tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post653431848050043091..comments2024-03-07T20:17:12.957-07:00Comments on One Step at a Time: IntimacyBuddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-19840863207257883002012-01-24T08:12:42.846-07:002012-01-24T08:12:42.846-07:00I love sex, I top mostly but have loved bottoming ...I love sex, I top mostly but have loved bottoming with the right guy who'll be patient while I get things relaxed. Oral both ways is wonderful, BUT<br />long, passionate kissing, holding, talking softly, laughing, touching, kissing again and again* sessions are THE BEST! So happy you found this with him!<br /><br />*particularly, for me, when he's bearded.Willhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14279473113628377106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-71585900365824914302012-01-22T21:22:59.838-07:002012-01-22T21:22:59.838-07:00It all sounds exciting, especially the intimacy, ...It all sounds exciting, especially the intimacy, Keep in mind intimacy hurts and is damn scary.Ur-spohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04237644452200889946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-88705128329555344862012-01-21T17:18:23.131-07:002012-01-21T17:18:23.131-07:00anne marie: thanks, sweetie! You're always s...anne marie: thanks, sweetie! You're always so supportive!!<br /><br />James: I'm sure you will find intimacy one day. It may be harder to find among younger gay men, but just believe that it will happen for you.<br /><br />JaysonStreet: thank for the wonderful, experienced, thoughtful response. It deserves an entire post to properly respond to it as there were so many truths expressed. Yes, all the pictures could have been us; that's why I picked them.<br /><br />RB and Mike: I came out to my doctor at the same time I came out to my wife. She is an amazing, intelligent, hard-working woman in her early 30s. It is essential that gay men come out to their doctors. Who else can you talk to about specific gay mens` health concerns such as HPV vaccinations? And yes, "gay slut phase" were the exact words I used with her. I tell her everything and have this idea that I am expanding her knowledge about gay guys who came out late in life.Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-80920740165287367412012-01-21T12:06:58.433-07:002012-01-21T12:06:58.433-07:00That's great you had such an incredible experi...That's great you had such an incredible experience! I can't wait to hear about it. <br /><br />And that takes balls - I can't imagine telling my doctor I'm in my "gay slut phase."Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03866077134601099787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-19338890143844304942012-01-21T11:53:25.977-07:002012-01-21T11:53:25.977-07:00Hmmmm.....I can't see myself confiding to the ...Hmmmm.....I can't see myself confiding to the doctor that "I'm in a gay slut phase." Good that you have that kind of relationship with the doctor.RBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17761591668246881356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-47431574347803081872012-01-21T09:56:40.861-07:002012-01-21T09:56:40.861-07:00You refer to this as your "gay slut" pha...You refer to this as your "gay slut" phase, but the experience you had that moved you so much shows how deeply you need and want to have that closeness and intimacy with a man - and can get a kind with someone that soars up there higher than most of your significant life experiences! Wow, that is so wonderful for you, and also reveals how repressed you had been and hungry for the kind of sexual and soulful all body experience you have long sought in your imagination. The kissing and caressing is for many men who are trying out their male urges perhaps the most stunning revelation - and it seems by your allusions and choice of pictures that really hit you!<br /><br />Welcome to the world of passion with men. It can go way beyond the pleasure of orgasm and you have been touched by another man in a way that unlocked you. It could have been otherwise - I had my own share of "mechanical" sex when I first braved internet dating after 24 years of marriage, but I also discovered with several men the total soaring release you refer to.<br /><br />Now I hope you can use this time of exploration and experimentation to find one special man with whom to build something together.<br /><br />And I totally get why you are reluctant to provide details of what occurred - it may have felt almost too sacred to want to write about. But at least share some of the feelings you had, and how this makes you think more clearly about what you are ultimately searching for.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-6193668763106762492012-01-21T08:15:36.458-07:002012-01-21T08:15:36.458-07:00I'm seriously feeling very happy for you Budd...I'm seriously feeling very happy for you Buddy.May you endure many of these moments throughout your life.I pray an hope I will also have these moments of intimacy one day.<br /><br />And the pics especially the last one is damn hot.Isnt it funny,there's no penetration or any form of sex in the pics but seeing two men just kissing is so mind blowing.yhat shows intimacy or plain kissing with the one you love means a lot compared to sex and physical connection!<br />-JamesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-77928194283344920782012-01-21T07:55:51.098-07:002012-01-21T07:55:51.098-07:00wonderful news, buddybear; I am so happy for you! ...wonderful news, buddybear; I am so happy for you! don't worry about not blogging the details; sometimes the less said the better. savor the tender moments close to the vest!anne marie in phillynoreply@blogger.com