I've been on the hookup sites for just over a year now and I keep expecting the "Fresh Meat Syndrome" to wear off. Anyone newly-registered on a site will get a great many offers. But after a while, he starts to look like a piece of browning fruit that's been sitting on the grocery store shelf too long; the one that no one wants.
That hasn't been really my experience. I'm still getting plenty of offers from guys who are unfamiliar to me but now I have many "repeats," men who want to hook up with me again.
It's becoming a real problem: too many men who want to be with me, not enough time. I don't want them to think that I am blowing them off; that I don't find them desirable.
I spent the evening considering the pros and cons of my top dozen potential candidates. Here are a few:
1. Even with his Parkinson's, Mr. Handsome does drive a car but I'd be concerned about him finding his way out here, 30 km in the country. Our encounters are super-hot but we were just together three days ago ....too soon!
2. Although I've made it clear to my Fuck Buddyy from the start that I'm not ready for a LTR, I'm concerned that he sees me as a potential boyfriend but the feeling is not mutual. Since our fuck-less evening together, he's proposed a walk in the park and a dinner in a restaurant but I don't want to invite him to my home.
3. Doug (my coffee friend who is HIV+) is very hot, fit and extremely experienced. I know he'd share my bed in a flash and has made that offer many times. But he's so lonely and so wanting an LTR that I'd worry that he might start to become clingy.
4. The 6'-7" university student from Trinidad, with beautiful dark skin, smooth as honey, has texted me a few times. He has his own car and would love to visit me again. When / if he does come, we've already discussed that I plan to offer my bottom to him.
5. I've been messaged (separately) by a couple of sweet 22 year olds over the past several months who really, really want to get together with me. Although I've been hooking up more with guys my age recently, I still have a craving for young cock every now and then. But since neither of them has a car and I'd have to make two round trips into town to get them, 30 minutes each way.
6, Blowjob Hottie is a man I really, really, really want to be with again. It was, by far, the best experience I've ever had giving a blowjob: handsome dude, fantastic kisser, perfect body, amazing fat cock and the most responsive, vocal and deeply appreciative blowjob recipient ever. I want to see what he can do in pleasuring me...
7. Whimpering Hottie is the ginger-haired, inexperienced 23 year old college student who was sweet, intelligent, fantastic kisser and very receptive to my love-making. As I sucked his cock, he whimpered like a little kitten. I'd love to hear that again!
My decision: I invited Whimpering Hottie to my house after school on Monday. (he eagerly accepted!!) The reasons: he's 23, hot, sexually-responsive and intelligent. But the main reason was that he forgot his expensive watch at my house after our last hookup and I've been feeling guilty about it! After Whimpering Hottie leaves, I'll considering inviting Blowjob Hottie who is mainly available later at night.
I want to make the most of my free evening!
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why did it suddenly become warm in here? could it be these HAWT pix? ;-)
ReplyDeleteI don't think it would be rude of you at all to let any of these guys know you are not interested in a LTR, or that if it appears to be headed in that direction you are done. In my own experience I've found that (most) guys appreciate the up-front honesty and don't get all pouty about things like that. If they DO get a fat bottom lip, then I feel it's better to have left them behind anyway.
ReplyDeleteYes, it`s all about communication. I will have to be really brave and be clear about what I am looking for. I`ve done that to a certain extent but I need to reinforce the point.
DeleteAlso, I might change my mind as I go along. That`s always a lady`s preogative! LOL
Two words - multi-task!
ReplyDeleteWhy not try to have 2 at a time? I vote for the two 20-somethings.
This is also a very clear message (without having to say it) to those who might be LTR minded that you desire them but just casually.
It's time to progress further along in your slut phase.
Sean, thanks as always for the sensible, experienced advice.
DeleteMay I ask, what exactly did you mean by: "It's time to progress further along in your slut phase?" What's next?
LOL I am happy for you man but I am glad I only have to deal with one man. MUCH simpler! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks, sexy guy! I'm glad you're reading and commenting on my blog!
DeleteWhat luxurious chest hair on Mr. Lower Left!
ReplyDeleteI think Sean has the right idea. If properly managed, and I suspect you have good management potential, a three-way is one of the most delightful says to engage in sex.
I've read many comments in print to the effect that they don't work, that one guy always gets left out. Nonsense. You just have to make sure that if you're cock's being sucked you are kissing the other guy, that if you're sucking one cock you're hand is playing with the other guys cock, that sort of thing. You also get the pleasure of planning which of your many men you want to pair up to spend a great time with you.
We teachers are great organizers and are quite accustomed to managing the actions and behaviour of others! This would be easy to accomplish if the other men in my threesome are younger and/or inexperienced. In my experience, when I have men in these categories in my bed, they generally do exactly what I tell them. :-)
DeleteSo, your suggestion about some threesome "rules" is excellent and one that I intend to follow when the occasion arises,
May the occasion -- and you -- arise often!
ReplyDeleteOh, and do you seriously think you could convince any of your loyal readers that there's any such thing as "Too many men?" :-)
LOL. Well, I meant, too many men to schedule into my life at the present time. I work full-time at a fairly demanding job and have extensive home renovation / rebuilding projects on the go.
DeleteAs well, much time is demanded of me as the father of three and as the son of elderly parents.
I understand -- I was making a joke. ;-)
ReplyDeletethat's quite a board you have there -and you (lucky man) is the CEO chairman !
ReplyDeleteI really adore your taste of men. All pics so damn hot. The guy watching out of the bathroom is so hot. I get dreamin'......
ReplyDeleteLucky you, always a good choice of men ready for a hookup!
Marcel
It wasn't until I read your previous comments that I even realized you put up photos on your post!
ReplyDeleteThe tales of your adventures are indeed the best part. Me thinks your personality is much sexier than any internet photos available.
Thanks for your kind remarks, Jack. I actually do think that it IS my personality which attracts my "repeat customers" rather than what I look like.
DeleteI genuinely love men and savour every moment I spent with a guy; even just chatting or sitting in a car is an enormous pleasure for me. And when I am with a man in bed, I am highly focussed on getting him to feel relaxed and comfortable and in giving him as much pleasure as I possibly can.