Friday, September 27, 2013

Foreskin Friday

Recently, I was chatting with colleague about the upcoming birth of his first child, a son.   Both he and his wife are their early 40s and they'd long ago given up on the idea of conceiving.  Exciting times!

As an aside, I've rarely spoken to this colleague and I suspect that he doesn't know that I'm gay.

Colleague:   "Did you know that we have to pay $500 to get our son circumcised?  It's not covered under our provincial health plan any more."

Buddy Bear:  (horrified)   "It's not covered because it's not medically necessary!  WHY would you want to do that to him?"

Colleague:  "Well, I'm circumcised so I wanted him to be the same."

Buddy Bear:  (getting up on my soapbox)  "That's the worst reason in the world!  So..... just because your genitals were mutilated because that's what was done in the 60s, then you're going to do it to him?  The foreskin has 100s of millions of nerve endings which make sex much more pleasurable."

 Colleague:   "But I want him to look like all the other boys."

Buddy Bear:  "The vast majority of young men in our town these days are uncircumcised."

Colleague:  "How do you know that?"

Buddy Bear: (...er....awkward pause, thinking of all the 22 year old uncut cocks I've sucked in the past two years.  LOL)  "Err .... I just know, that's all!  

You need to think this over. Why would you pay money to carve up your son's cock just for cosmetic reasons.   Unnecessary surgery.  And it might harm how it functions.  How about if I email you some information on the subject?"

Colleague: "Okay."

The fact is, circumcision rates in Canada still around 30% and dropping.  Rates in the USA are 60% and are rising for some inexplicable reason.   While there are religious groups who favour this procedure, circumcision rates are heavily influenced by whether or not the father is circumcised.

I think an uncut cock is a thing of beauty.  Every time I have one in my mouth and run my tongue between the cockhead and foreskin, I get increasingly pissed off that my foreskin was cut off.   I am certain that my circumcision has caused me a lack of sensitivity.  For example, I've ever cum during a blowjob and I blame it on the fact that I was circumcised. 

But luckily,  there is an unlimited supply beautiful natural, uncut cocks in my town to enjoy.




40 comments:

  1. I agree with you 100%. I wish I hadn't been circumcised as an infant. I will always wonder what I'm missing. If an adult wants to make the decision, ok. But babies don't have a choice. And religion as a reason is just so wrong. As wrong as "because I want him to look like me."

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    1. Thanks for commenting. Yes, that's the problem isn't it? ..... no cut guy will ever know what it would have been like to have an intact foreskin.

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    2. There are some of us that have stretched the remaining skin until even when erect, there is loose skin to use while...well...wanking. It doesn't replace the foreskin, but it is a nice, extra bit of stimulation, when used with lube (I don't pre-cum a lot, never have for whatever reason)...
      Jay

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  2. I also wish I had never been circumcised. The thing that burns me is that the child never gets to make the decision, it's done for him and he lives with the consequences for the rest of his life. Public understanding is very low. One of my daughters had a woman's magazine in the house with a story on the horrors of female genital mutilation of various kinds. The author felt compelled to comment, "make no mistake here, we're not talking about something like male circumcision that involves cutting off a useless flap of skin." Useless TO WHOM, lady?

    I love the rare occasions when I get my hands and mouth on an uncut cock. I think they're incredibly beautiful -- thanks for the lovely gallery you posted! And thank you for your passionate defense of your friend's son's foreskin.

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    1. Thanks for you passionate defense of the foreskin! I've actually sucked a lot of uncut cock here but it's age-related. Every guy over the age of 40 I've encountered is cut and the 20-something guys are less likely to have been done.

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    2. I've seen more young guys uncut than I've managed to "do". The two I've had were awesome, and I'd worship their cocks until they couldn't stand it any more. But I'd do the same for any other guy. However, an uncut cock is a special encounter!!!
      Jay

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  3. I like them either way, as long as they're hard. I like my circumcised dick, just fine. It's pretty and gets compliments). As for you not cumming from a blow job... while I know this is a problem for some, maybe you haven't met the right cocksucker yet... just a thought. - Uptonking from Wonderland Burlesque

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  4. Did we know this about you? TMI - NOT!

    I think most of the world doesn't go for circumcision anymore but for religious reasons. There is a debate about uncut cocks have an increased risk of std's (especially HIV) and cancer but it's not conclusive. You should show him the risk and mistakes and deaths that have occurred because of getting cut.

    BTW - if you goole it, there is are methods for growing (actually stretching) the skin of the penis to 'regrow' your foreskin. There is one blogger in MA (I think) who I used to read that blogged (among other things) about his regrowing his foreskin. He was at about 60% when I lost track of him. It takes a lot of will and determination as it takes years. He did say he had some increased sensitivity.

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    1. I said TMI - NOT! meaning that we should have know this sooner.

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    2. I knew you were joking, Sean! But I`m not sure if you were referring to by being cut or me never cumming during blowjob.

      I'll look up regrowing foreskin online. But it sounds a bit scary, actually.

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    3. I meant being cut. You've definitely talked about not cumming by bj before. a suggestion, next time you want to cum that way...jerk yourself just to the point of no return and then let the guy finish you. If you don't cum, then repeat. This would work best with a true cocksucker or with someone who is willing to work with you. And yes, there are cocksuckers, true worshipers and experts, that exist on a level far beyond mere lovers of cock.

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    4. Your suggestion sound excellent! I plan to post about this in detail tomorrow, but my problem is that I've never been with a "cocksuckers, true worshipers and experts."

      By the way, I place myself in the "cock worshiper" category with confidence.

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    5. Or let me work on you! I learned how to use the foreskin while sucking cock (there is very little sucking involved). Hmmmmmmmm....ummmmm.....yyyyuuuummmm....
      Jay

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  5. Hmmmmm. I think uncut cocks are fantastic and they have lots of sensitivity!!!! But I like the others too.

    But, I do also think that cumming from a BJ is not necessarily related to being cut or uncut.

    And, why, Sean, is that TMI?

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  6. FWIW I really prefer cut dicks... and I've always been a little puzzled by the "my uncut dick is more sensitive" claim. I can see how it could possibly be true, but in my experience, cut guys respond to head much more dramatically than uncut guys do. I am not uncut myself so maybe I don't know my way around a foreskin very well, but I'm pretty attuned to my partner and eager to please when I do get around to giving head, and if anything uncut dicks seem *less* sensitive to me, somehow. I had an uncut boyfriend for a year and a half and we were pretty open about what we liked, and I honestly doubt that in the end it makes a huge amount of different except when you're masturbating, when a foreskin is probably a plus.

    I just think cut dicks are incredibly beautiful, and uncut ones a little... I dunno, inelegant? But I've never had to make that decision for a child, so I don't know how I would make it.

    Like you, I couldn't cum from blowjobs for pretty much the entirety of my 20s. But I think that was a mental thing, more than a physical thing. When I was younger I was much less comfortable with the kind of focused attention on me required to get off from head. Now I love it and have cum from head in seconds before when I was really excited! Honestly I think sexual pleasure and arousal is much more a mental thing than a physical thing, even for someone like me, who is extremely physical sexually.

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    1. "I think that was a mental thing"..... yes, I think that's exactly my situation. I really should address this issue in my next post.

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    2. The whole sensitivity thing mystifies me. I know how great I feel even though I am cut. I know how great the two uncut dicks' owners felt when I "did" them. Who is to judge?

      Here's a story. I was in the hospital for out-patient surgery on my varicose veins. The guy in the bed next to me was older (probably in his 40's, I was in my 20's). I overheard the conversation between him and his "new wife". "She wants me circumcised. She doesn't like my skin." The doctor sighed. I wanted to scream "DIVORCE HER!!!! Number TWO SUCKS (OR DOESN'T BUT WHO CARES?????)!!!! DON'T CUT IT OFF!!!!! But in recovery, he was moaning, I was moaning, and the poor guy lost more than he could imagine.
      Jay

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  7. never been with an uncut guy in my life. now THAT'S TMI! ;-b

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    1. That's okay, sweetie! It all adds to our discussion!

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  8. I LOVE an uncut cock!!! Wish mine hadn't been whacked, but in 1958, something like 98% were. It costs $25, was covered under insurance, and typically the consent was signed when you signed into the hospital to deliver, probably not even noticing what you were signing. The whole "I want him to look like me" argument is so damn stupid it's not funny.

    I've had two "relationships" with uncut dicks, and oh man, could I drive them crazy with that foreskin. TMI, I know! My cut one is plenty sensitive, but the bill for KY Jelly is pretty steep!

    Peace <3
    Jay

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  9. I'm cut and glad of it. Looks better, stays cleaner, and no worries about spreading cervical cancer. If I had any more sensitivity there on account of being uncut -- I probably wouldn't be able to handle that.

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    1. Excellent! A vote for cut cocks! Thanks for commenting.

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    2. Stays cleaner? I've never had a "dirty" uncut dick. Never smelled one, never seen one, never heard of one...why is a cut cock cleaner than a properly cleaned uncut one? If you can teach a child to wipe his ass after taking a crap, you can teach him to properly clean his penis, cut or uncut.

      Now as far as the sensitivity part, yeah, mine goes nuts just like the uncuts I've had. The "looks better" part is purely subjective, so I will not judge at all.

      Jay

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  10. Thanks for speaking up about circumcision with your colleague. If you need more information to give him, check out my other blog (http://uncutplus.blogspot.com). In the sidebar is a lot of info about what can go wrong with circumcision. Thankfully, I was left intact when I was born in 1942. To Mike, above, a cut cock does not stay cleaner, because you cannot imagine how much fun an intact cock is in the shower! When on the UncutPlus blog, check out "Who Your Blogger is".

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    1. Thanks! I've added uncutplus to my blogroll as well. To add my two cents, I've never encountered an uncut cock which was unclean..... my men seem practice good personal hygiene.

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    2. There are men into unclean cocks and like when they get really stinky and a substance forms under the skin - it's called head cheese. There are men who love to clean these cocks and there are men who love to grow the cheese and then have their cocks cleaned. For the record, I like'm clean! Just so ya know.

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    3. Yes, that's good to know! lol

      You're just a font of knowledge, Sean! I looked it up online and the technical name is SMEGMA. If I got some smegma in my mouth when I was sucking a cock, I would lose my lunch. Disgusting!!

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    4. I had no idea you did uncutplus! COOL!

      Jay

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    5. Well, I have to keep a few secrets lest some people (family) find out TMI about me. Yep, one and the same.

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  11. I'm cut and had my son cut too back in the "dark" ages. I do regret that and love an uncut cock. Some do look pretty ugly though, so it depends on the shape and size of the head. When the head is big and the hood bulges around it can look shitty. But given the chance I would have gone back. You can always cut if off later if you want, but it's too late for me now.

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    1. Yes, I've seen some unattractive foreskins but only online. To be honest, by the time I see an uncut cock in real life, it is usually fully erect and the foreskin has already retracted.

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    2. I guess I can be honest and say I've seen unattractive foreskins. But I've also seen unattractive circumcised penises. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

      I do think that going forward, circumcision should NOT be recommended, suggested, or otherwise made "easy" by the medical industry, and they should argue against it. To those who say "circumcision reduces the chances of contracting HIV/AIDS", I say "teach your children safe sex, and ignore studies that take all their data from third world African countries where condoms aren't even in the vocabulary".

      Thanks for letting me have my say. I hope I haven't offended anyone.
      Jay

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  12. Might I propose an end to any TMI concerns here? What Buddy Bear has created and nurtured by his intelligence, honesty, curiosity, and good humor leavened by a welcome dollop of raunch about his continuing sexual exploration and expertise, is a community of sexually diverse and active gay/bi men (and one valued female friend). If an individual man declines to reveal something about his sex life or any other part of his life, that's his business to which he has every right. I feel that a totally open and honest discussion without any embarrassment is something we can all handle and from which we can all benefit -- and enjoy.

    For my part, I have cone to like you guys and enjoy checking in at your blogs, but encountering you here in open discussion is the real pleasure!

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  13. Uncut cocks can be a joy to play with - BUT...
    Unfortunately there are not enough fathers out there who teach their sons proper hygiene. This turns out men who don't even have enough sense to skin it back when taking a piss, let alone cleaning the area once in a while.

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  14. Since a prick is probably one of the least compelling body parts I look for in a potential partner (as long as "the absence of the other" holds, we're good), not sure why all this discussion about it.

    Simply put, if you have a ten inch, beautiful prick (cut or uncut) but you also have a $1 brain to go with it (and many other unredeeming qualities), that boner is meaningless.

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  15. My foreskin is missing too.... and my penis has brown marks on it too. I heard it was from the circumcision........I make sure that all my male equipment is clean. If I forget I have side effects to deal with.......I am a grower and I don't have much feeling down there.... I try restoring but my penis just couldn't handle it...Today I am ok with a circumcised penis....But it has been rejected a few times in the sex dept. But that ok too.....

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  16. I always wonder why I couldn't cum with a blow job...I appreciate your answer.. Now I know its because I am circumcised....

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