tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post3419331035181415169..comments2024-03-07T20:17:12.957-07:00Comments on One Step at a Time: Love-InBuddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-16586746382515294452011-12-19T21:38:46.426-07:002011-12-19T21:38:46.426-07:00Our stories are parallel in that my ex left (I tol...Our stories are parallel in that my ex left (I told her she had to go because she was running around with a sleaze, being exceptionally cruel to me, and mistreating my daughters physically and psychologically), I eventually got full custody of my girls and the house in which to raise them. In my case, there was never a return to pleasantness on her part and she is now someone I do not care to know.<br /><br />If you can work through the hostility of the past and establish a decent working relationship you will have done a great thing for yourself and <br />your family. I so wish you the very best of luck.Willhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14279473113628377106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-20571258681934604112011-12-19T20:10:48.373-07:002011-12-19T20:10:48.373-07:00Maybe her medication has kicked in? In any case, a...Maybe her medication has kicked in? In any case, at least you're civil to each other and that's a start.RGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12264363264956622352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-87041728979381567932011-12-19T15:33:45.230-07:002011-12-19T15:33:45.230-07:00good for you that things are working out!
speakin...good for you that things are working out!<br /><br />speaking of working out, I'd LOVE to work on and with guy #2; such a wonderful treasure trail alllllll over!anne marie in phillynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-73983478379783515802011-12-19T14:57:58.494-07:002011-12-19T14:57:58.494-07:00Everyone, thank you for commenting! Yes, I keep wa...Everyone, thank you for commenting! Yes, I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop... I can't believe the change in the way she treats me. But we've overcome so many challenges so far, I have a feeling we might manage to navigate the big challenges which are coming up.<br /><br />I think the biggest test will be when I starting dating or having sex with other guys and maybe even get a steady boyfriend. I actually had a dream the other day where I was getting married to some sweet guy and it was my wife who gave me away at my wedding. Bizarre!Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-56111642738457464692011-12-19T08:32:37.207-07:002011-12-19T08:32:37.207-07:00I'm glad to read that she's adjusting to t...I'm glad to read that she's adjusting to the new situation. Hopefully the relationship will continue to improve.naturgesetzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15268507379933286863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-29905124640589314862011-12-19T07:54:27.403-07:002011-12-19T07:54:27.403-07:00I so hope it DOES lead to a friendship. It should...I so hope it DOES lead to a friendship. It should you know. I am saying that maybe more for myself perhaps. I believe this "issue" has ruined my friendship with my wife. And hope the distance after will repair it. I read you blog and hope it is like a window into the future for me and my wife.skierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00094802443325458254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-44363335926713298692011-12-19T07:51:22.179-07:002011-12-19T07:51:22.179-07:00I'm waiting for the post in which she asks you...I'm waiting for the post in which she asks you to give her away when she marries again. ;-)Will Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06489879295104017008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-54667239543611675512011-12-19T07:14:00.818-07:002011-12-19T07:14:00.818-07:00This is hopeful that you guys can maintain a good ...This is hopeful that you guys can maintain a good relationship. Although, as circumstances change, so might the cordiality. Who knows what will happen when everything's divided and the house is sold, or the kids get married, or when you find someone else? Enjoy it day by day and hope it lasts.Mackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02417879115453658262noreply@blogger.com