Sunday, November 3, 2013

Hunky blue-collar men

This was to be another "nothing going on" post as I'm spending yet another weekend working at home;  not  completely alone because my son's here.  In fact, there's a great deal going on but none of it involves being in bed with a sexy man.

My hookups are pretty much on hold because they're just too time-consuming.  Most require that I spend hours trolling on squirt.org to find a willing partner, perhaps driving into town and then having sexytime for another hour or two on top of that.

As a result of my temporary state of self-imposed celibacy, I am in a constant state of lust.  I'm craving cock real bad..... just obsessed! 

I spent much time at Homo Depot, buying supplies and ogling the hottest men in town, probably straight, lean and lightly muscled, scruffy -faced, wearing work boots and filling out their jeans beautiful, both front and back.

Random comments:

1.   I have 70+ mid-term report cards to finish by week's end complete with comments, but before I even begin those, I have stacks of marking to do including three class sets of tests.  Yikes!   Marking is the only part of teaching which I don't like.

2.   My living room gutting / renovation project is going very well but is proceeding about four times more slowly than had it been new construction.  

The demolition part of the project is a challenge because everything was put together with huge spikes.  Also, the existing rat's nest of electrical wiring was a bit frightening, actually, and I've spent much time re-wiring it and figuring out which wire goes where.


3.  My ex-wife politely texted to ask if she could have the headboard of our former marital bed.   I was happy to let her have it because I am no longer using it.  I feel that it's important for us to be cooperative whenever possible because it will generate good will which will carry forward to other, more difficult situations in the future .  

The headboard was a easy thing for me to give up because I don't like the welded metal curlicues on it.  Too ornate!  But what I didn't tell her was that I sometimes need to hang onto a sturdy headboard when I'm banging some guy and this one was too flimsy.  It just didn't serve the purpose for me!

4.   My son continues to live with me full-time and shows no signs of wanting to spend time with his mother.  I'm glad he feels comfortable here;  we get along perfectly and are now closer than ever but I feel strongly that he needs to have two parents in his life.

Various people tell me that my son and his mother are going through "a phase" and that things will improve.  I think that he'll always need to keep his distance from her;  it's the only way that my son can guard against her bossy, micromanaging ways, not to mention her flashes of anger.

5.   When I do start having men over again, I've decided that I will have to have a honest discussion with my son.  While it is fine to sneak the occasional closeted, married dude into the Love Nest under the cover of darkness, there are other hookup-up guys who I would like to be more open about with my son.

For example, both Big Red and I would like to have a sleep-over here one day;   he's a fine young man (24) making his way in the world, a quality person, and it would be highly disrespectful to him for me to sneak him in as though he was some dirty little secret.

But that's another bridge to cross!





18 comments:

  1. That was probably one of the hottest posts I've ever read about NOT having sex.

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    1. Really? Thank you!

      I'm glad you liked it, but I had to re-read it find out what was so 'hot' about it. It must be an example of "less is more."

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  2. I will be curious to know how you and your son sort things out. Most kids are still creeped out/disapprove of their parents doing ANYTHING but being their parent. Children can be rather stuffy that way.

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    1. We will ease into the discussion when the time is right; it doesn't have to happen right away. My son is very cool, relaxed and drama-free (rather like I am), so I doubt that he will react negatively in any way.

      In any case, it won't be an explicit, in-your-face type of discussion but my kids will get the message and be okay with it, I'm sure. But I will have to make clear to them that I won't be having men friends over when their friends are here.

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  3. You need one of these:

    http://www.roomandboard.com/rnb/product/detail.do?productGroup=19564&catalog=filter&menuCatalog=room&menuCategory=191&menuSubcategory=135

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    1. Yes, that bed looks great! I love it! To cut costs, I was actually planning to make a similar sort of headboard out of peeled, very skinny tree trunks, cut from the forest behind my house.

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  4. I'm glad you're going to speak with your son; as you may remember I advised this some while ago. I know that children are supposed to be creeped out by the idea of their parents having sex, but from what you've said about him I think your son is more mature than that. He sounds like a young of whom any father would be very proud.

    My college age adopted daughters were very supportive of my dating and were anxious for me to find someone wonderful to be happy with. When that man came along, they were welcoming and came to love him as a second father (they still call us Daddy 1 and Daddy 2). I feel sure you'll handle things with your son very well.

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    1. Oh, and I am absolutely crazy about what's going in in picture #1!

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    2. Thanks, Will. I'm sure my son and daughters will take it all in their stride with no problems. They are as drama-free as I am!

      And yes, I loved picture #1. It was originally was a GIF (super hot) but sadly, the animation disappeared when I posted it on my blog.

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  5. The toughest thing kids face with their parents is the fact they have sexual needs. The thing most seem to hate is when a parent starts seeing people who could be a sibling...

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    1. I should have been clearer, I won't be dating or getting into an LTR with men in their early 20s.

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  6. I don't think it's ever easy for a divorced parent, straight or gay, to start dating again, and to eventually do it in front of their children. While I do not condemn "extra-marital" sex, we as a society tend to encourage children to avoid it (not that it helps), so I have to wonder how he'll feel about dad having sleep overs with guys not that much older than he is. That being said, no one knows your son like you do, and since you seem to be extremely level-headed, and a great father to him, I can't imagine that he'd be anything but thrilled that you do have a (sex) life! I guess it's just another one of the challenges of parenting any young man! You'll be fine, and he'll be creeped out at first, but just make sure y'all don't appear in the kitchen the next morning in each others underwear or something and he'll get over it! HAHAHAHAHA

    And I do LOVE that first picture! I'd love to have that cock to do that to!!!

    Peace <3
    Jay

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    1. I've addressed the "age" thing in my next post. Yes, you are correct, I won't be flaunting my hookups with the early 20s young men. I didn't mean that but this post did give that impression.

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  7. Sometimes looking for sex can be quite time consuming, even worse if nothing comes of it. Sometimes I prefer just jerking off to a porn to get the horniness out of my system so I can go on with my day.

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    1. Yes, cruising online can be very time-consuming, addictive, even. But for me, there is no substitute for having a real life, warm man in my bed, skin-to-skin contact and fantastic kissing!

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