tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post3367467638375327690..comments2024-03-07T20:17:12.957-07:00Comments on One Step at a Time: Rimming (NSFW)Buddy Bearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-76970873070355668212012-02-03T20:26:48.451-07:002012-02-03T20:26:48.451-07:00I get to be the spoilsport here (medical man that ...I get to be the spoilsport here (medical man that I am). Rimming is has the most chance of getting all sorts of diseases, from hepatitis to E col infections etc. So please be careful and wash thoroughly if you are going to do this.Ur-spohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04237644452200889946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-28896357241249761312012-02-03T14:31:23.116-07:002012-02-03T14:31:23.116-07:00Great comment Sean. I guess the way I look at it, ...Great comment Sean. I guess the way I look at it, I'm interested in people, and we all have our issues, baggage, health problems, flaws, whatever. Some more serious than others, but at the end of the day, if you're a great guy, that's what counts and whatever comes with making it work is worth it. My hubby married me before I was diagnosed with a disease that altered our lives and sex life and am still dealing with to this day, so I'm sensitive to the act of discounting people on what they may be dealing with as opposed to who they are. Acknowledging the fear is one thing; giving into it is another. I have been with men who are +, some I knew about, some I'm sure I didn't. I'll take a sane pos man with a sex precautions over a psycho neg man any day! Again, loved your comment. Thanks for weighing in.Seanhttp://idleeyesandadormy.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-56928731553864279082012-02-03T13:42:49.306-07:002012-02-03T13:42:49.306-07:00Mmm, rimming.Mmm, rimming.Cubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15419686621818785014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-17874946599472116612012-02-03T12:57:47.884-07:002012-02-03T12:57:47.884-07:00Sean: I am with you on your comment on HIV+ guys. ...Sean: I am with you on your comment on HIV+ guys. I was in a relationship with one for almost 3 years. He took his meds (I never had to remind him) and also took care of me... There were always cautionary rules... We parted ways, after living together for 2 years, for other reasons, but I would never remove another + guy from a real partner list, just because of his status.Thomas (Tom) Rimingtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02305225999248242356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-83046088519708166902012-02-03T11:29:42.813-07:002012-02-03T11:29:42.813-07:00How big of a jump is it really from going down on ...How big of a jump is it really from going down on a woman and rimming a man?<br /><br />I'd like to you do some more research or talk about dating a HIV+ man. It sounds like Dave has issues with it and may not be the best person to talk it over with. Over 25% of men who are + don't know it. So who is it safer to have sex with? A + man will probably be on meds which probably means that he has very little viral load and is possibly (not all docs agree) less able to infect than a + man not on meds who can have a high VL and be much more infectious. <br /><br />I've dated (not just hooked up with) two + men (and I'm sure I've hooked up with many who didn't disclose or didn't know). The first I met on a DC AIDS Ride and it was a brief but intense love affair. We parted on very good terms. He was healthy then and is today, 15 years later. The second guy told me on our second date and HE never called me. We bumped into each other a year or so later and he told me that he didn't call because he was freaked that I wasn't freaked that he was +. Much like Dave he had only had negative reactions to his disclosure. <br /><br />If you haven't experienced it yet, you probably will meet men who won't date you because you were married and or have children. It's not the same but it is rejection.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-84660824210870295812012-02-03T08:55:43.563-07:002012-02-03T08:55:43.563-07:00When I do rim, the 2 times I have, the guy has to ...When I do rim, the 2 times I have, the guy has to be really hot, seem normal, and of course clean. Otherwise the entire idea turns me offJaredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17696818801969901670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3970098682068094639.post-89148457529874620332012-02-03T07:32:50.249-07:002012-02-03T07:32:50.249-07:00I too was unsure about rimming, but after my first...I too was unsure about rimming, but after my first time I was totally into it. Of course cleanliness is important. I love to rim and be rimmed. I love to hear and feel the reaction of my partner when I am feverishly licking his hole. Are real turn on for me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com