Friday, December 19, 2014

Fun in the snow

It's been an incredibly busy week;  I've been attempting to get ready for Christmas on the home front but I've lots to do at school as well, extra-curricular and otherwise.

This week, our Outers' Club had it's final expedition of 2014 with a snowshoe expedition in a nearby wilderness park.   With 15 students participating, it was so much fun!

The setting was identical to the picture at right:  beautiful snow-covered evergreen trees and a thick blanket of snow on the ground.  But, sadly, we didn't see a naked hunk with an erect, curved cock like this dude.

Today, two of my kids will be flying, collectively, several thousand miles with numerous changes of planes to come home for Christmas.  I can't help but constantly check weather reports and the arrivals and departures information for the various regions they'll be travelling through.

Air travel can be quite tricky in some parts of Canada at this time of year with a good chance of freezing rain / snow throwing airline schedules into chaos.  And with the airlines fully booked, there is little chance of rescheduling cancelled flights. 

Masculine perfection:   my favourite type of man!
It's fun to get regular text updates from my daughter throughout the stages of her journey:   bus, train, plane and car.   But my son is another matter;  he's not a great communicator so we'll be lucky to receive a single-word text or two all day.

Christmases are very different in a divorced family, of course, so this holiday is a bit bittersweet.  But my kids are adults so I don't think anything could top the excitement of Christmases when they were little kids.

My middle daughter divides her time evenly between  my house and my ex's.  ("I don't want to play favourites between parents.")

But she'll be busier than ever with her family obligations, visiting Grandma and Grandpa (my parents), her friends and her older sister who is living in her own apartment.

As to my son, I think he'll be living with me most of the time but since he's not a great communicator, I couldn't swear to that.  In any case, he'll be spending 90% of the time with his girlfriend (a lovely girl!) and other friends.  Eldest daughter will spend a good part of the holiday cooking in restaurants so I will mainly see her at major family dinners.

Christmas dinner has always been held at my parents' house but these have become infinitely more relaxing in the past four years with my ex-wife NOT in attendance.   My ex was in conflict with most of my family (her fault entirely) and could be quite rude at times, making Christmas dinners during my marriage quite stressful for me.

And I'll be cooking for my own special family dinner at New Year's;  something I love doing

So..... with this mixed up schedule, I probably won't be able to have Gentlemen Callers share my bed very much over the next two weeks, although there is always the possibility of going to his house for some sweet sexytime.

I don't think that I could last for two weeks without some sweet sexytime with man;  naked skin-on-skin contact, kissing sweetly or aggressively or sucking a nice hard cock.  Now, I feel like I'm going to explode if I haven't had intimate contact with a man at least a couple of times per week.

It reminds me how sad and lacking the last +10 years of my marriage really were: sexless and without physical intimacy of any kind. 


  1. Well, it all sounds great if perhaps a bit hectic. I will be seeing both of my (adopted from Korea) daughters who I raised solo as a single gay did. They have given me incredibly wonderful sons in law and I have a granddaughter into the bargain. We have two events planned with our gay friends over the holidays and sweet sex is always part of the agenda.

    Have a wonderful time with your family--I do consider you a friend, but I feel sure we would be great buddies if we were in the same area. That's one of the frustrations of the internet--you meet super people but you're a continent away from each other. Big, warm hugs and all my best for a happy Christmas and a GREAT 2015!!

    1. Thank you, Will! Yours is an inspirational story for gay men everywhere! You have much to be proud of!

      I consider you a friend,too, Will! I'm sure we'll meet one day! I wish you and your family a great Christmas season as well. :-)

  2. Hope you do well! Have a great merry Christmas ! Hugs

    1. I hope you have a great holiday, Rick! Hugs! I hope you're settling in to your new home!

  3. enjoy your family time! happy holidays, dear sweet buddybear!

    1. Thanks, Sweetie! Thank you for all your support over the years! I hope you, your husband and your cats have a great holiday!

  4. Sounds like a wonderful holiday break! Fortunately, the boy has been texting regularly, and I'll follow his trip home tomorrow on a ham radio system called APRS.

    And, I'll take the 1st and 3rd men, please, Santa! Delivered! I'll even take the snow!

    Peace <3

    1. Have great break from your school too, Jay! Dude #1 looks like many of the students who were on the snowshoe trek.... definitely not legal for me! Jay, you do like 'em young!

      I much prefer mature, masculine men like Hunk #2.

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