On the other end of the spectrum, I have a senior class of university-bound students, the majority of whom are young men, 18 years old. So much has changed in my own mindset since the last time I was in front of a senior class in June.
I spent most of the summer hooking up with young men, 21 - 24, or at least being "on the hunt" for them. I'm now finding it a bit jarring being in class because my grade 12 students are not that different than the young men I've been having sex with ..... a thought that I have to constantly banish from my head.
On the hookup front, I've been too busy and exhausted to do much entertaining this week. But I've been swamped... swamped I tell you!.... with many offers on pof.com. The offers have mainly been from young men who've come from other towns to attend our local university and technical college. I've also heard from a few older guys in their late 20s or early 30s.... men in their "prime", I think.
Away from their own small towns, I think they've decided to test out their same-sex attraction in the relative anonymity of our "big city." I admire these young men for their resolve and for their horniness. At their urging, I've made a few tentative plans to get together with some of them in the weeks to come. Many of these hookups don't end up happening but it's nice to be asked by these sweet young men.
I asked a cute 21 year old, yet again, why do you want to hook up with a man 50 years older than you? I loved his answer.
"Well, girls my age all go for the older guys ... so why shouldn't a guy like me do the same thing? I just don't trust guys my own age."
I've spent much time online planning my big gay weekend in \Toronto and getting excellent advice from many guys online. I fly out today after school; my only concern is that I will be too tired to do everything that I want to do.
Have a great time this weekend and good luck at the doctors. If you need a place to stay you could always get a room at one of the bath houses. It's be warm, have lots of opportunities and a shower. The rates are usually $25 for 12-24 hrs, you can even get ones with tv's and slings. If noise bothers you, a set of ear plugs will take care of that.
ReplyDeleteI hope you have a crazy, fun-filled weekend. We're all looking forward to hearing about it when you return!
ReplyDeleteI can see you're not a math teacher--if you were 50 years older than he, you'd be 71, and I'd be looking at you as one of those hot older men I was always attracted to! :-)
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ReplyDeleteI think the older man attraction is a mixture of positive and negative energies; the positives are wanting to be in touch with experience and feel the Wisdom of Age; with 'initiation' rites as it were.
ReplyDeleteOn the negative, you run into a lot of neurotics looking for a 'daddy' with which to act out their unresolved issues. Ain't human relationships complex and a bitch? :-)
Older men can be quite sexy and offer great experience to teach younger men how to best enjoy sex.
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