A few times a week, I will pick him up after school or very early on a weekend morning and go back to my place for several hours of sweet sexytime. Then, I drive him back home, a 70 km round trip. I would never do this extra driving for just any hookup dude, but for Lucas, it's no problem.
Lucas gave me his cell phone number so I regularly receive sweet texts from him rather than messaging through Grindr. But now, I'm hoping that he's not growing attached to me to some degree. Ethan, 25 year old UK blogger a wrote in a recent post: "I think I have made the common young men's mistake and grown a bit attached," referring to an older guy he had been seeing.
But a dilemma has arisen; a second Brazilian boy has been messaging me persistently on Grindr, as many as five messages per day, and sending me pictures of his beautiful body. He now wants to meet me. Juan is 20 and describes himself as "so shy." Both Brazilian boys are part of a contingent of 200 Brazilian college graduates who are in town on an 18 month immersion programme to learn English.
The Grindr GPS tells me that the boys live on opposite ends of town but chances are they have met; the Brazilian contingent attends events together at the college. On the other hand, they are both closeted and are unlikely to discuss the tubby, middle-aged old fart which they are both hooking up with. It's a tough call, but I think I'll accept Juan's offer. YOLO!
In other news, I did tell Obese Politican that I would be interested in meeting me for an occasional coffee. Since then, he has messaged me persistently on various sites: if I don't respond on Squirt.org, then the moment I log onto Grindr, ..... "ping" ....., I get a message alert from him. I feel like I'm being stalked and it's just getting annoying.
My reality is, I don't have the time, energy nor the desire to deal with someone as needy or pushy as him. I'll have to tell him to lay off, real soon.