My life still seem to be "all gay, all the time" and there are many untold stories which are falling by the wayside. The thought of writing a detailed post which will do the stories justice seems daunting. I should go back to posting more frequently (ie: every second day) but have much smaller posts.
In my last post, "You fuck like a porn star!", I was extremely delighted with that compliment but I've received much positive feedback from many bottoms in recent months. They generally seem extremely happy with how my cock makes them feel.
I am becoming extremely confident as a top but since I've never experienced pleasure as a bottom, I still need to learn many techniques which would maximize a bottom's pleasure.
A couple of bottoms have told me that it drives them wild when my cock head pounds against their prostate, so I've try to hit this "G-Spot" every time. But, I'm ashamed to admit, I am somewhat ignorant of male anatomy as to how to hit the prostate with my cock.
With the bottom on his back in the missionary position, I try to angle my cock "upwards" when I"m thrusting in his ass, with the goal of hitting his prostate which is located (I think) under the base of his cock. Does that sound reasonable?
Compared with sticking your cock into a self-lubricating vagina, anal sex seems so much more complicated.
Unless he's a very experienced bottom, I open him up more with a well-lubed finger but I much prefer using a vibrating anal trainer which drives the boys wild!
And I follow all the usual advice; use lots of lube, and proceed slowly, slowly, slowly. In fact, it's often best to let the bottom control the pace by having him to ride your cock with the first penetration. He can lower himself onto your cock as slowly and as much as he wants.
But as to the thrusting itself, what works best? Should I "stir" or rotate my cock while it's in his ass? Thrust up?, down? sideways? Pound or not pound? Or both?
And as to the position, during my typical topping session, I use many of them: missionary, doggie-style, on our sides, the bottom riding my cock (either facing you or facing away) and one where the bottom does a semi-shoulder stand, his ass pointing straight up in the air. Any favourites?
And when your cock is in a guy's asshole, is it common for the bottom's cock to go soft? This isn't a problem, but in my experience, it seems to happen to at least half of my men. Is that typical?
Hey, all you experienced tops out there!