Sunday, April 5, 2015

Easter sleepover in a swanky hotel

I'm feeling quite unmotivated about blogging these days although my gay adventures are never-ending.  My life seems "all gay, all the time" but I think I just have a heightened sense of queer awareness which did not exist for the first 40 years of my life.  I notice gay people and situations everywhere I go.

For the first time, I wondering if I might be little depressed:  our winter is dragging on seemingly forever, with night-time temperatures still dipping to as low as -20 C (-4 F).   As well, my parents are both starting to show their age and that saddens and concerns me.

But the concern is my difficult financial situation:   my ex and I are equally sharing expenses for my son's commercial diving programme (some $30,000 for the year) and he has now run out of cash.  The only saving grace is that these expenses will end in June and he's confident that he will be employed in his field soon.

These expenses are in addition to my usual ones:  my mortgage (having bought my ex out of our home),  spousal support, insurance, utilities, my property taxes, the kids' cell phones and on and on.   But this situation won't last forever but for the moment, I'm highly stressed out and bored with being frugal and having to worry about every $5.00 that I spend.   :-|

But here's my gay news or the week:

1.  I spent an evening and and entire day at a LGBTQ student workshop which attracted over 150 students, grades 7 to 11, mainly from small towns all over the region.  Some of the groups travelled 500 km to attend!

The students were all excited, fabulous and highly motivated in their queer activism, but their challenge will come when they try to bring change to their isolated communities.

2.   At school, the couple of GSA kids and I are feeling pressure from principal to stage a big "gay" event, the April 8 Day of Pink. 

The GSA kids have so many issues on their own so, in desperation, I had to seek help from the Students' Council kids who very quickly made plans for the day:  Pink T-shirt sales, Pink Day Posters, Pink Cup Cakes sales, announcements and the like.

3.  I have posted several times about my fuck buddy, an aboriginal dude who had bariatric surgery and who works in a gold mine in the northern part of our province was in town.  Aboriginal Fuck Buddy was in town for a "wild weekend" which included me!

In addition to having sex, what he really wanted from me was intimacy, conversation with a friend and cuddling in bed all night long..... meaning, he asked me to sleep over in his swanky hotel room!

 This made for a very, very long day for me:  up at 6:00 a.m. to walk the dogs, arrived at school early to finish my supply teacher preparations, dropped my doggies off at my parents' for doggy-sitting and then on to the LGBTQ student conference which ended for the teachers at 7:00 pm  (They fed us supper. Yum!)

sThen, I had to pick up my dogs, drive some 30 km home, get them settled for the night and THEN, drive 30 km to his hotel by 10:00 pm.  It was very special, not just the bedtime and morning sex, but especially everything in between;  sweet kissing, spooning and falling asleep with masculine guy in my arms. Very sweet!

4.   I find myself double booked for Monday:  the 19 year old university student / drag perfomer who I blogged about here and here is leaving town permanently in two weeks and he wants to spend "all day" with me, our last time for sweet intimacy.  I"ll miss him!

As well, I have a coffee date with a 67 year old formerly-married guy, extremely handsome and just coming out in a big way in town.  I've met him several times at the 5O+ LGBTQ social group in town and he wants to become involved in our Pride committee.  He's slim, extremely handsome with striking blue-green eyes and an amputee with one leg missing below the knee.

While I don't really want to hook up with someone that old, he's funny, charming, successful and intelligent. I think he's looking for a friend and also someone to cuddle with. We'll see what happens!


  1. you need a personal secretary and I wish I could apply for the job! LOL!!
    I hope your finances gets better and glad your son is helping too.
    Glad you took a little break and stayed in a hotel.
    I guess your next break is Gay Pride?
    Hope your easter is relaxing and have a good one!

    1. I could use a little help in my life; maybe a sexy house boy / man? lol

      My next big trip is to attend Gay Pride in Toronto in late June. That flight is already paid for so I'll be there for sure!

  2. Do you have an Amazon wish list? Probably a new one without your real name attached? I was gonna ask way back when you were having laptop issues, but just thought I'd check. ;-)

    1. I don't have an Amazon wish list but I certainly am not to proud to accept gifts of any kind! As well, if someone offered to pay me for sex, I'd say "Yes, sir!"

      The last time the Amazon wish list came up on this blog, I tried to set one up but there seemed no way to do so without having my address information become public, and as teacher, that simply isn't possible for me. I wonder how PayPal works?

  3. You are a great Dad...but when I read that you are still paying for their cell phone I thought you are doing a dis-service for your self and your kids. Spend that money on your parents. We both know that young people are like water, they will find a way.

    Please also take very good care of your health and wellbeing. You are special and need to stick around for a long time.


    1. My three kids are very close to being financially independent and they are only 18, 20 and 23. In our circles, that is a rarity, given the cost of rent and university tuition.

      The kids are all working extremely hard at school and at various "career position" type jobs and are otherwise being very frugal with their money and spending habits. My ex and I are enormously proud of them, and I know that they will be fully financially independent very soon!

      So the cell phone thing isn't a big deal for me right now.

  4. I get you on the money issues. I actually have a bit of light on mine, my vehicle will be paid for as soon as I get the pay off amount from the financier tomorrow! I hope things ease for you and your ex, and your son is employed in good haste!

    #3 would suit me just fine, though I'd prefer a nightie-night escapade rather than a first thing in the morning one! (Just my preference.) But the cuddling, and kissing, and CLOSENESS to a man would be very welcome!

    I am so glad you are continuing with the LGBTQ youth activities. They, even in a more accepting culture such as yours need so much positive support! It's really great that the Student Council was so receptive and responsive! I doubt it would be quite like that here, given our "Southern heritage".

    As noted above, take care of yourself! Hard to have fun time when you're run down and exhausted and stressed! Happy Easter!

    Peace <3

    1. Thanks, Jay, for all your special, supportive comments. Yes, it is the CLOSENESS to a man who I care about is the most special of all, not just a slam-bam cum-and-go.

      There was no question that our students' council would be 1000% supportive of our GSA kids. They're all fabulous!

  5. I just went to speak to my old high school. Was an awesome experience. Looking forward to discussing what you and your GSA.

    1. Yes, things sure have changed since you went to high school in Hamilton in the 80s, eh? It's just amazing and gives great hope for the future!

      I can't wait to chat with you in person again, when I'm in Toronto for Pride in late June.

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