tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post605122222191000676..comments2024-03-07T20:17:12.957-07:00Comments on One Step at a Time: Schoolboy CrushBuddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-87578381968281913702013-09-25T15:45:40.886-07:002013-09-25T15:45:40.886-07:00My daughter agrees with you! Check out her comme...My daughter agrees with you! Check out her comments in the first paragraph <a href="http://onestepatatime92.blogspot.ca/2013/09/tmi-im-falling-for-you.html" rel="nofollow">of my next post.</a>Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-55057858128792227662013-09-25T14:45:38.161-07:002013-09-25T14:45:38.161-07:00Fond memories for you! But how times have changed...Fond memories for you! But how times have changed! It's hard you imagine you as the "victim" in that situation but that's how it would be regarded now. Thanks for sharing! Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-71965427446526230062013-09-25T08:44:25.133-07:002013-09-25T08:44:25.133-07:00I very much respect the boundaries that are requir...I very much respect the boundaries that are required to protect young people. However I have no regrets with hooking up with my Biology teacher when I was a kid. Man that dude was hot. donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06879147983682175313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-89979657464022242502013-09-24T17:00:45.906-07:002013-09-24T17:00:45.906-07:00Sorry my friend, but I studied the drawing careful...Sorry my friend, but I studied the drawing carefully and I just can't see you in it. You are, however, definitely the coolest teacher in school. Remember I told you that in Buffalo a couple years ago. I would have loved to have you as a teacher.Cubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15419686621818785014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-76789823011894448462013-09-23T22:42:01.971-07:002013-09-23T22:42:01.971-07:00I remember I had several crushes on many teachers....I remember I had several crushes on many teachers. Yes, this happens !Ur-spohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04237644452200889946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-65358525604543609072013-09-23T18:56:28.245-07:002013-09-23T18:56:28.245-07:00Thank you! I have anywhere from 140 to 180 student...Thank you! I have anywhere from 140 to 180 students every year and it's safe to say that I have a student crush or more developing at all times. It really is very common. <br /><br />Our younger, hotter teachers are the object of student crushes at a much greater rate than me.Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-36377661266245090722013-09-23T18:55:27.835-07:002013-09-23T18:55:27.835-07:00I said the "decrepit old fart" comment o...I said the "decrepit old fart" comment only slightly tongue-in-cheek. But the reality is, no matter how young I feel and act, my face looks all of its 51 years, especially to a teenager.<br /><br />But I'm certain that it's my personality rather than my looks which the gay boys are attracted to. My son tells me that all of his friends (who've been in my classes tell him that I am "the coolest teacher in the school", very relaxed and a lot of fun. <br /><br />The "once incident" with the handsome Brother Francis? You're teasing us! <br /><br />And, Will, "never" is a very long time.... we just might meet one day. I do get around, you know.Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-24443593059596888642013-09-23T18:46:27.111-07:002013-09-23T18:46:27.111-07:00Wise advice for us guys (gay or otherwise) who wor...Wise advice for us guys (gay or otherwise) who work with young people. I forgot to mention that I also do not communicate with students or parents on Facebook, Twitter, private e-mail and the like. <br /><br />Our union runs mandatory workshops on "Professional Boundaries" fairly often. .<br /><br />Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-54734699257383821692013-09-23T18:39:50.957-07:002013-09-23T18:39:50.957-07:00Yes, I really like it, especially when you conside...Yes, I really like it, especially when you consider the short time he spent doing it! I plan to frame it and hang it in my kitchen. :-)Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-38516142676194149532013-09-23T16:39:27.685-07:002013-09-23T16:39:27.685-07:00Sounds exactly what I have to be aware of and care...Sounds exactly what I have to be aware of and careful about with the LGBTQ group I work with. We have strict rules, and I follow them to a "T" - pretty much the same as yours: no social media, no interaction outside the organization's activities, don't be alone with youth, etc. They protect all of us!<br /><br />Peace <3<br />JayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-85235605592294903292013-09-23T15:43:52.924-07:002013-09-23T15:43:52.924-07:00I believe it's because your becoming "a d...I believe it's because your becoming "a decrepit, worn-out old fart" hasn't happened. I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you and probably never will, but it is obvious to me from your how you describe your life these days that you're still desirable to a fairly broad spectrum of gay men age-wise.<br /><br />I had a crush on a teacher in Junior year of high school. Brother Francis was tall, silver-gray haired, with a languorous southern accent, very handsome. I thought I wasn't conveying a crush but there was one incident that told me he knew. We both remained very cool about it. Willhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14279473113628377106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-69945545592663944512013-09-23T07:58:04.041-07:002013-09-23T07:58:04.041-07:00Students having a crush on a teacher is very commo...Students having a crush on a teacher is very common. Now, with progress being made on the acceptance of LGBT's it would only make sense that more male students are more obviously attracted.<br />It sounds as if you handle the situations well, though!whkattkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18303183404359234168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-89353246731842462802013-09-23T05:59:43.171-07:002013-09-23T05:59:43.171-07:00yep, damn fine drawing!yep, damn fine drawing!anne marie in phillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11765140782182605141noreply@blogger.com