I am 53 and an out gay father from BC, Canada. My wife found out I was gay six years ago; much drama ensued but we achieved a reasonably non-adversarial divorce. Woo-hoo! I now try to balance my new sex and social life with family, career and LGBTQ social activism. I am mainly living on my own because my three adult kids are now making their way in the world. I now am an LTR having met my soulmate and am embarking on the most exciting phase of my journey so far!
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Bored at the No-Tell Motel
For family reasons, I was suddenly called upon to drive over 600 miles across one of the most remote northern British Columbia highways. You can drive for hours without any sign of civilization.... endless rocks and trees, trees and rocks. I love the wilderness and this sort of scenery but it's not everyone's cup of tea.
I stopped overnight at a motel in a small sawmill town of less than 1,000 people. It is a very remote even by Canadian standards; with a couple hundred miles of wilderness to the next big city.
I lived for years in just such a remote small town and never gave the gay issue a thought. Since coming out, I now look at everything with a gay perspective. What do you do if you are growing up gay in such a small, remote, blue-collar town? What if you're the only gay in the village?
The answer: "Move to the big city, young man!"
What's a bored, middle-aged gay guy to do in a tacky highway motel? Take half-nekkid pictures of himself and post them online, of course! I hope you like them!
NOTE: For most of my life, I thought that my lard-arse was too big. One of the biggest discoveries I have made since edging my way into the gay world is this: having an ample butt is usually considered an asset in the gay world. Who knew?
I'm going to focus on the self-pic since I have no experience living in such a remote area.
ReplyDelete1) Love the photo
2) Turn around -LoL-
BosGuy
very nice ASSets all around!
ReplyDeleteGlad you could find something to do in this remote area!
ReplyDeleteGreat Pics..
Someday Mr. Winky is going to make an appearance on this blog. When will that day be?
ReplyDeleteAbove the comment box it says "Please tell me what you're thinking"
ReplyDeleteYummy. Nice legs, nice butt.
Small town of less than 1000 people? 600 miles of driving? Sounds like the beginnings of a horror movie....but it took a turn for the better - my thoughts - gorgeous butt and perfect legs - what a lucky bastard you are!
ReplyDeleteI do the same things in hotels when I travel... nothing like half naked pics....looking good!!
ReplyDeleteyou are a hoot! and cute to boot !
ReplyDeleteooooo may I be your bath toy please? :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for commenting, everyone! I wish I'd been at the end of marathon training; that's when my ASSets and legs really look amazing.
ReplyDeleteBosGuy and Cubby: the answer is "never" (everyone would be disappointed), but I will probably do some pics where there is a hint that Mr. Winky is there.
SteveA: thank you! The 'horror movie' comment is truer than you could imagine as there are many eccentrics living in these remote areas. This area even has its own Unabomber, of sorts.
Kelly: Yes, I've enjoyed your half-nekkid hotel room pics for years.... where you do think I got this idea?
I wouldn't say "no" to you, Adam, that's for sure.
OMFG, I open up your blog entry this morning and YOWZA! I sure am awake now! and horny! and there's nothing I can do about it cause I am at work!
ReplyDeletedamn, you are one hawt fine dude! SUH-WEET!
(oh, did you write something up there? I hadn't noticed...)
I think the Internet will play a great part at bringing the world to those remote places and help all gay men out there to connect with one another like they've never been able before. And I also think that... er... did I see some... assets... over here?
ReplyDeleteHappy Canada Day BB! (I know it's only tomorrow, but I may not be on line so...)
Hugs
Jon
Great pictures! You're a much braver man than I.
ReplyDeleteBTW, I am jealous of your ass. That's the one part of my body that I don't like. Typical white boy with no posterior. <>
You may be bored in a small town more often! Nothing to be ASShamed of from my POV!
ReplyDeleteI don't think that I would ever be disappointed in anything that you have!
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