSA kids have so many issues on their own so, in desperation, I had to seek help from the Students' Council kids who very quickly made plans for the day: Pink T-shirt sales, Pink Day Posters, Pink Cup Cakes sales, announcements and the like.<br />
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3. I have posted several times about my fuck buddy, an <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2014/12/top-ten-reasons-not-to-hook-up.html"><span style="color: red;"><span style="color: yellow;">aboriginal dude who had bariatric surgery</span></span></a><span style="color: yellow;"> </span>and who works in a gold mine in the northern part of our province was in town. Aboriginal Fuck Buddy was in town for a "wild weekend" which included me! <br />
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In addition to having sex, what he really wanted from me was intimacy, conversation with a friend and cuddling in bed all night long..... meaning, he asked me to sleep over in his swanky hotel room!<br />
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This made for a very, very long day for me: up at 6:00 a.m. to walk the dogs, arrived at school early to finish my supply teacher preparations, dropped my doggies off at my parents' for doggy-sitting and then on to the LGBTQ student conference which ended for the teachers at 7:00 pm (They fed us supper. Yum!)<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivlQXVP_PQakCEZGxhBXUNnM8DSLFUDFLfMbySwI_LWSNDPLWx5dOPoPHOxXj9EQ1dd6yF9t-HtZAalkRg1CQrad67hQPTSyAk191Y0sF-glrjZ1CX3PHTOf85VyWXNTFOWc8wqFmPlnCx/s1600/jesus-hunk-pecs-hairy-gay-handsome-tighty-whiteys.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;">s</a>Then, I had to pick up my dogs, drive some 30 km home, get them settled for the night and THEN, drive 30 km to his hotel by 10:00 pm. It was very special, not just the bedtime and morning sex, but especially everything in between; sweet kissing, spooning and falling asleep with masculine guy in my arms. Very sweet!<br />
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4. I find myself double booked for Monday: the 19 year old university student / drag perfomer who I blogged about <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2014/11/can-i-help-carry-in-your-groceries.html"><span style="color: yellow;">here</span></a> and <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2015/03/hookup-with-drag-queen-or-butt-fucking.html"><span style="color: yellow;">here</span></a> is leaving town permanently in two weeks and he wants to spend "all day" with me, our last time for sweet intimacy. I"ll miss him!<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9o96zC9IujfHG6xjAVadqlmG92ft6P61i28G6u9t9CK4FNz0vQgepCfCqSux814pNGgCgsMneTaFwKNiOXLfecDNgo0FQw8fVX2OMicfQOH3aKNI3UgKaiJv4F1n9MUji9jdGqYtYVr5E/s1600/jesus-hunk-pecs-hairy-gay-handsome.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9o96zC9IujfHG6xjAVadqlmG92ft6P61i28G6u9t9CK4FNz0vQgepCfCqSux814pNGgCgsMneTaFwKNiOXLfecDNgo0FQw8fVX2OMicfQOH3aKNI3UgKaiJv4F1n9MUji9jdGqYtYVr5E/s1600/jesus-hunk-pecs-hairy-gay-handsome.jpg" height="400" width="249" /></a>As well, I have a coffee date with a 67 year old formerly-married guy, extremely handsome and just coming out in a big way in town. I've met him several times at the 5O+ LGBTQ social group in town and he wants to become involved in our Pride committee. He's slim, extremely handsome with striking blue-green eyes and an amputee with one leg missing below the knee.<br />
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While I don't really want to hook up with someone that old, he's funny, charming, successful and intelligent. I think he's looking for a friend and also someone to cuddle with. We'll see what happens!Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-62109763929449930742015-03-29T11:44:00.001-07:002015-03-29T14:31:23.952-07:00Inexperienced trailer park hottie<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Today's pics are from<a href="http://flopsreturns.blogspot.ca/"> <span style="color: yellow;">Flip Flops Boy</span></a> and all resemble my new friend, Trailer Park Hottie.<br />
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I live in a rural area, so a hookup invariably involves a 30 minute drive to town or for a gentleman caller to drive here. Too often, men say that I live too far away for hookup.<br />
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In the case of a car-less young hunk (usually a student), I often drive into town to pick him up, bring him to my house and then reverse the process at the end of our sexytime, 120 km (70 miles) in all. And I must add, all this driving is well worth the rewards received.<br />
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So imagine my excitement when I was Grindr - messaged last summer by a 28 year old hottie, 5'8", 150 pounds who lived only 4 km away! <br />
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Although I never received his face pic, other of his pictures revealed a toned, lightly furry and tattoo-free torso, a hint of abs, a magnificent, above-average cock and and a full bush of rampant pubic hair. A rarity, these days!<br />
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Over the next nine months, Trailer Park Hottie "played footsie" with me, usually messaging me around midnight a few times per month. He was usually bored and horny and often asked me questions: "What do you do with a guy in bed? But after a few minutes of chat, he would log off Grindr and often not log on again for a week or more. <br />
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Over many months, he also sent me many pics of various of his body parts: cock (hard and soft), balls, ass and thighs. So hot! But I gradually came to the conclusion that he was either a tease or was extremely inexperienced and lacked the courage for a face-to-face meeting. <br />
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They always same the same thing:<br />
(1) They liked my face picture, usually describing it as "handsome" and sometimes "kind."<br />
(2) I took the time to get to know them online and to talk honestly about myself in a non-sexual way.<br />
(3) I <u><b>never</b></u> initiate the conversation about sex, ever. Inexperienced young men hate it when an older guy starts the conversation with a crude proposition. ("I want to pound your virgin ass!" or "I want to suck your cock!") <br />
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Finally, last Friday night (at 1:00 am!) I received the message: <br />
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<span style="color: red;">Trailer Park Hottie: </span> "Can you come over now? We can sit on my couch, watch porn and jerk off together. But I don't want you touching me."<br />
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<span style="color: red;">Buddy Bear:</span> "Dude! It's too late and I'm too tired! Message me on Grindr any time tomorrow and I'm all yours"<br />
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All day Saturday, I monitored his Grindr profile and watched as he logged on and off all day long, building up his courage. Finally at 5:00 pm, he messaged me: "Can you come over? But it has to be right now. I don't have a lot of time. "<br />
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Trailer Park Hottie was absolutely adorable, a cutie who greeted me at the door shirtless (a lean, lightly furry torso!) with dishevelled hair, bare feet and track pants revealing a promising bulge. He had a sweet smile but otherwise was too nervous to speak and was trembling visibly.<br />
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On the couch, I took off my jeans to reveal my rock-hard cock stretching out my Andrew Christians. He was so hot! He unzipped and started to play with his cock which quickly grew to +7 inches and quite thick. A thing of beauty, especially on a smaller guy!<br />
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Although Trailer Park Hottie told me in advance that I would not be allowed to touch him, I put some lube on my hand and asked, "May I?" He nodded and I applied lube to his beautiful cock. He stretched back, closed his eyes and moaned and trembled as I used the cock massage techniques taught to me by <a href="http://worntornjeans.tumblr.com/"><span style="color: yellow;">Rick of Torn Jeans</span></a>. So incredibly hot! <br />
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At one point, I whispered in his ear: "Do you want to touch my cock?" He nodded, so I applied lube and he gave a firm-gripped handjob which made me squirm.<br />
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Much later, I whispered again in his ear: "Hey baby, I you to cum my mouth. Can you do that for me?" He nodded again and after very little effort, I had a blast of his sweet, salty cum in my mouth. So hot! I kept his cock in his mouth for a few minutes after he came, feeling it throb sporadically and gently massaging it with my tongue as I caressed his belly, balls and inner thighs with my hands.<br />
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To avoid any after-hookup awkwardness, I pulled on my pants and prepared to leave. Trailer Park Hottie hugged me (at my request) and said: "Next time, I'd like to try some of that on you." Next time? Woo-hoo!<br />
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Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-45319526884604136542015-03-21T10:36:00.000-07:002015-03-21T10:38:15.702-07:00Golden shower<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I've been too busy and exhausted to blog this week, yet again. Most days, I have every intention of doing a quick post at bedtime but invariably, I fall asleep instantly. But here a few random snippets of my week.<br />
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1. The cute, passionate cub who gave me my best complement ever (<a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2015/02/you-fuck-like-porn-star.html"><span style="color: yellow;">"You fuck like a porn star!"</span></a>) wants me to pee on him and then fuck his Hungry Ass. Although I don't understand the sexual appeal of being peed on, I've decided that I want to do it .... I think it might be fun and it will certainly be another interesting item crossed off on my gay sex bucket list.<br />
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But now I am starting to have Peeing Anxiety, more correctly, Volume Anxiety. I am a middle-aged man, after all, and I never could pee like a race horse, even in my prime. But Sexy Cub assures me that is not the volume of pee which is of interest, rather, <i>where it is aimed</i>. <br />
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Does anyone one have any experience with this, or advice? <br />
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2. My son traveled just over half-way across the country to come home for his Spring Break. Although he just turned 18, I am struck by how self-confident and self-reliant he is, as well as being a total hunk. He's extremely handsome; very blonde with brilliant blue eyes, broad shoulders and slim hips.<br />
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He spent most of his time with his girlfriend (a beautiful, quirky, intelligent young woman who was my student for grades 10, 11 and 12), his posse of close friends and slept a few nights at his mother's house. <br />
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Despite that, I saw him nearly every day "on the fly" for short periods of time. His time was seriously divided but he did his best to see me.<br />
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I was sad that he wasn't with me full time, but then I considered how divided his time was and how much pressure he must have been under to spend time with everyone. When your kids are adults, it is natural to see less of them and in a divorced family, the kids' time is even more divided.<br />
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2. My eldest daughter turned 23 this week and I hosted birthday lunch for her, my son and parents. As my daughter is a chef-in-training in a fancy gourmet restaurant in town, I put pressure on myself to produce a "gourmet" lunch. <br />
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The menu: a salad of mixed spring greens with maple vinaigrette, candied pecans and shaved parmesan, crab cakes with corn and cilantro, freshly baked biscuits and that 70s classic, <a href="http://baking.about.com/od/bundtcakes/r/bacardirum.htm"><span style="color: yellow;">Bacardi Rum Cake</span></a><span style="color: yellow;"> </span>baked in a Bundt pan!<br />
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3. I attended a drag event where <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2014/11/can-i-help-carry-in-your-groceries.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Hunky University Student</span> </a>was a featured performer. I was overwhelmed and awe-struck by his on-stage presence! As a woman, he was gorgeous and voluptuous, with incredible energy, charisma and sex appeal. The crowd went wild!<br />
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At the end of the evening, a very drunk married couple staggered towards me at the door. The handsome, well-dressed 40ish husband pressed $10 into my hand. Can you call us a taxi? I laughted: "Are you serious?"<br />
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He hugged me and slurred: "Yes, you look after us and I'll look after you!" I did what he asked and with one arm wrapped deliciously around his mid-section, helped him and his attractive, voluptuous wife (who had been giving me the eye all evening) into the taxi. I had a fleeting thought: if they had offered me $200 for a threesome, I would have said: "Hell, yes!"<br />
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Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-77562081350646404072015-03-14T16:02:00.003-07:002015-03-14T18:27:03.429-07:00Hookup with a drag queen OR Butt-fucking while standing up<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I'm always on the lookout for attention-grabbing post titles and I couldn't decide between these two, so, what the heck, I decided to use them both.<br />
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I'm finding that this one-a-week posting just doesn't work for me; there are so many stories that are falling by the wayside, unreported for my own personal journal of my gay journey. <br />
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It's been an exhausting week and I've been too busy to post, what with my regular teaching duties, school extra-curricular activiyies, Pride planning work and hooking up with some fine men.<br />
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I had hookups three nights in a row with three very special men.<br />
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<u><b>Wednesday Night:</b></u> After many months of messaging, I hooked up with a married guy who occasionally likes to play with men with his wife's blessing, he said. He drove to my house from an isolated northern region some one hour away and brought a bottle of red wine to share. Classy! And highly motivated!<br />
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He didn't tell me his age but I pegged him at 40 but he had an incredibly fit, boyish figure unlike I'd ever seen on a mature man. I was shocked when he told me that he was 56, the father of three with numerous grandchildren.<br />
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Boyish Married Guy had a most remarkable life story: he left school at 13 and was on his own by 16, doing the work of a grown man. He earned his fine figure with a lifetime of doing heavy labour on the railroads, in northern logging operations and in various mines. Although he limited schooling, he was intelligent and extremely interesting to talk to.<br />
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He went on to say: "She beautiful! An amazing woman! I love her more than anything and we have sex all the time, still. But she knows that I need to have a cock up my ass every now and then..... she understands completely."<br />
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We had the most intense hookup ever which lasted several hours, and yes, plenty of butt-sex happened. He'll be back, he said!<br />
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<u><b>Thursday Night:</b></u> I spent the next whole evening, about five hours, with the handsome and insatiable 19 year old university student who I <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2014/11/can-i-help-carry-in-your-groceries.html"><span style="color: yellow;">blogged about here</span></a><span style="color: yellow;">.</span> He's a champion cuddler, a fantastic kisser, horny as hell and a dead ringer for Adam Lambert. <br />
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Hunky Student has the same FABULOUS mop of dark hair, intense eyes but was quite a bit chubbier than Lambert. At Hunky Student's request, I modelled my collection of Andrew Christian undies; he liked the jockstrap the best.<br />
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What I'll remember most about our encounter was the after-glow of our sex, when he laid his his head on my furry chest and looked at me with what seemed to be adoration. Very intimate! Later, we lay naked together with our limbs entwined and lips pressed together and we both fell sound asleep. So sweet!<br />
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And yes, Horny University Student revealed to me that he has been a drag performer for two years and invited me to his next performance next week. I can't wait to see him! We spent hours discussing the appeal of drag and technical aspects of its performance; I received quite an education! <br />
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<u><b>Friday Night: </b></u> I spent yet another evening at the swanky airport hotel with <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2015/03/passionate-brazilian-flight-attendant.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Hunky Brazilian flight attendant.</span></a><span style="color: yellow;"> </span>So hot! It was also my first experience as a top doing stand-up butt-sex which, to be honest, I found to be a pain in the back. But I'll have to write about my new Brazilian friend in my next post.<br />
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But I will say at this: he wants to see me in three weeks, the next time his flight schedule brings him to town. This leads me to this question: How many "regulars" should a gay guy have? I have a dozen or more! <br />
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Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-20845006558494679522015-03-09T05:17:00.000-07:002015-03-09T08:39:41.635-07:00Passionate Brazilian flight attendant<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Like most places in North America, it's been a very cold winter; our average temperature in February was the coldest in our entire recorded weather history.<br />
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But due to the improvements I made in the plumbing system, my water system only froze once, very minimally, which I was able to thaw out in minutes.<br />
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This was huge improvement over last year where I had daily freezing issues for most of January and February. Woo-hoo! But in the past two days, temperatures have soared to 0 C (32 F)! Balmy and spring-like! To my great amusement and pleasure, I noticed a few young men going around town in shorts. :-)<br />
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I haven't posted in over a week not because I had nothing to blog about but I was too busy with gay shenanigans to blog about them including several sweet hookups. I fear that my posts are getting a bit repetitive. But here is an update from last week:<br />
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<li>Every day, I see hot naked guys at my gym with beautiful cocks and asses, letting it all hang out in the communal showers and locker room. It is one of the simple pleasures of my life which I never tire of.</li>
<li>I had a four hour hookup with a Brazilian flight attendant at a swanky airport hotel! He was 35 but looked ten years younger. He was intelligent, passionate and deeply appreciative of my efforts and highly vocal. I asked: "Aren't all your hookups like this?" He shook his head vigorously: "You have no idea !!"</li>
<li>Passionate Brazilian resembled the handsome guys pictured here but without the visible abs; lightly muscled, smooth and with a shaved head and beautiful dark eyes.</li>
<li>Passionate Brazilian was so thrilled with our encounter that he made an arrangement get together next Friday, his next stopover in town. Yes, sir! </li>
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<li>At my school, our GSA has been re-invigorated with help from our students' council and we now have two transgender students (trans boys), two lesbians and (I think) two female allies, "friends of...." attending regularly. </li>
<li>The sad part is that most of the gay teen boys are as deeply closeted as ever. How do we reach them?</li>
<li>I attended our city-wide Gay Straight Alliance planning with 25 FABULOUS queer students; such courage and enthusiasm! We planned many joint and school-based queer events and I am planning a trip for delegation to the national <a href="http://outshine.mygsa.ca/about/"><span style="color: yellow;">Canadian GSA summit in May</span></a><span style="color: yellow;"> </span></li>
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We had a fantastic time but mainly "played house", rarely leaving his downtown condo. But it remains bittersweet, I think for both of us, living so far apart among other complications.
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Today's pics are a nod to all the hot, buff young men I see every day at my athletic centre. <a href="https://sporeflections.wordpress.com/2015/02/24/urspo-goes-to-the-gym-2/"><span style="color: yellow;">Dr. Spo recently posted</span></a><span style="color: yellow;"> </span>about the pleasures of ogling the voluptuous asses and hot bodies of the sexy men during his workouts and I feel the same way.<br />
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I deeply appreciate the fact that many of these hot guys aren't afraid to wear short shorts or bulge-revealing spandex shorts or tights, but I love to look at flopping cocks in loose track pants or basketball shorts as well.<br />
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I no longer go to my gym in the morning before work: I just got tired of being around all those grouchy old men (+70) who were the only people there at that ungodly hour. It wasn't just that there is no eye-candy for me in that age group, I got tired of listening to them complain, complain, complain.<br />
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But I wasn't going to the gym after school either; I deal with 80 grade 9 and 10 students all day in three different classes, none of which I've ever taught before. Lovely students all, but I am far too tired at 4:00 pm to go to the gym.<br />
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My solution took care of both issues: I now make a second trip into town l<br />
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ater in the evening, some 20 km, when I am energetic enough to do a proper workout. At 8:00 pm, there are unlimited sights of a great many hot men, both in the workout room and sauna, and even better, naked in the communal showers. Bliss!<br />
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Like many other bloggers, I received notice that my blog will be shut down due to it's sexual content on March 23. I hate the fact that the morality police at Google, a private company, have so much control over what we can and cannot look at online.<br />
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I'm not sure what I will do other than to say that I plan to continue blogging. I would deeply miss not sharing my adventures online and I hope that my story helps education and entertain readers everywhere, particularly closeted, married men like I was. Should I move to Wordpress? Tumblr? Nibblebit? Seek my own dot com address? I'll have to decide soon!<br />
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This weekend, I am travelling to a major Canadian city to visit my special friend who moved away some weeks after our first meeting. I mentioned him <span style="color: yellow;"><a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2015/01/hunks-in-jeans.html"><span style="color: yellow;">in point #6, in this post</span></a>.</span> We miss each other terribly, but I don't really want to blog about our personal situation.<br />
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A busy week! Numerous evening events meant that I haven't gotten to bed earlier than 2:00 a.m. for the past several nights. I've been too tired / too busy to read many blogs let alone write a post myself.<br />
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My life still seem to be "all gay, all the time" and there are many untold stories which are falling by the wayside. The thought of writing a detailed post which will do the stories justice seems daunting. I should go back to posting more frequently (ie: every second day) but have much smaller posts. <br />
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In my last post, <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2015/02/you-fuck-like-porn-star.html"><span style="color: yellow;">"You fuck like a porn star!"</span></a>, I was extremely delighted with that compliment but I've received much positive feedback from many bottoms in recent months. They generally seem extremely happy with how my cock makes them feel.<br />
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I am becoming extremely confident as a top but since I've never experienced pleasure as a bottom, I still need to learn many techniques which would maximize a bottom's pleasure.<br />
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A couple of bottoms have told me that it drives them wild when my cock head pounds against their prostate, so I've try to hit this "G-Spot" every time. But, I'm ashamed to admit, I am somewhat ignorant of male anatomy as to how to hit the prostate with my cock.<br />
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With the bottom on his back in the missionary position, I try to angle my cock "upwards" when I"m thrusting in his ass, with the goal of hitting his prostate which is located (I think) under the base of his cock. <b><u>Does that sound reasonable?</u></b><br />
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Compared with sticking your cock into a self-lubricating vagina, anal sex seems so much more complicated.<br />
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Especially for a bottom virgin, a great deal of trust is needed, I think. Before starting, I try to get the bottom as aroused, relaxed and "juicy" as possible. To do this, I really enjoy eating his ass before proceeding but I this alone will not open up his asshole much.<br />
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Unless he's a very experienced bottom, I open him up more with a well-lubed finger but I much prefer using a vibrating anal trainer which drives the boys wild!<br />
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And I follow all the usual advice; use <u>lots</u> of lube, and proceed slowly, slowly, slowly. In fact, it's often best to let the bottom control the pace by having him to ride your cock with the first penetration. He can lower himself onto your cock as slowly and as much as he wants.<br />
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But as to the thrusting itself, what works best? Should I "stir" or rotate my cock while it's in his ass? Thrust up?, down? sideways? Pound or not pound? Or both?<br />
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And as to the position, during my typical topping session, I use many of them: missionary, doggie-style, on our sides, the bottom riding my cock (either facing you or facing away) and one where the bottom does a semi-shoulder stand, his ass pointing straight up in the air. Any favourites?<br />
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And when your cock is in a guy's asshole, is it common for the bottom's cock to go soft? This isn't a problem, but in my experience, it seems to happen to at least half of my men. Is that typical?<br />
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Hey, all you experienced tops out there! <span style="font-size: large;"><u><b> </b></u></span><br />
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Do you have any favourite tips, tricks and positions? Do you have any experienced topping stories you wish to share? I'd love to hear about them all!<br />
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<br />Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com17tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-70046357893853895302015-02-15T08:42:00.004-07:002015-02-15T08:46:41.174-07:00"You Fuck like a Porn Star!"<br />
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That has to be my best "gay complement" ever and it makes me smile every time I think of it.<br />
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It was said to me yesterday, Valentine's Day, by a passionate, handsome, slightly chubby, 32 year old nurse who needed my help to live out some of his fantasies.<br />
He owns a house less than one block away from my parents' house so I was always showing up on his Grindr and squirt fed as the gay guy nearest to him. <br />
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We had been messaging for nearly two years and I found his online personality to be intelligent, experienced and articulate, especially when compared to everyone else on Squirt. <br />
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But we never met until yesterday for various reasons; the biggest reason was that two years ago, I wasn't a confident top and he refused to kiss on a casual hookup. He wanted me to pound his ass and then leave; not my cup of tea at all. I didn't think that I could do it because I need sweet love-making, kissing and sucking cock to become aroused.<br />
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I had no pressing work or family commitments, had all my sex supplies with me (lube, condoms, vibrator), was freshly showered, teeth brushed and was not too tired. Most importantly, he finally agreed to some proper love-making. So I agreed to drive down the block to his house.<br />
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<span style="color: red;">Horny Nurse:</span> Would you consider helping me live out one of my fantasies?<br />
<span style="color: red;">Buddy Bear:</span> Maybe. Try me.<br />
<span style="color: red;">Horny Nurse:</span> How about this: my front door will be unlocked, you come in, go down the hall, second door on the right. I'll be on the bed, blindfolded, lubed, on my hands and knees ready for you to pound my ass.<br />
<span style="color: red;">Buddy Bear:</span> Sure, I can do that!<br />
<span style="color: red;">Horny Nurse:</span> Really?<br />
<span style="color: red;">Buddy Bear: </span> See you in five minutes.<br />
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His street was so dark that I couldn't read the house numbers and I approached a number of incorrect houses before finding the correct one. I obsessively checked the house number numerous times before I went in with some trepidation. What if I was going into the wrong house?<br />
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To my surprise, I found it incredibly hot, finding a blindfolded man waiting for me like that. I loved having my way with him, licking his ass, giving him a finger prostate massage, licking his balls and taint and sucking his cock.<br />
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He was very responsive, moaning and whimpering as I teasing him over and over again, sticking my tongue deep into his ass and then denying him as he attempted to press his ass harder into my face. The more he begged, "Fuck me hard!", the more I held back.<br />
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I thought he was going to have a heart attack of pleasure when I produced my surprise weapon, my trusty anal vibrator. I thought I was going to have to peel him off the ceiling.... so hot!<br />
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Finally, I did pound his ass; doggie fashion, face-to-face, sideways and every which way, complete with the sound of skin-on-skin slapping and the banging of the headboard against the wall. That's when he cried out: <b> </b><br />
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He stopped me: "Please don't. Let me live out my fantasy right to the end."<br />
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After with both came, we cuddled together and chatted about the local gay scene, my Pride planning activities and the many gay guys we both knew.<br />
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Finally, I had to leave: my doggies were waiting at home and he was expected at a going-away party for a young dude I know on the Pride planning committee. I know they'll be talking about me!<br />
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<span style="color: yellow;">Horny Nurse: </span> I have a few more fantasies. Would you be willing to help me out with them?<br />
<span style="color: yellow;">Buddy Bear: </span>I'm open to pretty much anything.<br />
<span style="color: yellow;">Horny Nurse:</span> I'm sure you are! <br />
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<br />Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-21254571978554961542015-02-11T04:55:00.000-07:002015-02-11T09:10:26.828-07:00Cock-hungry country boy<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjg7b98VcufSTItzm3-4ffyJIvA4n5P2rcLGY4DZdy8bgGAAmh-fQLqLJBvfr2zBqqYh69i6lG_biAI_Mhj8YJTqHVDWxJtI8O7pxQUWNvIhWPxSUXJ7telugwgKWUO-nbE7sV8NDElEtle/s1600/z-cock-balls-anal-erection-hunk-ass-crotch-taint-cut.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjg7b98VcufSTItzm3-4ffyJIvA4n5P2rcLGY4DZdy8bgGAAmh-fQLqLJBvfr2zBqqYh69i6lG_biAI_Mhj8YJTqHVDWxJtI8O7pxQUWNvIhWPxSUXJ7telugwgKWUO-nbE7sV8NDElEtle/s1600/z-cock-balls-anal-erection-hunk-ass-crotch-taint-cut.jpg" height="400" width="300" /></a> I first sucked off <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2014/10/sucked-off-country-boy.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Hunky Country Dude</span></a> in October in his garage while he was leaning against his Quad Runner. In December, he invited me to his new apartment for some extended playtime, having moved out of the family home where he lived with his fiancee and her children. <br />
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He's true country boy, 39, 5'-8", with a scruffy beard, lovely natural muscles, a beautiful smile and a fondness for wearing camo. He was also startlingly handsome, sort of a backwoods Brad Pitt but with an acne-scarred face.<br />
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Today's pics are from the <a href="http://edgeofreality222.blogspot.ca/"><span style="color: yellow;">Edge Of Reality</span></a> blog and all remind me in some way of Country Dude. So masculine! <br />
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Hunky Country Dude messaged me at 10:00 pm last night, horny as hell and wanting immediate relief. But he wasn't at home; he was staying in a remote cabin some thirty miles out of town, down a desolate winter road. It was also -20 C and it was a snowy, windy night,<br />
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I thought, what the hell, I haven't done anything crazy for a while! So I packed up my sex supplies and set off, exchanging texts with Country Dude as I drove past each major landmark. It was an the unlight wilderness road with no signage at all and I was worried about (1) getting lost or (2) putting my car into a snowy ditch. <br />
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He greeted me warmly; it was a cozy, rustic cabin, well-heated by a wood stove and decorated with stuffed moose heads and fish on the wood-paneled walls. <br />
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Country Boy and I sucked each others' cocks and ate ass for nearly two hours and in every position imaginable; face down, face up, me on top and him on top. I am making definite inroads with his sexual exploration and my prediction (and goal) is that he will have his first man-kiss with me the next time we meet.<br />
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At one point, he did a headstand in the ratty La-Z-Boy recliner with his asshole pointing heavenward, while I feasted on his ass, cock and balls from behind the chair. It was as though he was trying to re-enact every bad porn video he ever saw in his life. lol<br />
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At the start, his virgin asshole could barely accommodate my pinky finger but I brought along my Baby, a tapered silicone anal vibrator... which I KNEW he would love. I swear I had the vibrator in his ass for an hour while I sucked his cock and balls. He was so enthralled with the vibrator that he handed me his cell phone and asked me to shoot video if it being applied to his ass.<br />
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Country Dude offered to stick the vibrator up my ass too and after a second's deliberation, I agreed ... a first!<br />
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I didn't cum with the vibrator but it certainly gave me a warm tingle which radiated throughout most of my body. But eventually, my Baby's batteries ran out and we had to put her reluctantly aside. <br />
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He smoked several cigarettes not after sex but DURING having sex with me. It was TOO FUNNY! Together, we also shared several cans of beer on the bedside table. <br />
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He was just so insatiable, so crazed with lust that I had to smile at his eagerness. I'd rank him on my "A-list" of hot lovers for sure, probably #5 overall.<br />
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But by 1:30 a.m, I was exhausted and my body ached from nearly two hours of sexual acrobatics. I am 52, have arthritis and just couldn't do it anymore! I had a long, wintry drive ahead through a desolate wilderness and it was a school night, too boot!<br />
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Although Country Dude had been delaying his organism for hours and was begging me to take his bottom virginity, I put and end to the prospect of being his top by making myself cum .... and then sucking him off. <br />
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He was very disappointed but I said, "Next time dude, I promise! I guarantee you'll get my cock in your ass for as long as you want!"<br />
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With that, I shook hands with him*, accepted his cell phone number and disappeared into the night. After four hours' of sleep, I seriously overslept and arrived minutes before class to face my thirty grade 10 students with the taste of Country Dude's cum on my lips and cigarette smoke in my hair. What a slut I am! <br />
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*Country Dude is far too manly to kiss or even hug men. But he has an insatiable appetite for the more "masculine" activities of sucking cock, eating ass and taking a guy's balls in his mouth. :-)<br />
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Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com17tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-67646636150165079992015-02-07T05:34:00.000-07:002015-02-07T19:12:27.340-07:00Beautiful cocks in speedos<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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That blog title by itself will triple the page views for this post. It's still very chilly here (-28 C overnight, -15 C in the day time), so I am dreaming of a warmer location with hot guys like the ones pictured here.<br />
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I never tire of looking at pictures of men in Speedos. It's amazing to think that there's just that thin, stretchy bit of fabric clinging to their cocks and balls; no wonder gay men love Speedos so!<br />
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<u>Now for today's "gay" story:</u><br />
On the first day of classes, a student in my new grade 9 class looked like the stereotypical surly, angry, biker chick. She had shredded jeans, her hair shaved high above her ears but long on top, goth-type makeup and spiky metal jewelry. She sat there sullenly, ignoring the lesson, drawing graffiti with blue ink and permanent marker all over the exposed skin of her arms and through the shreds of her jeans. I wondered if she was the sort of girl who would <a href="http://www.helpguide.org/articles/anxiety/cutting-and-self-harm.htm"><span style="color: yellow;">self-harm</span></a>.<br />
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After about 20 minutes, I said: "Breanna, will you be doing any work today?" and she ignored me.<br />
Later, she beckoned me over with a crooked finger and whispered like a timid mouse: "Can we talk in the hallway?" I said: "Of course!" She turned out to be the sweetest, shyest girl I'd ever met. She said: "You can call me anything you want except for Breanna. I don't care what." <br />
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I said: "No problem!" and after some discussion, we settled on "Bree." And then she added: "And, I go by another pronoun." I said, "No problem!" and we chatted a bit but since I had 30 goofy, remedial level students alone in the classroom, I said that we really had to go back to class.<br />
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For the remainder of the class, Bree continued to do no work at all but smiled at my shyly. When the bell rang, the goofy boys thundered out (school was over for the day!) but she lingered until the room was empty.<br />
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<span style="color: red;">Buddy Bear:</span> "I like your earrings!" (she wore Pride striped earrings shaped like buttons) That simple remark was like opening the floodgates. She launched into her 'coming out' story.'<br />
<span style="color: red;">Bree:</span> "Thank you! I came out to my parents awhile ago. I was so scared!"<br />
<span style="color: red;">BB:</span> "How did it go?"<br />
<span style="color: red;">Bree:</span> "Well, they're Christian, so not well. My Dad started quoting the Bible at me!"... (grimaced)<br />
<span style="color: red;">BB: </span> "But they're getting used to it now?"<br />
<span style="color: red;">Bree:</span> "Yes, they're better now. But I was so nervous!"<br />
<span style="color: red;">BB:</span> "I admire you tremendously. It takes so much courage to do that. I came out to my parents when I was 47!"<br />
<span style="color: red;">Bree:</span> (her eyes nearly popped out of her head) <b>WHAT?????</b><br />
<span style="color: red;">BB:</span> "Yes, I was 47, had three teenage kids and and had been married to a woman for 20 years. I came out to all of them 4 years ago!.... my wife, my kids, my parents, everyone!<br />
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Bree didn't show up to school for the next several days, so I phoned home. Her mother said that Bree had been admitted to a local facility dealing with adolescent mental health issues. The mother seemed highly supportive but deeply concerned about the whole gay thing. We talked at length and I explained to her that teens sometimes need to figure themselves out; that their gender and sexual identity can be "fluid."<br />
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I also briefly told her about my own coming out and how my three teenagers are now doing better than ever. Bree's mother said that my story was amazing, like "the light at the end of the tunnel."<br />
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Within the school, I had a duty to report all this to our principal and the school counsellor and explained to them about the fluid nature of gender identity and sexuality in teens. On Friday, Bree came to see me again to say that she would not be coming to class today; she only came to meet with the school counsellor. <br />
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It's a story that is still in progress, but I like to think that I am making a difference as a out gay teacher and role model. I just hope that Bree and her family get through this without her coming to harm; dropping out, getting involved with drugs or committing suicide.<br />
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<br />Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-21745579001059778752015-02-03T04:41:00.000-07:002015-02-03T04:59:05.181-07:00Buddy Bear in Andrew Christian undies<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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My sweet, ex-mother-in-law treated me like a prince throughout my twenty year marriage, in retrospect, far better than my wife ever did. Three years ago, when my wife told her the dramatic news that I was gay, my mother-in-law replied: <b> </b></div>
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<b>"I hold _ _ _ _ _ in the highest regard and nothing you tell me will ever change my mind about him."</b></div>
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To her credit and despite her bitterness and hatred of me, my wife told me what her mother had said, and I wept at my mother-in-law's words. She has remained my biggest supporter which is all the more remarkable coming from an elderly lady from a conservative area in the backwoods of rural Nova Scotia.<br />
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What this is leading up to is that my mother-in-law sent me $30 for Christmas, yet again. Imagine that! She's still sending presents to her gay, ex-son-in-law!<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieNsF9m78Qb4FNq58O56aSdRgPUVsAIo9TpHfoDjXxi6iIEusK93BvU96Un93GIp73HUG6p0y4mkIgDyUNjyWMoAo2Bg-LKKjkADzXFxVxf2o3fgKk8Yzw3gP-_ycQufm6Y4AZpo1yE9km/s1600/DSC01189.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieNsF9m78Qb4FNq58O56aSdRgPUVsAIo9TpHfoDjXxi6iIEusK93BvU96Un93GIp73HUG6p0y4mkIgDyUNjyWMoAo2Bg-LKKjkADzXFxVxf2o3fgKk8Yzw3gP-_ycQufm6Y4AZpo1yE9km/s1600/DSC01189.JPG" height="400" width="300" /></a>Although I am absolutely broke, instead of using it to pay household bills, in a fit of wild extravagance, I ordered an <a href="http://www.andrewchristian.com/"><span style="color: yellow;">Andrew Christian</span></a> "grab bag" for $29.99 US. It was advertised to contain three pair of premium AC undies and one random item: either swim trunks, jewellry, a cap or a calendar. <br />
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I was so excited when the package came! It far exceeded my expectations: a pair of hot pink pouch-front briefs, a pouch-front jockstrap, a pair of modest but very high-quality swim shorts and the peek-a-boo ass, pouch-front undies pictured here. I feel so hot wearing them!<br />
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<b>Would you like to see pictures of me wearing the rest of the undies? </b><br />
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On the hookup front, I have still not logged on to Grindr, Squirt, Scruff or pof.com to avoid having to say "no" to hot guys making offers for sex. I am just two busy with the new school semester and too tired to hook up.<br />
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Part of my lack of interest in seeking hookups is also that it's been -35 C in recent weeks..... far too cold to go out! All I want to do is cuddle in bed with my doggies after my work day is done.<br />
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Having said that, I received a text from the <span style="color: yellow;"><a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2014/07/an-arab-curved-cock.html"><span style="color: yellow;">sweet Muslim engineering student</span></a></span>, 25, and I couldn't say no to him. It's been months since I heard from him and he was cuter than ever, cuddly as hell and absolutely insatiable. <br />
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But I noticed a big change in Sweet Muslim Dude's love-making from our last encounter.<br />
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Last time, he was very aggressive, hot-to-trot and quick to finish. Now, we had a more (shall I say), sophisticated and mature approach; his passion was still there we were able to slow it down considerably; slow, slow kisses, licking, sucking and quiet sensuality which went on for hours. So hot!<br />
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But the most exciting development was that he moved out of his
roommate's apartment and got a place of his own. I'm fairly sure we'll be getting together more often than before. :-)<br />
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<br />Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com16tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-83830472250390793382015-01-30T05:52:00.002-07:002015-01-31T14:34:58.418-07:00Elderly, Lonely and LGBTQ<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Today's pics of are of handsome, hunky men in my favourite position: beefy thighs spread wide open and showing off an inviting bulge. But they have nothing to do with the content of this post.<br />
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As a member of our Pride organizing committee, planning for our June Pride 2015 week is really starting to gear up. This week, I've met with two very different LGBTQ groups in town.<br />
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<u><b>GROUP #1:</b></u> I was invited to speak to some LGBTQ youth about our town's Pride activities with the goal of getting them involved as volunteers, future organizers and / or participants.<br />
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The young people, aged 15 - 20, were in a support group funded by the provincial government. The group was set up to provide mutual support, information and a social outlet for LGBTQ youth, many of whom are on the fringes of society due to poverty, family dysfunction or race.<br />
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As well, this group gets involved in projects involving LGBTQ community service and in the end, agreed to volunteer at our Pride Film Night and assist in its planning as well. What was most interesting was, out of the 15 youth present, three-quarters of them were First Nations (....aboriginal, Canadian-Indian) and four were transgender.<br />
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Part of the reason for this was probably because the group's leader was First Nations herself: a respected elder in her aboriginal community and a lesbian who is also involved in LGBTQ activism in our wider community. <br />
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But I couldn't help but think that the high participation rate of First Nations youth reflected their history. Before the coming of the white men with their religious intolerance, First Nations cultures revered <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2011/08/two-spirited.html"><span style="color: yellow;">two-spirited</span></a> people and held them in high esteem within their communities.<br />
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I think that LGBTQ people who are aboriginal are much more readily accepted (and I hope celebrated) in aboriginal culture than in the more constipated white society.<br />
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I love hooking up with aboriginal guys for this reason: they're more relaxed, more accepting of their attraction to men, more "in the moment' than most white guys that I've been with.<br />
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<u><b>GROUP #2:</b></u> Last night, some of us Pride organizers attended a new 50+ LGBTQ social group being set up in town. 14 middle-aged and elderly gay men and lesbians showed up in equal numbers with at least one elderly trans-woman. All were single and most seemed to be childless as well.<br />
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We participated in ice-breaker activities, watched an interesting LGBTQ documentary, ate refreshments, mingled and had a very honest group discussion about the excitements and challenges of being LGBTQ in later life. One common fear was that of ending up alone, of loneliness.<br />
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As that generation of LGBTQ folks move through their 70s, 80s and even into their 90s, who is going to look after them? Most do not have children and some do not even have supportive families. Some may have set up strong networks of LGBTQ friends for mutual support but others might just have to depend on social service agencies for help. A scary prospect.<br />
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I got a little teary-eyed at the honesty and vulnerability of these folks. I never once considered what it would be like to be 80, alone, not well off, in poor health and LGBTQ. These folks grew up in a time when being queer was regarded as an abnormality to be feared, shunned or even punished.<br />
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Once again, I thought of how lucky I was to have the support of my three fabulous children.<br />
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In the end, the group agreed to meet every six weeks or so and started to plan future events such as game nights, movie nights, summer picnics and the like. As well, the Pride organizers agreed to add a 50+ LGBTQ event to our Pride week, probably a dance.<br />
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Most of the older folks said that they do not feel comfortable mingling in a social setting (such as a bar) with exclusively young gays. But all agreed that younger LGBTQ folks would certainly be welcome to attend our 50+events, as long as us old folks were in the majority!<br />
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As an aside, the moderator of the group was a 39 year old French Canadian dude who worked for the provincial agency which funded this elder LGBTQ initiative. He was a total hottie, absolutely gorgeous, single, with piercing blue eyes and a fine body.<br />
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Hottie Moderator asked me if I was single, engaged me in conversation throughout the evening, hugged me preferentially as I left and asked if I needed a ride home. Too funny!<br />
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Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-36863980081668077762015-01-24T20:25:00.001-07:002015-01-24T21:01:43.120-07:00Threesome with a young Asian bottom<blockquote class="tr_bq">
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I've had relatively few hookups in the past month.<br />
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First, my out-of-town kids were living here on and off for their three week Christmas break. I just could not bear being caught yet again with one of my Gentleman Callers.<br />
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Then, I spent a couple of weeks exclusively with <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2015/01/hunks-in-jeans.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Mr. Perfect</span></a> who has now moved to a far-away big city. Finally, I had a wisdom tooth out which hurt like hell for a couple of weeks afterwards. It was too uncomfortable to kiss or suck cock, but is better now.<br />
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Finally on Friday night, I decided it was time to log onto the various sites for some action: <a href="http://squirt.org/"><span style="color: yellow;">squirt.org</span></a> <a href="http://pof.com/"><span style="color: yellow;">POF.com</span></a> and grindr. <br />
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By Saturday morning, I got many messages from a wide range of men.<br />
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1. A hunky, 23 year old "straight" firefighter who has sexy-texted me for months but never wants to meet.<br />
2. My foot-fetish friend with the <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2013/09/the-most-beautiful-cock-in-world.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Most Beautiful Cock in the World</span></a> seeking a third.<br />
3. A 30 year-old big-cocked, mixed race business traveller.<br />
4 & 5. A couple of late-30s bottoms including the <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2013/07/spanking-fetish-continued.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Spanking Dude</span></a> who I hooked up with over two years ago<br />
6. A handsome late 40s businessman who I hooked up with in the summer. He texted me from an airport some 1,500 km away, trying to arrange a sleepover with him tonight in a swanky, local hotel. <br />
7. A gorgeous, masculine, bearded "straight" 25 year old heavy equipment operator.<br />
8. A smooth, fit mid-30s Asian dude who I suspect is a dentist, judging from background in his picture. <br />
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The masculine "straight" dude (#7) asked for a picture of my cock. I said "no" and he stopped messaging me. Who cares? <br />
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I didn't yet answer #4. #5 and #8, but I'll probably tell them "no." I just can't take on any more guys!<br />
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I told #6 that I would not sleep over at his hotel because his plane arrived at 11:30 pm, and besides, what would I do with the dogs? I suggested an early-morning visit, but, just between us girls, I don't really care if that happens or not. It's 30 km away!<br />
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I tentatively accepted a hookup offer with #3 later in the afternoon, but who I later cancelled: I was too tired after my threesome!<br />
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But I did say "YES!" to the threesome. By the time I drove to the Beautiful Cock Dude's house and let myself in, the threesome with the 20 year-old Filipino dude* had already started without me.<br />
*he's a student at our local college<br />
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Filipino Bottom was 5'10", handsome, slightly plump-ish, a fantastic kisser and an insatiable, <u>Hungry</u> <u>Bottom</u> with a really, really small cock. He was also intelligent, chatty and spoke flawless English.<br />
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I won't describe all the technical details, but I can say that it was so fucking hot! In the next hour, the three of us tried every possible combination of kissing, sucking cock and ... well... everything, while me and the Beautiful Cock guy took turns in pounding the sweet Filipino's ass while he demanded more and more.<br />
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He was insatiable (!) and with all modesty, I'd say we looked every bit as hot as those threesomes you see in gay porn videos .... in an expanded-waistline, middle-aged kind of way. My only "ick" moment happened when Hungry Bottom asked for double penetration (both of our cocks in his ass at the same time) to which my big cocked friend said: "Next time."<br />
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My Beautiful Cock friend REALLY gets off by watching guys having sex so I spent more time pounding Filipino Bottom's ass than he did. At first, I found it disconcerting to perform while under such close scrutiny but I quickly got used to it and besides, he is a good friend who I trust. <br />
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In the end, we cuddled naked together, making a sweetFilipino sandwich while we asked him about his home country, family, future plans and caught up on local gossip.<br />
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Filipino Bottom, in turn, questioned me closely about my sexual history, trying to understand how a gay guy could have had three children.<br />
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It was a sweet, intimate moment. :-)| <br />
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<br />Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-89759316697615467542015-01-19T06:49:00.001-07:002015-01-19T07:51:15.302-07:00Naked sleeping men<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAOilBhIVNX_eam4zGk-nf_9sS_4tinccYG-56-CtiiVr_LNyLWEk5tFtj-E_o0LVUf70PYCQkPPaSCxC2-FqB_XcwrCjPo52g5za8NNzfmmssMEp3INyn5RRI4HTN7O1FXfpgMVn8x3st/s1600/DSC01167.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAOilBhIVNX_eam4zGk-nf_9sS_4tinccYG-56-CtiiVr_LNyLWEk5tFtj-E_o0LVUf70PYCQkPPaSCxC2-FqB_XcwrCjPo52g5za8NNzfmmssMEp3INyn5RRI4HTN7O1FXfpgMVn8x3st/s1600/DSC01167.jpg" height="223" width="400" /></a><br />
It's Monday morning and I'm procrastinating in bed, looking at pictures of hunky, sleeping men. To further delay things, I decided to take a naked pic of myself for all the world to see. (first picture, upper left corner)<br />
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I have to be out the door in ten minutes, but I don't have much to say to accompany these beautiful pictures.<br />
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I had a very quiet weekend for several reasons. I'm rather sad because I'm missing Mr. Perfect (who I mentioned in <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2015/01/hunks-in-jeans.html"><span style="color: yellow;">point #6 in this post</span></a><span style="color: yellow;">)</span> who moved to a city some 1400 km away on Friday.<br />
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As well, my wisdom tooth is still quite painful and I was exhausted after a wild and crazy teacher staff party on Friday night; it took me nearly all Saturday to recover. :-(<br />
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I spent my weekend walking my dogs, trying to restore order to my chaotic house, taking down my Christmas tree, visiting my parents and going to my athletic complex where I can, without fail, see many hot guys, bulging in the weight rooms or naked in the communal showers, locker rooms and sauna. I'm so lucky! <br />
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I did not log onto squirt, grindr, scruff or pof.com at all because I was sure to receive offers which I wouldn't have accepted.<br />
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<br />Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-12537970161892372212015-01-15T06:28:00.003-07:002015-01-15T06:36:13.741-07:00A hunk in ripped-crotch jeans<br />
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This is an early-morning post of random thoughts just before I dash off to school. <br />
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1. I was at our college campus the other day on business related to my Pride planning, hot college guys everywhere I looked, just like the ones pictured here. The student hunks included many <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2014/07/sweet-brazilian-boy-3.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Brazilian boys</span></a> and other sweet exchange students but I didn't see MY Brazilian boys.<br />
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They ALL reminded me of the many 20-something men I've shared my bed with over the past few years. I was crazed with lust, thinking of all those cocks and balls hidden from view, all that testosterone.<br />
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2. As I walked by one hunky dude sitting on a bench, a flash of colour caught my eye. He was sitting in in my favourite open-crotch pose and OMFG!!!, there was a rip in the crotch of his tight, bulging jeans.<br />
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He looked exactly like the dude at the upper left, except, a flash of red underwear was showing through the tear in the crotch of his jeans rather than his cock. Never mind, it was insanely hot and I found an excuse to linger across from him to savour the view a big longer.<br />
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That tease! Surely he knew how hot that crotch tear was, how insanely sexy he was, but I wondered who was his intended audience? I thought: "Well done, young man!" <br />
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4. We think of gay honour killings happening in far away countries such as India where LGBTQ family members have been kille, usually by a father or older brother, to avoid family shame. <br />
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But listen to this <a href="http://www.cbc.ca/thecurrent/episode/2015/01/14/the-invisible-crime-gay-honour-killing/"><span style="color: yellow;">disturbing account from CBC radio </span></a><span style="color: yellow;">of a gay Canadian university student</span> who was threatened with death by his father. Honour killings happen in Canada, too! <br />
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5. I had a wisdom tooth extraction this week; a very unpleasant, painful procedure but the dentist provided some eye candy. He was in his late 50s, good looking and in decent shape and casually dressed in brown boots and jeans.<br />
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During our initial conversation, he laid his hand on my shoulder and made much eye contact with me as he explained the procedure. Hmmmm..... did I feel the tingle of a gay vibe? I fell into that gay man's trap yet again, thinking that every man around me is either gay or a gay wanna-be. <br />
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6. I'm having my seventh date with Mr. Perfect tonight. I mentioned him in <a href="https://www.blogger.com/.http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2015/01/cocks-in-union-suits.html"><span style="color: yellow;">this post</span></a> (in Story #2 half way down the page.) It will be bittersweet because he is moving tomorrow to a city some 1400 km away. <br />
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I don't want to blog about the details but it's fair to say that we really, really like each other. It's complicated situation which I didn't anticipate, for sure! But we both think the phrase: "You rocked my world" applies.<br />
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Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-62603277988076259352015-01-10T08:53:00.003-07:002015-01-11T07:02:09.159-07:00Young versus old(er) gays.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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It's been an extremely busy and exhausting week with school related, Pride-planning or family events every evening. I've said "no" to offers from many of my favourite guys including the <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/%20hunky%20construction%20dude"><span style="color: yellow;">Hunky Construction Worker</span></a> and the <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2014/11/can-i-help-carry-in-your-groceries.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Sweet University Student</span></a>. (who has messaged me repeatedly)<br />
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For the last several nights, I've refrained from logging on to <a href="http://squirt.org/"><span style="color: yellow;">squirt.org</span></a>, <span style="color: yellow;"><a href="http://pof.com/"><span style="color: yellow;">pof.com</span></a></span> and Grindr so the guys won't see that I'm online. I find it awkward to turn down a sexy guy I know and eventually, I fear that he will stop asking. <br />
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As a member of our Pride planning committee, preparation for our June 2015 events are in full swing. I am spending a great deal of time working with the full committee and others in the community involved in the several Pride events which I'm organizing. <br />
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At this week's meeting, we heard a presentation from a gay guy, 52, who wanted us to include a Pride event specifically targeted at LGBTQ people who were aged 50+. He felt that all of our Pride events were youth or family oriented. He claimed that older gays felt uncomfortable at events with blaring music or alcohol being served, or, at our Pride picnic, with young children running around. (I don't feel uncomfortable at all in these situations!)<br />
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He also described his awkwardness with the great social divide between between young gay guys and older ones. He said that he is often treated with scorn and rudeness if he initiates a conversation with younger gay guys online or in person, as though he was a creepy stalker.<br />
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The Pride committee graciously agreed to add a 50+ event to our already-packed Pride week. The older committee members (including me) also agreed to attend the first 50+ LGBTQ social event later this month, although I have mixed feelings about this.<br />
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This will sound terribly ageist, but to be extremely honest, I don't actually want to attend. I have no desire to sit around awkwardly in a seniors' centre with a bunch of grouchy old gay men complaining about this and that. I'm stereotyping, of course, but I also can't squeeze any more evening events into my schedule.<br />
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<i>PS: I later read the 52 year old guy's squirt profile which I found to be wildly inconsistent. He claimed to be "seeking a relationship with and older man, not a hookup." Yet, in the section TURNED ON BY, he listed the type of men he was seeking: twinks, nerds, students and jocks.</i><br />
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Dude, really? He claims to be seeking men his age but is only sexually attracted to young men; I don't see how that will work out!<br />
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But what about this "social divide" between young and old gays men? After the meeting, I discussed the issue with a very experienced 50-ish trans-woman on the committee.<br />
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I told her that 70% of my offers came from guys in their early 20s. All the young gay guys I meet are seeking the safety and experience of an older guy, a "Daddy" figure. I see no evidence of an age-related social divide.<br />
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My new trans friend (who has manged gay bars in big cities) explained that these young gay men only feel free to contact me because they are "hidden" online. She said that if I walked into a gay bar, I would see a segregation of young gay guys on one side and old gay guys on the other.<br />
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None of the young gay guys would have the courage to mingle with the older gay guys and would be mocked by their peers if they did. And if any of the older gay guys tried to speak to younger gay guy in person, he would be treated rudely and be dismissed as a creepy, ugly old man.<br />
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I'm sure that my trans friend was right, but I have no experience with gay bars. <br />
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Does anyone have any experience on an age divide in the gay community? Does it express itself differently online rather than in person?<br />
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<br />Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-36500151772764235012015-01-06T06:16:00.003-07:002015-01-06T10:09:50.320-07:00Cocks in Union Suits<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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We're in the middle of a deep freeze with overnight temperatures dipping to -33 C. I'm in full hibernation mode: once I get home from school, all I want is to be tucked in bed with my two doggies.<br />
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I've been wearing a union suit (I own several) all week which are fantastic for warmth. As well, I feel as sexy as hell wearing them unbuttoned down to <i>there</i>....<br />
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I've posted about my attraction to <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2012/02/red-union-suit.html"><span style="color: yellow;">hunky men in long johns</span></a>, before. None of today's pictures of are of me, but I have posted my own union suit pictures <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2012/02/red-union-suit.html"><span style="color: yellow;">here in 2012</span></a> and some 2013 pics; a front view <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjU9BTMYKIZm0Wgy5Tz9yCi1N0FdBKzWa5C72BIOrM3BtIY0JO2MWss7OYuRjIzp_0SLXqdEmZNPhJnkM48aG_ORJHIX7n-sCroBfsitlNVAkQqKIPIXxZEJudK20WC361pyE54zSxvvhcG/s1600/red-union-suite-long-johns-cock-pubes-furry-torso.JPG"><span style="color: yellow;">here</span></a> and a back view <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQyZcfEtsbjHT9Jf2qfrTYYmzr-b9RHkrHeh_nFYMJcPjYNsikomOaleY-6Se9sOvimcBa1Lr1qN5gr3hFCSKthKjCozBES2zolzZ76JFndaN1dwTM_PzQAM6FGHT9vgC5VAzR2bfhkih6/s1600/red-union-suite-long-johns-ass-juicy-pubes-furry-torso.JPG"><span style="color: yellow;">here</span></a>. <br />
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STORY #1. There was much ex-spousal drama this week because my son, travelling back to school, was marooned in a far-away airport for just over 24 hours due to freezing rain. After months of little contact, she sent me dozens of texts, most of them bossy and annoying and some quite abusive, as we tried to make other make other arrangement for our son.<br />
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As always happens in these situations, dealing with the crisis at hand is usually easy enough; dealing with my ex-wife's hysterical over-reaction and her escalating anger is always a challenge.<br />
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My son, who just turned 18, took it all in stride and is now safely at his home, but he grew fed up with his mother's micromanaging texts. In mid-crisis, my son cut off communication with her, putting me smack in the middle of their texting triangle.<br />
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At one point, my wife phoned me about five times to try to scream at me in person but I refused to pick up. <br />
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All is well now, but this incident just strengthens my resolve to have her out of my life entirely, to cut off all communication. Since we have three kids in common, I know this may not be possible.<br />
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STORY#2: On Sunday, had my fourth date with a great guy. Two were "coffee dates" and two dates were dates where we walked my dog, cooked lunch and spent many, many hours cuddling in bed and making out He's 46, 6'-2", bearish, handsome as hell, sweet, very funny, intelligent and a hopeless romantic who wears his heart on his sleeve. And he seems really interested in me as well.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEheIfDltrXwqxphCj5gtHL_JW2M42vAvDDgPX0GzNRQf5JqddBoHVTWQDOnOO2R1fRlj-TJ1NP5zp2JnVj7gbQSG6Kws7Cs92UPJyOVD0qetOWG5DL_CONAyCfFH_jFAJPn9UUBa-gEzsPz/s1600/cock-bulge-union-suit-tatts-nips-hairy-hunk-torso-peek-cute-mature-man.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEheIfDltrXwqxphCj5gtHL_JW2M42vAvDDgPX0GzNRQf5JqddBoHVTWQDOnOO2R1fRlj-TJ1NP5zp2JnVj7gbQSG6Kws7Cs92UPJyOVD0qetOWG5DL_CONAyCfFH_jFAJPn9UUBa-gEzsPz/s1600/cock-bulge-union-suit-tatts-nips-hairy-hunk-torso-peek-cute-mature-man.jpg" height="400" width="265" /></a>One big issue is that Mr. Perfect has a deeply broken heart. It is his first entry in the gay dating pool after he ended a 20 year relationship <u><i>four weeks ago</i></u> with a man who he says he still loves.<br />
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His ex cheated on him repeatedly with many men including many of their "best" ftiends and lied about it repeatedly Mr. Perfect is deeply scarred by all of this and understands that it may take many years to get over his failed 20 year relationship. As well, he needs to have his own Slut Phase!<br />
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Sadly, Mr. Perfect is moving to a major city some 1,000 miles away to start a new job in<i><u> two weeks. </u></i> He not only dumped his ex, he's selling the house they owned jointly, changing jobs and cities. It's his time for a big adventure..... but from my point of view, the timing couldn't have been worse!<br />
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But I now have a special new friend; we will see each other every now and then, I know. But he opened my eyes to the possibility of what it would be like to be in an LTR with a quality man.<br />
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I'll keep you posted!<br />
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<br />Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-19751299512882347962015-01-01T14:01:00.001-07:002015-01-01T15:25:12.279-07:00Happy New Year!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBLlDKMmMsnwVsoBFQrwsOCjyUMfDGD2MEMA7NLHtDsnkrCGELfK9lZCN9lH_S-9Y-BKA8mpjuB-jho1-7KfUF9hRXf9kVDIL4tkyrDF4lOzxKggRfuswPI5hoU1DI-hCyYqVgZnJJGWn9/s1600/beard-cock-balls-hairy-beefy-thighs-erect-cock-pits-handsome-nips-thick-cock.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBLlDKMmMsnwVsoBFQrwsOCjyUMfDGD2MEMA7NLHtDsnkrCGELfK9lZCN9lH_S-9Y-BKA8mpjuB-jho1-7KfUF9hRXf9kVDIL4tkyrDF4lOzxKggRfuswPI5hoU1DI-hCyYqVgZnJJGWn9/s1600/beard-cock-balls-hairy-beefy-thighs-erect-cock-pits-handsome-nips-thick-cock.jpg" height="400" width="266" /></a><br />
Today's pictures from the Tumblr site, <a href="http://boners4beards.tumblr.com/archive"><span style="color: yellow;">Boners4Beards</span>,</a> are a nod to all the sexy, beefy hunks in my town, manyof whom have beautiful facial hair. I'd consider any of these guys to be my "ideal man."<br />
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I promised in yesterday's post that I would talk about my nine-hour date, but I'm too tired to write such a detailed, reflective post. I have been busy with my middle daughter, cooking or prepping a wide range of dishes for my family "Christmas Dinner" tomorrow.<br />
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My daughter's a vegetarian so we've been cooking five or six recipes from <span style="color: yellow;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/The-Vegetarian-Student-Cookbook-Hungry/dp/184975019X"><span style="color: yellow;">the Vegetarian Student Cookbook</span></a></span> which I bought her for Christmas. So far, so good! <br />
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<u>So how about some New Years' Resolutions? </u> So much of my life is going perfectly well, thank you. My kids are all well-balanced, confident, hard working and pursuing independent careers.<br />
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But here are a few points which I would like to pursue: <br />
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<u><b>RESOLUTION #1: </b>Enjoy my improved skills as a top.</u> Over the past several years, I have been pressured into being a top on many, many occasions and it's sometimes gone fairly well. But until recently, I could never quite shake the "ick" factor of sticking my cock up some guy's poop chute. <br />
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As well, I could never quite discern if the bottom's grunting and moaning was in pleasure or pain; he was probably on the threshold of both. At the slightest idea that I was hurting the bottom, I'd go soft. I'm just too tender-hearted!<br />
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I have gotten over both of these issues and now top frequently: <b> </b><br />
<b>(A) </b> I've spent countless hours rimming guys' sexy asses and have developed a new appreciation for ass play which nearly equals my obsession with sucking cock.<br />
<b> (B) </b> My new prescription of Viagra has increased my topping confidence immeasurably. But I don't use it all the time. When I'm with a hunky and passionate bottom who I've topped before, Viagra is most definitely not required.<br />
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<u><b>RESOLUTION #2: </b>Continue my quest to be a passionate bottom.</u> My inability to get any pleasure out of bottoming is deeply troubling to me. I'm envious of the enormous pleasure that my men seem to get when I pound their ass and I want to join the club! I've only bottomed about 10 times with four different guys, so I need much more practice.<br />
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After a couple of painful episodes, I'm a little afraid to try to bottom. What I need is a regular fuck buddy, a skilled and empathetic top to help me out of my bottoming slump. <br />
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<u><b>RESOLUTION #3: </b>International Travel.</u> I am under severe financial pressure with my spousal support obligations, my son's diving school tuition, my mortgage and general day-to-day expenses. I have no money to spare! Having said all that, I am determined to travel to some exotic location (Costa Rica? Peru?) on a regular basis while I'm still young enough to enjoy it.<br />
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To that end, I am hoping to lead a tour group for gay men only because as tour leader, I would get to travel at a reduced rate. I have already had a meeting with the corporate Tour Manager for leading tour company who was quite keen on the idea and proposed several trip options.<br />
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I wonder if there would be any interest in this idea? All I need is to go for it and see what happens! "Throw your heart over the fence and the rest will follow!" is my motto.<br />
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<u><b>RESOLUTION #4: Take a <a href="http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/"><span style="color: yellow;">Body Electric Workshop</span></a></b></u>. Having experienced tantric massage with my friend <a href="http://ricktornjeans.blogspot.ca/"><span style="color: yellow;">Rick of Torn Jeans</span></a>, I want to very badly to learn more about men's sexual / erotic responses and to gain skills in pleasuring my men. >;-)<br />
<br />Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.com21tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-88087776851817784202014-12-29T09:57:00.000-07:002014-12-29T09:57:01.452-07:00Big cocks in speedos<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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A few random thoughts:<br />
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1. Every now and then, I like to do a little experiment by using a sexy post title which usually doubles my pageviews for the day. The most popular search words for my blog are cock, nudist erection and naked men. <br />
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Of the thousands of pageviews my blog gets each day, I
frequently wonder how many are actually following my story, reading the
drivel that I write? I'll probably never know!<br />
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2. We are finally having some cold weather here (-30 C) after months of drizzly, mild weather. To counteract that, today's pics are of hunky men in Speedos on some warm beaches. I wish! <br />
<br />3. My break has been going well, although I think Christmas will always be bittersweet for any divorced parent. It is light years' away from the family Christmases when the kids were little and we were all together. <br />
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My two younger kids have been fairly good about dividing time between their parents' houses although they spend most of their time with friends, as they should be doing. But this means that I'm spending a fair bit time alone. I am used to being alone, of course, but it just <u>feels</u> different when my kids are in town.<br />
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3. My biggest problem is that I never know when the kids are going to show up so I've had to say "no" too all hookup opportunities which require hosting. So many hot guys! <br />
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But the kids will be gone in less than a week and I'm quite confident the men I turned down will still want to have some sweet sexytime with me in January. <br />
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4. I've received sweet holiday greetings (on Grindr and Squirt.org) from various of my young men: <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2014/07/sweet-brazilian-boy-3.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Brazilian Boy #3</span></a>, <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2013/06/big-red.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Big Red</span></a> and especially the <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2014/11/can-i-help-carry-in-your-groceries.html"><span style="color: yellow;">Hunky Pre-med Student</span></a>, who messaged me on Christmas morning from his family home over 1000 miles away. :-)<br />
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5. Just to leave you with a teaser, I had one interesting date with a nice guy, 46, who messaged me on squirt. Finally, a man who is "age appropriate", as my middle daughter would say. lol <br />
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I will tell you more about him later as it's an involved story but suffice to say, we were comfortable enough with each other that our "date" lasted for nine hours. It including us walking my dog, making pizzas together, drinking red wine, watching a movie and yes, doing the nasty in bed and falling asleep together. <br />
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Our time together certainly has given me much to think about; details to follow.<br />
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