tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post430962816028204704..comments2024-03-07T20:17:12.957-07:00Comments on One Step at a Time: Sex talk with my kidsBuddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-79113504812224037742014-04-16T05:31:41.457-07:002014-04-16T05:31:41.457-07:00My Dad always told me to be careful where you ejac...My Dad always told me to be careful where you ejaculate....Then my Mother would tell me........My Dad hit the target and produce baby boy in collage.....But sometime later the baby boy passed away.....................Year later my parents passed away. I was totally a lone eagle...............I was getting sexual aroused and ready to shoot....... I remember about "being careful" I got limp and the gal went back to her boy friend........Later I discovered it was my parents " good old friend " what want to donate my sperm to her......................Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-30880553164409151022013-04-15T08:28:16.884-07:002013-04-15T08:28:16.884-07:00It's important - and wonderful! - that you be ...It's important - and wonderful! - that you be open and honest about sex with your children... to let them know, as you said to your daughter, it's perfectly normal, natural. They'll have a much better attitude about it and have better relationships as a result.whkattkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18303183404359234168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-42498469522906357832013-04-15T06:24:59.692-07:002013-04-15T06:24:59.692-07:00LOL, I imagine so. But the married guys who are g...LOL, I imagine so. But the married guys who are gay are a different story! As we both know. But even for them, it will turn out to be better than they think. Your kids and mine had no trouble with it. My friends couldn't have cared less. As for my wife, my being gay was the least of our problems.skierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00094802443325458254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-30634925234033335782013-04-14T06:02:58.651-07:002013-04-14T06:02:58.651-07:00Yes, I say that all the time to the closeted middl...Yes, I say that all the time to the closeted middle-aged guys I meet. They tell me: "I have to be discreet! No one knows I like guys!" <br /><br />I tell them: (1) No one will care whether or not you're gay and (2) You're 50, not married and don't have a girlfriend? Trust me, EVERYONE already knows you're gay!! Who do you think you're fooling?<br /><br />You wouldn't believe how many times I've told guys that! Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-18550844866181028142013-04-14T05:58:51.370-07:002013-04-14T05:58:51.370-07:00Yes, the final divorce decree left me with the mos...Yes, the final divorce decree left me with the most incredible feeling of relief and freedom! I am very fortunate in that I have three separate buildings on my property with sleeping quarters. I don't think I'll ever need to have man-sex in the same building as my kids.Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-54225337434820455232013-04-14T05:56:21.383-07:002013-04-14T05:56:21.383-07:00Mike, it wasn't a bad conversation at all! Ou...Mike, it wasn't a bad conversation at all! Our sex talk wasn't too explicit. <br /><br />My daughter told me: "I'm <b>NOT</b> going to be discussing this with mom!! LOL. My wife would have been way more graphic about discussion of their lady parts and would have added a safe sex lecture to boot.Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-22295840381086696282013-04-14T05:44:03.675-07:002013-04-14T05:44:03.675-07:00As expected, it seems to have been more of an issu...As expected, it seems to have been more of an issue for you then it was for them. Amazing how that works. We worry about coming out and for the most part, no one cares. Congrats on the courage to ask your son to be gone by certain time. Who knows eventually one of the kids will say "Dad, be cool and relax, we aren't clueless"skierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00094802443325458254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-4594668098229528702013-04-13T17:47:25.565-07:002013-04-13T17:47:25.565-07:00Congrats on the divorce - great feeling isn't ...Congrats on the divorce - great feeling isn't it? <br /><br />My son sleeps across the hall from Bill and I. I expect that he expects we aren't only sleeping . . . :-)JustAMikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02304812477710391158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-91870042096095031802013-04-13T14:10:18.825-07:002013-04-13T14:10:18.825-07:00WOW. So open about sex. Can't imagine EVER tal...WOW. So open about sex. Can't imagine EVER talking to my parents like that.Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03866077134601099787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-1443317086399815242013-04-13T13:49:03.554-07:002013-04-13T13:49:03.554-07:00Thank you for your kind words! Thank you for your kind words! Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-91499220477548934842013-04-13T13:07:52.991-07:002013-04-13T13:07:52.991-07:00thank you for being open with your kids; so many p...thank you for being open with your kids; so many parents are not and the kids are fucked up as adults. (ask me how I know this)anne marie in phillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11765140782182605141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-26128452958528949602013-04-13T12:15:45.974-07:002013-04-13T12:15:45.974-07:00Jay M: yes, my daughter could have paid for the p...Jay M: yes, my daughter could have paid for the pills on her own but she really wanted to have "The Conversation"...as brief as it was. I'm very proud of her. The kids are 21, 18 and 16 and are plenty old enough!<br /><br />Jack: funny guy!<br /><br />Sean: Yes, thank you for your comment about "open and honest" .... that's us! I've rarely seen the Simpsons but will watch for their "passion" the next time I do!Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-9154883763546607502013-04-13T10:02:39.463-07:002013-04-13T10:02:39.463-07:00I think your openness and honesty is so much more ...I think your openness and honesty is so much more healthy for kids to see and experience and helps them as adults. It's one of the things I love so much about the Simpsons. No matter what, Marge and Homer not only love each other, they are hot for each other and have fun and passion. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-5716075062544031322013-04-13T09:45:21.977-07:002013-04-13T09:45:21.977-07:00Hey Buddy. I had to do a double take when I read ...Hey Buddy. I had to do a double take when I read the title of your post. I have a little dsylexia, so often I really have to pay attention.<br /><br />Sex talk with my kids: Interesting, appropriate.<br />Sexy talk with my kids: Ummmmm. Inappropriate.<br /><br />Hahahaha.Explorer Jackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00633922755283886454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-3907643245126194502013-04-13T08:43:58.956-07:002013-04-13T08:43:58.956-07:00At least your "kids" are old enough to n...At least your "kids" are old enough to not be freaked out about their parents (you or their mother) having sex. I think it would have been harder if they were 5 or 6 years younger. As to the drug plan, your daughter clearly wanted to have the conversation, at least at some level, or she would have just paid for them herself - at least here BC pills aren't that expensive. Good on you for being open and honest and having raised children that have mature attitudes about normal human activities!<br />Peace <3<br />JayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com