Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Phone sex

What do you think about phone sex?   I have done it a couple of times over the past year .... engaging in slutty talk over the phone to some guy as he wanks off.  I didn't really see it's appeal although the guys I've talked to seem to appreciate my efforts!

Recently, I've been having a phone and texting "relationship" at the request of a 24 year old welder who had been messaging me for some weeks on pof.com.   Hottie Welder is yet another "bi-curious" straight guy struggling with a M2M attraction while living with his girlfriend.

I feel conflicted about the situation. I empathize with his angst and uncertainty about his sexuality and would like to help him if possible.  But my main interest is to get into his pants.

Who wouldn't?  From his profile, he is 6'-2" with an athletic build and lists hockey and football as his interests.   A real manly-man!  During our conversations, he's taken to e-mailing iPhone snaps of various parts of his anatomy;  beautiful hair chest, beefy thighs and thick, cut, hard cock.  He also told me he has a beard.  Swoon!!

Although I always have felt silly doing phone sex before this, it's very hot with Hottie Welder, hearing the yearning in his masculine voice, the heavy breathing.  I always get rock hard during our conversations.

Last week he texted me several times during a SuperBowl party with his buds.   His girlfriend was out having a girls' night out and he was a bit drunk.  He asked me several times ... no, begged me... to come pick him up when the party was over (at 1:00 am!!) and bring him to my house.  He said he was shy and uncertain of what to do with a guy so that I would have to take the lead.  No problem there!

It was an irresistible thought;  having a masculine, blue-collar, drunk young man in my bed, desperate for his first M2M action!   But with the greatest regret, I declined.  I feared that I would have sunk to a new low, taking sexual advantage of a drunk, younger man.

As well, the new semester was starting the next day where I'd be facing 75 new students in new courses. I just could not function effectively if I spent the night making two round trips into to town to pick up Hottie Welder as well as doing the nasty with him in between.

This week, Hottie Welder phoned me a couple of times.  He's keenly interested in my coming out history and peppered me with questions.  When did I first notice an attraction to men? (age 35)   How many blowjobs have I given?  (several dozen at least)  He insisted I tell him stories about my gay experiences:  losing my gay virginity, the largest cock I ever sucked (stoner dude), the smallest (micropenis guy), the best kisser and the times I deflowered a bottom virgin.

On other occasions, he asks me what I do pleasure a man;  ass play, kissing, ball licking, prostate massage, tongue under foreskin as well as the blowjob itself.  Would I consider doing anal with him a both top and bottom?  He always asks, "When we're together, can you do ______  to me or can we do ______?" 

He lives only 15 minutes away from me but finding time away from his girlfriend (and when I don't have my kids with me) is a challenge.  But I would bet that he and I will be getting cozy in the near future.

8 comments:

  1. been there done that; feeling is meh. hottie welder sounds HAWT!

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  2. Oddly enough, I've never done phone sex of any kind. Not even with my wife during my long business trips. I hate being on the phone for any length of time with anyone, for anything. Is that weird?

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  3. I did a fair amount of phone during the early years of my coming out to myself, and before I came out publicly. Ultmately, I wanted real men with me but I did discover something about myself. While I never have and never would mistreat or hurt any man I am with, over the phone, working with just a voice and being urged by a hot-voiced young man from Atlanta, I could be dominant, rough and raunchy and have a very good time. The intriguing possibilities of phone include visiting identities you would never really want to inhabit.

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  4. I LOVE phone sex. But, it is how I started to act out my fantasies with men. I actually started doing it when it cost 2.99 a minute, and it was before I was married. I started again later after married. I am an auditory person, and I can not watch porn with out sound. It does it for me, but it does lead to wanting the real thing.

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  5. Why do I always get hard when I read your blog? Please come answer me in person.

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